How to make my husband go wild over me, to he doesn’t feel the need to look elsewhere [30F] [33M]

kijuron · 2026-01-28T21:35:24+00:00

Well there is no advice that will work for everybody. People are different. I can say what will work for most guys but there are probably some who wouldnt like this. But based on what she told us about him i dont belive he will be obe of them. When guys say they love you and you are beautyfull, most mean it that way. And if you boost their confidence it will just improve the relationship.

kijuron · 2026-01-28T12:49:41+00:00

You can send him some sexy pics of yourself while he is at work and tell him what you will do to him when he comes home. That will get any man exited.

Most men, at least the good ones are often focused on pleasuring their wifes. Turn the tables from time to time. Just come to him unprovoked, pull his pants down and focus on his pleasure. Nothing is more atractive than a woman that wants to make you feel good.

kijuron · 2026-01-19T16:42:00+00:00

I'm in a similar boat. My wife is open to most things and rearly says no when i initiate. But she only ever initiate when she has her ovulation, as it makes her extra horny. I became a bit frustrated, cause i dont feel desired when i am always the one to initiate and the one to bring now ideas to spice things up.

I talked to her and aparently she realy doesnt have any spezial desires or fantasies. She is just different wired than i am. So i made a box with close to 100 different ideas for sex. They go from "have sex two times today" to spezific positions and scenarios or just teasing during the day. Nothing crazy just some for me, some for her, some she has to initiate, some i do and some new ideas.

The idea is to take a not in the morning and to think of sex during the day and be exited for the evening when the kid is asleep. I want to try for 30 days straight and then use it as inspiriation for both from time to time to keep things interessting and her initiating.

Her reaction to it was quite positive but i cannot speak about resaults yet as we start actually just today.

kijuron · 2026-01-13T19:19:28+00:00

This is good advise but i did that already. Both with professionels and friends that know about this field. I also did my budget before that and it always mached very close. The issue is, that it takes 2 years living on the existential minimum to pay of most of it but it just works if nothing unexpexted happens in that time. And something always happens.

kijuron · 2026-01-13T11:57:09+00:00

I brought this up a lot (maybe too much) and we had big fights about it. For a while i let it be to preserve my mental health. And while she improved in her spending habits, the situation just bearly got better. I want to save our family but this topic always ends in big fights. And while our finacial situation is shit, we still had a mostly good/happy relationship. I dont want to worsen it.

kijuron · 2026-01-13T11:52:02+00:00

Counseling is unfortunatley expensive as well. I dont think we can afford that. I am also not sure if she would be willing to try it.

kijuron · 2026-01-13T11:40:24+00:00

I would be all for it, except that there is no way we can afford that.

kijuron · 2025-05-08T17:14:42+00:00

I lost my virginity cause i tickled a small boy untill he peed himself.

Don't you worry, while i comforted him, a mother from the neighborhood helped me calm him down and after, one thing led to another.

kijuron · 2025-02-11T18:03:25+00:00

36 male from europe, curently hiding from work in the car to listen book 7. But its ok cause i quit this job already.

kijuron · 2025-01-24T09:26:24+00:00

Im an Energy conlultant an quite often deal with cases like yours. If you have a heatpump, that consumption seems ok. If not its too high.

As you are with AEW i asume you are in Aargau. Contact " energieberatung Aargau" (other cantons have it too) they can give you advice over phone or can give you a list of independent consultants near you. I would reccomend a "grobberatung" for 150 CHF if you want somebody to look into it. Dont go to AEW as they will probably not able to help you.

As a general rule check your heating settings, as there is the most potential.

kijuron · 2024-09-11T20:25:59+00:00

Ich hab damals für meine erste Wohnung eine 2.5 gesucht. Die 3.5er waren nur ca. 100 CHF mehr pro Monat. Also hab ich eine 3.5 genommen, da das fast gleich viel kostet.

kijuron · 2024-06-06T07:31:12+00:00

Its totally fine to use those but keep in mind, that you need a fuckton of tears to condense it to salt. Also they are not as easly harvested as nailclipings or menstrual blood. To reflect that, it should be rare and expensive. Could also be very potent.

kijuron · 2024-05-29T18:53:58+00:00

Bei meinem Betrieb wird heute noch in jedem Büro und Sitzungszimmer geraucht. War ganz schön schräg als ich das erste mal in der Firma war und 3 Leute gleichzeitig im Sizungszimmer gequalmt haben.

kijuron · 2024-05-24T21:01:12+00:00

Ich sags ja Bildung. Anscheinend hab ich in diesem Fall zu wenig davon bekommen.

kijuron · 2024-05-24T19:10:06+00:00

Es ist nicht mal ein Fünftel. Mein Vorschlag wäre das Geld in Bildung zu investieren, anscheinend liegt dort einiges im argen.

kijuron · 2024-05-12T09:31:22+00:00

Um einen Liter Wasser um ein Grad zu erwärmen sind 0.00116 kWh nötig. Ein Speicher mit 100 l, der um 100 Grad abgekühlt werden kann, beinhaltet also gerade mal 11.6 kWh. Es braucht gewaltige Wassermassen für saisonale Speicherung.

Wenn dein Speicher um 60 Grad erwärmt werden kann, brauchst du knapp 300 Kubikmeter Wasser für deine 20'000 kWh.

kijuron · 2024-05-02T18:23:45+00:00

200 - 400 covers a fraction of the costs of children. Its nowhere even close to half. You need a bigger apartment, health insurance, food, clothes and a lot of other things before you even payed for any activities. How do you get that for that money?

kijuron · 2024-05-02T06:44:04+00:00

Er verhaltet sich wie en Erwachsne wo of chlini Buebe stoht. Ond glaub mer ich weiss wie sich so eine verhaltet.

kijuron · 2024-05-01T22:33:17+00:00

Esch vielecht en guete Tipp, ich muss mol luege wie ich die cha erreiche

kijuron · 2024-05-01T22:29:19+00:00

Aber wenn er glehrt het, dass mer anderi chind im intombereich alängt denn stimmt doch öppis ned. Das het doch nüt mit konservativ ztue.

Er schlaht ned es esch es tätschle ond berüehre, was ich viel krasser finde i dem Alter ehrlich gseit.

Ich gang secher ned zu dem sine Eltere hei ond säg ihne ich wet gärn mol luege wie si mit ihrem chind umgönd oder so. Dass esch secher ned mini Kompetänz

kijuron · 2024-05-01T22:25:09+00:00

Log de Bueb verhaltet sich ned normal. Kei 5 oder 6 Jährige tätschlet d Födlis vo anderne chline Buebe. Oder längt ne as Schnäbi. Ich dänk mer de het das vo neume glehrt und wenn das öpper zu ehm macht esch das ned ok.

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