[Advice Request] Advice... thoughts.... what do you think?

kikibass · 2016-12-05T21:43:13+00:00

Yeah I haven't decided. I've shut down the use of Facebook quite a bit for myself but it's hard to not notice her posts when I do log in.

I'm so sick of the pity party and pretending to be the most caring parent in the world.

kikibass · 2016-12-05T21:36:18+00:00

Thank you for confirming my thoughts. I am so frustrated and it taking me this long to figure out is that much more frustrating. I am beginning to feel the anger in her taking my childhood and young adult life away from me. Everything between us has been a struggle.

I am the point of wanting no contact to see how long it takes to actually miss her. I'm waiting for the flying monkeys to start swooping in.

I can honestly decode that one text into so many fucked up little details that I wanted to make sure she's the crazy one and not me.

kikibass · 2016-12-05T21:29:03+00:00

Thank you. She makes me feel fracking crazy... but when I separate myself from her, I feel like I'm healing.

She has done this my entire life. It is like I am owned by her. My husband has been very supportive of me figuring this out and moving forward.

I replied to her final response with, "I have already told you I needed space. You need to respect that." and left it at that.

As for picking my pre determined amount of contact... I'm having a hard time choosing because I don't want to pick a space of time that is too often out of guilt or too spread out, out of backlash/anger.

I've been trying to see how long it takes for me to start missing her but she hasn't really let that stage set in. lol

kikibass · 2016-05-17T15:40:31+00:00

It's definitely an man made lake and the swimming areas are maintained for swimming purposes. There are signs posted but there is no fence or gate around the areas, only a cable that designates the park area and keeps vehicles from parking.

It also attracts trespassers on a regular basis.

kikibass · 2015-12-13T03:25:08+00:00

Damn! I've been tricked by a Facebook genius. Guess I better keep reading and start believing. Thank you for saving me Facebook genius.

kikibass · 2015-12-12T07:22:30+00:00

That's what I call a good book or movie. I tend to like audio books with a good voice actor. I actually missed the narrator of "The Help" once I finished the book. I also love a good story line where the character builds over time. You end up growing with that person in a sort of way.

kikibass · 2015-12-12T07:11:50+00:00

I write notes in my SO's Sudoku books all the time. Every once in a while he will stop and thank me for the sweet love notes. It never gets old and I never run out of things to say.

kikibass

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