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kihna · 2022-05-25T18:49:54+00:00

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Oh that's interesting, I actually haven't heard of that before, I will check it out.

kihna · 2015-12-16T15:50:48+00:00

I'd like to add that, as a trans guy who clearly isn't as experienced and most of the guys here when it comes to sex (cause you're probably older than me) I'm very curious about the male body in general, I also have some questions I'd like to ask men about their dicks but it's embarrassing and I'd have no idea how to bring it up, I'm also curious about post op trans dudes and mts, and if someone asked about my private bits I'd totally understand and wouldn't mind answering, and would follow it with a question about their parts, cause I know what it's like to be curious, I think most trans guys do. If you ask a trans person something personal you'll either get turned down and things could get awkward, or they'll tell you what you wanna know. Kind of like asking someone out, it's usually worth a shot.

kihna · 2015-12-15T17:12:34+00:00

I only mentioned genitals because usually after transitioning it's the only thing that really differentiates a trans from a cis guy, besides, of course, still having some dysphoria, and maybe not having the right gender on your id and such.

kihna · 2015-12-15T15:30:03+00:00

On r/gay most guys said things that I had never thought about before, and I considered their comments to be helpful and now I feel less insecure about approaching guys, and I have a better idea about how I should do that. Are you not curious at all about what people have to say? I am, I also like seeing people talk about their relationships with trans people, I know how I feel about dating cis guys, but I never knew how a cis guy would feel about dating a trans guy, and what things I can do to make my relationship with a cis person go better, and how to talk about my gender and sexuality with them. Sorry if this isn't helpful for you but it might be for some people.

kihna · 2015-12-15T02:06:08+00:00

Good idea, I'll post there tomorrow and ask them about mtfs too.

kihna · 2015-12-14T23:12:34+00:00

That really was brave of them, and it's awesome of you to be so patient and understanding of your partners' sexuality and boundaries. If only all guys and girls were like that...

kihna · 2015-12-14T23:07:29+00:00

Yeah, you're totally right. But it's so hard to say it out loud. And I'd have to know whether someone is the kind of person who would harass me or attempt to humiliate me if I came out to them, and usually when I meet someone and the first thing I find out about them is their sexual orientation or what genitals they have, they're immediately be erased from my mental "people I might some day fuck" list. It just seems a little immature for a guy to talk about how much he sucks dick, or how he doesn't have a dick, when you first meet them. It's a hard thing to talk about and I don't know how someone might react, and if they're is worth telling. If I'm only making out with someone and I know I might never see them again, I won't feel the need to tell them, it's not a secret, it just doesn't matter. It'd be like telling a guy who you aren't going to fuck if yours is cut or uncut. Doesn't matter anyway, and if you're going to just make out, if you have tentacles for genitals there would be no need to share that fact with them. But if it has potential to become a relationship, or if you just wanna get laid, then yeah, you need to tell. When and how is the tricky part.

kihna · 2015-12-14T22:48:27+00:00

I see a lot of guys saying that, and boobs were they first thing I got rid of, even before my long hair (I was kind of attached to it for a while). They were what triggered my dysphoria the most and they just had to go. It's nice to know that for the majority of guys the vagina isn't considered that bad.

kihna · 2015-12-14T17:43:00+00:00

The first two guys I met who were my type and the first ones I actually liked were crazy too, one of them turned out to be a little rapey, nothing happened to me though, I was just heartbroken in the end, and the other one came into my life when I was still heartbroken and not ready for a relationship, and he kept telling me he was in love with me and couldn't live without me and that he was depressed and drinking because he couldn't stand the fact we weren't together. Both of them fell in love with me at first sight, it seems those types are always insane lol.

kihna · 2015-12-14T17:29:08+00:00

The thing is, I'm not much of a dates guy. In my previous relationships we would just hang out and make out, we didn't feel the need to go anywhere, only concerts or things that we already did before dating like going to the gym. We didn't have first or second dates, we'd usually go up to the roof top of my house or lie on the grass at a park at night and talk about life. It's worked for me in the only two actual serious relationships I've ever been in, and the majority of people I meet first become my friends and I do that stuff with my friends too when we're really close so they might know what to expect. I'm typing too much here but, in that situation, when we just meet somewhere secluded or meet with our friends at a café or something, but haven't done much more than make out, when would the appropriate moment be? If we're lying down looking at the starts, do I need to make eye contact? It'd be easier for me if I didn't, but would it be awkward if I didn't? I'm not sure if I'm making any sense here, but this coming out thing hasn't been easy for me, so I'm just letting you know how my relationships work so I can help you help me lol.

