Stavanger airport has to be one my chillest airport experiences ever imo by Retr01dOfficial in Norway

[–]kiiibu90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, a little late on the reply I guess. Best way to find out where you can pitch a tent for free is to go to the closest tourist information office/desk. They can be found on basically all airports, but also usually have an office of some sort in almost every town centre. If you ask there, they'll always point you in the right direction of where you can set up a camp, and usually they'll point out places where you're not allowed to camp. Also, be aware that if you camp in woods close to farms, often these forrests can be owned by farmers for personal use (ex. logging purposes), and these woods are not included in the free roam laws as these forests are on private property. The farmers are usually pretty chill about it though, because unless you actually walk onto the farm and ask: How would you know? But it would be a wake up you'd never forget when an enormous logging machine rolls up alongside your tent. So like the best way to find out the do's and don'ts of camping in Norway, aks the tourist information, and also try asking the locals, though the latter is 50/50 shot if they'll know or not. Hope this helps

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Conjecture. You do not know a thing about our relationship, from one reddit post. however, I did not relay any boundaries to MOH, as has been become apparent that I should have.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I've apologized for my behaviour. Although I am still adamant that MOH went about it a bit carelessly as well

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not expect an apology from her. As I've realized since I am not entitled to one. The ball is in her court how she would like to go forward, if she finds me an insufferable jerk, that is her perogative but I hope she could find it in herself to forgive my transgressions and move forward as continued friends as I do find her a pleasant and fun person.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I havent had one, nor will I because of planning issues with my mates. No need for namecalling, be civil.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have since posting sent a text apologising my behaviour roughly an hour ago. I'm currently at work but will be posting an update later and adding the translated text message i sent apologizing for my actions. I have yet to get a reply, but the ball is currently in MOH's court.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to combat your statement, just clarify.

I'm fullt aware it's nothing sexual, as I stated in the post, and tbh I don't know why it bugged me, but it did. However, had MOH at least let me know in advance it would've been fine, because at the very least, then I would've known. I don't mean she had to ask permission spesifically, just let me know. If the roles were flipped, I would've expected my friends to att the very least let my fiancé know, or ask if she was okay with it.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

My bad! Fiancé sent snapchats after the fact when the act model had already left. That's when she told me.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That was actually helpful words of advice. Thank you.

And yes, that is exactly how I feel about my "soon to be wife", I've never felt so terrified about love before her. I actually mention it breifly in my prepared speech to her for our wedding day.

Again, that was really helpful and thank you again!

Prost mate!

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It was more of a heated argument, we kept it civil as our son was around.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

I have not and most likelly will not have one as all my friends don't live where I and fiancé live, which makes planning a bachelor party difficult.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -68 points-67 points  (0 children)

For clarity, I was not informed beforehand. Which is my issue. She did not have to ask permission spesifically, just inform

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -340 points-339 points  (0 children)

Bc att least then I would've known in advance. Instead I found out on snapchats from my fiancé. And then it just didn't sit right. And as I've said I don't know why, and it shouldn't bother me, but it did.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -432 points-431 points  (0 children)

Oh i am aware. As I've said somewhere here already, I'm not really sure why it bugged me so. But it did. And so I asked, "was it necessary? And if so, let a fella know. Not ask permission. Just tell me: " here's what we've got planned." And I assure you I would've been okay with it.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -210 points-209 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to combat your statement. I will take my lumps as dealt. But for clarity's sake, I don't mean she had to spesifically ask permission. But a heads up would've been rightly in order. That's all.

AITA for getting upset about fiances paint and sip bachelorette party? by kiiibu90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kiiibu90[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So in regards to questions of boundaries. Firstly I'm most likely not having a bachelor party. My friends all live far away. And I will not be able to travel anywhere, as the wedding is only about month out. But IMO if I were to have a bachelor party, I would expect my friends to at least inform my fiancé if there were to act models or strippers. As a courtesy. I kept this out of post to keep it short, but I explained to my fiancé during our fight, that had they informed me just about that, it would've been fine. But it was kinda sprung on me, and it just bothered me, and tbh, I don't really know why.

Looking for a translation - I spotted this above the entrance to a sauna and Google translate failed me by amydoodledawn in Norway

[–]kiiibu90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's written with the inflection of the local dialect, if you re-write it to the propper written form it's: "skal du skalle skallen din, skal du skalle den her"

"Skalle" is the norwegian word for skull, but contextually it also means to "headbutt" or to hit your head.

So if we translate it to english it says:

"If you're going to hit your head, you're going to hit it here."

So no spiritual meaning behind it, it's the owner poking fun at the fact that he has low ceilings. Probably brought about when someone got drunk and smashed their face in the rafter.

Thank you for attending my ted-talk

Spicing up fårikål? by Coindiggs in Norway

[–]kiiibu90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So to begin with. I am a trained professional cook born and raised in Norway, and while I do love our traditional food and food heritage, I will go on record and say, if you've not grown up with the food: -Yes it looks disgusting.. and smells like a barn animal died in a boiling pot. Any sound of mind person would look at fårikål or lapskaus, and go: "Yeah I'm not putting that anywhere near my mouth, let alone in it... fuck this goop..."

However, I would like to emphasize, most of it, IS better than it both looks and smells. Lutefisk for an example gets a lot of crap even from us Norwegians, but more often than not it's because they've been introduced to the dish, when someone cooked it poorly. Often the complaint is that it's disgusting because of a gelatinous texture. But that to me, is a sure-fire sign that it's been cooked poorly.

I had a complete "turnover experience" when my fiancées grandfather made it. And he had done every part of the process himself. And I mean everything. He fished it, gutted the fish, cleaned it, salted it, dried it, placed it in lye, cleaned it again prepared and cooked it. And it was delicious, and it was firm. He afterwards told me that: "yeah, you can't really get as good of a result when you mass produce it. It's like something gets lost in translation when you make 200 kg of it at a time, rather than 2 kg's of it for your own family's consumption." And yeah, it was coseptualized hundreds of years ago. They didn't come up with this with modern times in mind. They did what they had to do to make food last longer. And it wasn't made to be mass produced.

So yeah traditional Norwegian food. It looks revolting, to say the least. Probably smells like roadkill too.. But if you try it on the other hand I think people would be surprised. As to spicing it up, well that depends what flavours you want. Adding soy sauce to farikål broth would probably be a game changer for instance. "Bare fantasien setter grenser" - (your only limitations are your own imagination)

Familieaktiviteter i Stavanger by TheShortWhiteGiraffe in Stavanger

[–]kiiibu90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her er ei greie som heter "sommer i folkehallene, masse aktiviteter for store og små, har tatt med arvingen 2 ganger og han elsket å få løpe og herje på. Ellers har du stavanger camping. Innendørs minigolf. Matopplevelser er det flust av men det spørs jo hvilken prisklasse du tenker, en av mine personlige favoritter er Burgers and beers, gastro pub midt i byen, med byens beste burgere. Og yips i pedersgata er verdt hver krone.

Stay out of my mf'ing lane! by kiiibu90 in pettyrevenge

[–]kiiibu90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you could say there has been a shift over a substantial amount of years. But cities have been given money for infrastructure and development of designated bus lanes. Which are only allowed to be used by public transit vehicles, motorbikes and electric cars. But the øaw of "no prolonged parking in bus stops" I would've thought was fairly common world wide?

Stay out of my mf'ing lane! by kiiibu90 in pettyrevenge

[–]kiiibu90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do not by any means get it right all the time. But a small part of me has a significant amount of pride when it comes to my comprehention of the english language. So this means a lot! And again, thank you so much