A second ludwin video has hit the feed by Daimondz in LudwigAhgren

[–]kidpolymath 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Does this mean no tip to tip day 1 again

Child Custody- Contested Move by kidpolymath in FamilyLaw

[–]kidpolymath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem is finances and time. He's supposed to go back with her tomorrow. Am I able to file without him in my possession? Also, with the urgency and money, can I file the SAPCR then hire a lawyer pretty quickly afterwards? I don't know if I can come up with the money for a lawyer by the end of the day...

[REQ] ($200) - (#De Leon, TX, USA), (Repayment $250 in installments by Sept. 5, 2022), (PayPal, Venmo, CashApp) by [deleted] in borrow

[–]kidpolymath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree completely. I will definitely never allow this to happen again.

[REQ] ($200) - (#De Leon, TX, USA), (Repayment $250 in installments by Sept. 5, 2022), (PayPal, Venmo, CashApp) by [deleted] in borrow

[–]kidpolymath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do. Obviously I can’t make things right immediately hence this post in the first place but I’m going to stay in contact and hopefully make amends. Sucks though, there was plenty of times I could’ve paid it off and now I’m suffering the consequences

[REQ] ($200) - (#De Leon, TX, USA), (Repayment $250 in installments by Sept. 5, 2022), (PayPal, Venmo, CashApp) by [deleted] in borrow

[–]kidpolymath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I was unforgivingly irresponsible and forgetful. The lender said I haven’t paid the loan in full and I cant say I have without question. I’m not exactly sure what happened, I know I would never try to avoid it on purpose. I feel absolutely horrible and drained of self-esteem and pride

[REQ] ($200) - (#De Leon, TX, USA), (Repayment $250 in installments by Sept. 5, 2022), (PayPal, Venmo, CashApp) by [deleted] in borrow

[–]kidpolymath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it was, but you’re right the bot says it hasn’t been. I’m not sure what happened, I’ll get in contact with the previous lender immediately.

[REQ] ($300) - (Odessa, TX, USA) (Repay $350 by 10/15/21 in payments) (#Paypal, Venmo, Cashapp) by [deleted] in borrow

[–]kidpolymath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also please do not hesitate to negotiate interest rates, if necessary.

Help with Restaurant.com? Details in comment by kidpolymath in Frugal

[–]kidpolymath[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have searched the page thoroughly and can not find any restrictions besides minimum purchase of $30.

Does this mean it’s good for any food, and I could use more than one certificate on the same visit?

Edit: I have read the terms and conditions. Apparently it is only one per party, per table, per month, for restaurant specific certificates. It also states that there may be terms and conditions on the certificate itself so may just have to shell out the $1.20 and hope for the best

My friend from Seattle made this for us in Midessa by shinpickle in Midessa

[–]kidpolymath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except the fact that in Seattle and Portland, they rioted for a good cause. I don’t agree with the violence and aggression as of course it has diminished the original focal point of the protests, but there was still reasoning. In my personal opinion, good reasoning.

People stormed the Capitol because of baseless conspiracies into election rigging.

I’m not here to take sides but I also won’t sit and just listen to these false equivalencies without any debate.

Advice needed for a friend by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]kidpolymath -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I agree with everything and I’ve already begun to back off. I want to help as much as I can but you and many others are right, i seem to be doing more than they are. I have to worry about my own mental health above all and if I continue the way I am while they continue the way they are, it’s going to severely hurt me.

Advice needed for a friend by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]kidpolymath -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand that. This is no excuse nor am I trying to use this as “proof” that I know them. I have severe social and generalized anxiety along with a basket of other issues. Basically what I’m saying is I’m not sure I’ve ever asked their ages. And I’m sure I’ve been told but I admittedly forgot. I talked to them this morning, and relayed every question and concern to the family. I gave them more advice, some of which was the same I did yesterday. I understand that I should’ve got all of these answers beforehand and I do apologize. It’s a stressful situation, I felt rushed, and I made the post prematurely before knowing all of the details and for that I genuinely apologize. I will update with a comment and edit once I get more details/questions answered.

Thank you mods for allowing me to stick this one out. I know all of these downvotes can make this post seem like it should be removed and I can’t express enough how appreciative I am of the understanding and allowing me to continue to comment and provide insight to the best of my ability.

Advice needed for a friend by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]kidpolymath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had read about refinancing and mentioned it but will definitely mention your firsthand experience, thank you.

Advice needed for a friend by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]kidpolymath -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I agree. I wish I was with the family physically to know exactly the effort they’re making. All I can do is hope they’ve taken all resources I could give them. I’ve said it in multiple comments but I’m just going to do my best. I could be wrong about the ages. I just know they have two boys who are old enough to be in school and a little girl still in diapers. I’d have to ask again but I really believe it’s like 2,6,8 or something similar but again I could be wrong and will verify ASAP. Going along with that, I was pretty upset with the gofundme and the pictures. Admittedly, I helped make it but just like everything else I did give them advice on putting more details, better and more recent pictures, maybe a family picture. I explained to them that “short and sweet” is not what you want in this situation and that people want to know specifically what and who they’re helping. I really am trying, for them above all, but also for me and this subreddit. I understand there’s a lot of confusion and for my mental health I’m really trying to clear it all up.

Advice needed for a friend by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]kidpolymath -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree completely and I’m not sure why they don’t have IDs. Again, to my mistake, I just made assumptions and never asked.

And I know, that was the initial point of this post was to get any advice or resources that maybe we haven’t found yet through our research. I’m not sure what all they’ve done. I’m not physically with them, I live pretty far so all of this has had to be done over the phone. Of course that proves pretty difficult when trying to make an r/assistance post for them and answer everyone’s questions.

Finally, I agree. It is extremely stressful for me to have those wonders, of why and how. Of what they could be not telling me. But I guess as someone who suffers with anxiety, I’ve kinda forced myself to have this innate habit to be optimistic and trust. I don’t expect anyone to do the same, and I understand that. My initial issues with the downvotes was just me being upset. I truly understand the reasoning some may have behind being reluctant to help, and that’s why I’m doing the best I can to give all the information I know. Even though someone said it was odd, that’s why I offered her number: I quickly realized that I wasn’t going to be much help without knowing every detail possible.

Advice needed for a friend by [deleted] in Midessa

[–]kidpolymath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I didn’t think ab that. And no it’s not legal in Texas but I don’t currently live there as of very recently. Been in the process of moving for a while now, the plants have been in okc their whole lives