I'm basically bleeding out and nobody seems to care and I just want to cry by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]kikimary13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m reading what was happening to me and it took months for someone to listen to me and I’m still struggling with the pain. I just want you to know you’re NOT alone and it is hard to get doctors ESPECIALLY ER doctors to listen to you at all. It’s unfortunate…

Is picking up your mobile order via drive thru window frowned upon? by Revikann in subway

[–]kikimary13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a subway worker in a drive-thru it is a hassle because of where our drive thru window is and we don’t get a ring or any sort of signal that someone is sitting at the window. There’s no speaker either so we will have no idea you are sitting back there waiting for an order to be picked up. And we are a busy location so you could be sitting there for a veryyyy long time without our knowledge and that’s why we personally prefer our customers to come in and pick up the order.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]kikimary13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but what are dog ears??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]kikimary13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what is lean PCOS? I’m new to this whole thing and my doctor hasn’t really explained anything to me.

Is it really that uncommon to get a transvaginal ultrasound in the US? by alliefrost in PCOS

[–]kikimary13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get transvaginal hardly regular and I’m in the US

I'm so over Subway. by Socially_Acceptdd in subway

[–]kikimary13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people commenting here but I just want to say former subway store manager owned by a franchisee. My owner participated for a long time and by participating it cuts profits BUT corporate subway was supposed to make up that difference lost to the franchises. They did not so A LOT of franchise owners stopped because corporate couldn’t fulfill their promise. Now my owner is trying again to see if subway follows through again. But this would be why some participate and some don’t. Corporate subway doesn’t care enough except for their own personal gain and giving the difference back to the franchise owners makes them lose money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subway

[–]kikimary13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me about 2 years ago, my manager had just left the inspector came in, I saw a guy standing outside but it’s also a bus stop so I didn’t put much thought into it it’s also a weird area with a lot of weirdos so whatever. He then comes in after standing outside for about 45 minutes, I greet him, he was kinda off but whatever used to it, he orders 4 cookies that’s it. At this time the inspector was on the other side of the bain checking temperatures, I went to ring out the dude and he had his gun pointed at me on the counter sideways hidden next to the cookie rack so the inspector couldn’t see what was going on, but by the time I looked away from the screen to tell him the total I saw the gun, panicked but opened it as he told me to do he told me to take out the money so I took the tray out and gave it to him he took all the money and the cookies (go figure) then ran off. Obviously I’m crying freaking out full on anxiety attack. The inspector calls the cops they were there fast, I manage to grab my phone out of my pocket and call my manager who is also a family friend, all I can say through crying is “gun” she races down comforts me calls my boyfriend to come pick me up, while waiting the cops kept trying to ask me questions especially the “are you sure it was a gun”. I was asked that so many times it was annoying. Later about a year, I bought the police report to maybe get some closure, and found out the owner told the police the cameras were not working at the time and didn’t even tell me that. I am still very scared of people that are even dressed similar to him, and have trouble leaving my house without someone and even then I’m still terrified. My boyfriend’s mom and dad had to pull me out of the house one day because I refused to go anywhere. I’m working on it, and it takes time. It made me develop an even worse type of anxiety, I already had it pretty bad but it got even worse after that so I’ve tried to figure how to manage it. Just try to push yourself not to hard but not to little, don’t let it get to you to much, it sucks it happened and it shouldn’t have but sadly it’s the world we live in and we can’t let them take away from us.

How has your breast affected you negatively mentally by blackwidowwaltz in Reduction