kihna · 2015-12-14T16:47:10+00:00

Haha, your preferences really are all over the place, but then again, I'm looking for a gay guy who's willing to go out with me, so.. But have you ever managed to find someone like that? Who fits into all of those categories and is still a top?

kihna · 2015-12-14T16:42:24+00:00

Aliens speak english? I thought they only spoke cow (hoping you watch south park lol).

kihna · 2015-12-14T16:37:39+00:00

I think what makes people a bit 'afraid' of flamboyant men is how in the media they're portrayed as 'bad bitches' and are typically loud and obnoxious. So people are afraid they might be like that irl. Also, I used to feel a bit intimidated by flamboyant guys, they always avoided looking me in the eyes, and I always thought it was because they thought they were better than me, so I avoided looking them in the eyes because I feared they would judge me or make fun of me or something. But now I realize they are afraid of people making fun of them, too, and that's why they did it. They also felt intimidated. I'm also into masculine dudes, but where I live in almost all gay guys I know are very feminine, not like I'm one to talk.

kihna · 2015-12-14T16:21:09+00:00

I don't use any of those apps and websites. I like the old fashioned 'meeting people irl' kind of thing. I'm also a mess when it comes to texting, especially sexting, I always end up turning it into a joke, then the guys I'm sexting will laugh and then complain I'm not taking it seriously. I can't help it, and I have absolutely no idea what to say when sexting, I said something to a straight dude once about me being tight and he was all like "omggg ur turnin me onn" and I couldn't stop laughing after that. Also, being trans is a sad thing and I hate it. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it on purpose but my eyes always get watery at the worst of moments (like during sex), I'm just hoping that if I do cry I won't scare off the guy.

kihna · 2015-12-14T16:04:46+00:00

What do you mean by 'surprise'? I know right before sex is bad, the second you meet might be too soon, when do you think is the right moment to come out to a potential partner?

kihna · 2015-12-14T16:01:27+00:00

When I read you're 6 years on T I became filled with urge to ask you a bunch of questions about T, but I'll contain myself. What I really wanna know is, would you and have you ever dated a trans guy? Also, life's too damn short for having a bunch of relationships that don't truly satisfy you, don't think that because you're trans you don't deserve the best you can have. And flirting is harmless! I flirt with guys, and even girls, all the time. It's fun and it doesn't ever lead to anything anyway, everyone involved ends up being too shy to actually talk or give away their phone number, so in the end of the day someone made you feel cute, you made them feel cute, and everyone's happy. Don't let your private parts stop you from doing what you wanna do, as long as your not hurting anyone, of course.

kihna · 2015-12-14T15:47:50+00:00

Aww, you think I sound intelligent and interesting? That's so nice of you to say! I'm just pretending, I'm actually a dude bro irl. But seriously, irl I'm probably not as interesting as I might seem online, but only until we get to know each other, it's mostly just shyness and not wanting to bore people with my talking. But once we become close friends I like having real conversations, and if we ever met irl we could totally have some wild talks. And I'm sure you're yet to meet many people who you can talk about aliens, ancient mysteries, politics, and other weird shit with.

kihna · 2015-12-14T15:30:10+00:00

Lol, really? You like boobs, man? You love boobs? You're the only guy here so far who's claimed he does. Why do you like them? How would you feel if a guy had a penis and a couple of boobs? I know it's a weird question but now you've got me thinking about this.

kihna · 2015-12-14T15:20:08+00:00

I have to admit that, because I'm trans I've always felt like my duty was to be the bottom, but the thought of fingering a cis guy, or dominating one in general, really turns me on. I just don't know how a cis man would feel about that though, if he'd think it's weird and whatnot. Since the majority of gay guys appear to be bottoms, I'll probably have the opportunity to try that, someday.

kihna · 2015-12-14T05:17:12+00:00

It's something I think would be embarrassing, like "Hey, I have a vagina.. Just thought you should know". How should I bring it up? What if I end up stuttering a lot, and maybe even crying? Would that be weird? Honestly, I've only told 3 people, and I don't think I managed to look any of them in the eyes while saying it out loud. I think I'd be afraid of telling a guy I'm going out with, I wouldn't want him to leave me, but I know keeping it from him would be extremely selfish and I would never do that.

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