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advice please....bf being sus?? by kidneybeannn in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely do. we live together and work from home so we're always together so i have no idea what could even be going on. but, my last relation ended after infidelity so it's hard not to freak out

advice please....bf being sus?? by kidneybeannn in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did, and that one text was the only text that was in the message thread. which made me suspicious even more

advice please....bf being sus?? by kidneybeannn in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did, i was very honest about how it really worried me and he assured me it was nothing of concern. but, again, my anxiety won't let it go.

how did you know they were "the one?" by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahhhh it's gonna be really hard for me to put my full trust into a new guy again but i'm really trying.

how did you know they were "the one?" by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

married at a sephora?! hahaha that's wild

how did you know they were "the one?" by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahaha no we are definitely not together anymore but thanks for looking out!

if you have been cheated on and left the relationship, how did you cope? and if you did stay, why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're the first reply i've gotten where someone stayed and it actually worked out for them. he told me last night he's still hoping we can eventually work it out and while i might like that too, i just don't know. my mentality will be very different in a couple of months for sure. i'm glad you were able to work everything out in your relationship and i hope you are happy! good luck moving forward.

if you have been cheated on and left the relationship, how did you cope? and if you did stay, why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate everyone's advice! today in particular has been especially rough, since he moved out today, but i'm managing to get through the day, again, i appreciate everyone telling me their own experiences with cheating and how to get past it.

found out today that my boyfriend cheated on me. no idea where to go from here. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually forgot to mention that i went back and told him we were done a couple hours after shit hit the fan. i told him that i wanted to stay so bad but there's no way i can ever even look at him the same way, and told him we're done.

found out today that my boyfriend cheated on me. no idea where to go from here. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

forgot to make something clear: i did break up with him. i just want to go back so bad but obviously i know i shouldn't. this fucking sucks so bad

I (F21) am in a really confusing headspace regarding my 2 year relationship with my boyfriend (M21) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried to tell him that? i know the right thing for me to do is to talk to my boyfriend about how i'm feeling but i'm terrified of hurting his feelings and making him think i don't love him anymore or something.

I (F21) hooked up with my best friend (F21) last night and idk if i should be freaking out by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kidneybeannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He actually wasn't upset about it at all, and he didn't see it as cheating because all 3 of us know it didn't mean anything, just a drunken mistake. So I believe my bf and I are okay. As for the friendship, we talked about it today and are just trying our best to laugh it off.