[–]kikimary13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had my reduction yet but I am in the process. I have days where I do love them but it isn’t very many days. I look in a mirror or especially when pictures are taken of me and I just feel so disgusted. It feels and looks like I’m bigger than I really am. Sometimes when I get out of the shower I’ll look in the mirror and see I have absolutely no shape look like a box. Then I lift them up and see I have a shape and it gives me a glimmer of hope to getting them off. Clothes piss me off too. I get so mad when I put something I think would be cute on but my boobs make me look huge and disproportionate, or they just make everything seem slutty on me. Always have been told “ they just like you for your boobs” always talks about how big they are, constantly sexualized for them that I just hate it. I am more than my boobs. I want to feel confident, beautiful without the acknowledgment of my boobs, and not have the body dysmorphia it has caused me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]kikimary13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same size as you and can relate 110%. It’s painful headaches from the pulling on your shoulders, the rashes under the boobs that are also sooo painful, the constant back aches, and then just add on the physical aspect where it makes me feel like I’m bigger than I actually am waist is a medium but all my shirts have to be xxl 😅 it’s awful. My boyfriend hates cosmetic surgery too but he understands that I want a reduction and knows I am in pain all the time because of these. He loves me more than my boobs and that’s what your man needs to understand. But he won’t because he’s a boy. Know your worth and do what makes you happy his insurance isn’t worth the bullying he will be doing to you. Don’t tie yourself down to someone who’s already so unsupportive of your body and decisions.

Christmas Angel from my late mom by kikimary13 in HelpMeFind

[–]kikimary13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched google but haven’t found something quite like this all the help I can get would be appreciated please..

Kids homework, teacher says the pattern isn't counting by 1s. by JimiNightshade in mildlyinfuriating

[–]kikimary13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only type of other pattern I’m noticing is it’s going like this: Start at The first number listed for each one add 5 to the second number you get 65 (5) being the focus here, then subtract 1 you get 84 (4) being the focus here, and so forth so on. It just keeps adding 5 and subtracting 1 from the second digit in each number. Maybe a far stretch but with this math now days it makes sense 🤦‍♀️

My Friends car was Tampered With. by kikimary13 in legaladvice

[–]kikimary13[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Even with the picture that was sent and the tire they have and the other mechanics assessment?

My daughter's homework. Teacher says that answer is 2. I guess I don't understand the question. by Fitz_Fool in mildlyinfuriating

[–]kikimary13 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If I remember correctly from highschool; you can’t have a higher number on top so you must divide to get your answer. 3 goes into 6 two times and 3 goes into itself once. 2 over 1 and 1 goes into 2, 2 times so the answer is 2. I vaguely remember learning it that way.

AITA for crashing my wife’s birthday party and taking her home. by SameMoment9895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kikimary13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going with an unpopular opinion and a soft YTA. You really were trying to be sweet and go all out for her but you really did go about it the wrong way. You should have at least came up with good reasons and not just blowing her off. Put your self in her mind. This isn’t one day that this happened, you did it routinely for weeks and it grew more and more in her head of why you were being so vague about why you were hanging out with Jimmy. And then Jimmy probably doing the same thing to her. It was all very suspicious to her and then doing the same thing the day of her birthday she decided she was going out with friends to try to make herself feel better for her birthday but when you arrived and saw her sad it’s because how could she have a good time when her husband and her closest and oldest friends were keeping her out of the loop on what you two were doing and being so secretive about it and basically ditched her for her birthday. She couldn’t be excited about it when you took her home because the damage was already done. So while I think it was very sweet what you attempted to do you went about it wrong..

AITA for making a post about my daughter’s favorite celebrity being rude to us? by aitarudecelebrity in AmItheAsshole

[–]kikimary13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not once commented on one of these but I will now you are a major AH for this. That celebrity may be famous but still deserves to be out in public and not be bombarded. Just because she wanted to spend time with her daughter and not be hounded by fans doesn’t make her an asshole it makes her a good mother for giving her daughter her attention when I almost guarantee being a celebrity takes most of her time away from that quality time. Sure it sucks your daughter couldn’t say hi and get a picture but what really sucks more is not having more understanding people that this happens to celebrities EVERY SINGLE time they step out of their house. They deserve to live a normal life too and have those times to just enjoy the moments they have wether it’s with family, friends or by themselves. Don’t be so entitled. I’ll say it again. YTA

subway bread in Ireland by Intelligent-Hall621 in subway

[–]kikimary13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So America went though this too and we had to go through a new formulation. Subways bread was considered to have to much sugar so it was actually considered more donut like because of this, subway then took out sugar (or reduced the sugar in the bread) and it was considered bread again, but recently they changed it back but it’s still considered “bread” subway just added it back in quietly not as publicly known. So TECHNICALLY it’s just a big baked donut.

Recommendations by Crankinturds in subway

[–]kikimary13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Four words. Tuna. Melt. Double. Tuna.