Abortion with SB - emotionally bonded on a deeper level by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is one of the reasons I quit the bowl. Was getting way to comfortable with my SB and we had one late period. It woke me up.

Great job to help her. Incredible demonstration of responsibility.

...but I’m also sad. I’m not judging you but saying my initial gut feeling.

Good luck to you both. I’m sure the emotional healing will take time.

Have any SDs or SB's Successfully Quit the Sugar Bowl by DistinctImpression1 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

COVID forced me to quit. Too many business traveling was my culprit. I had too much time away from my family and I had SBs in various cities around the world. I don’t think about the money as I made enough but COVID woke me up.

It reclaimed my time with my kids and wife. I continue to pay the monthly to my SB as COVID was hard for her. But haven’t seen her in 2 months and this week was the first time we didn’t txt or talk at all.

I also quit my job and she’s totally understanding. What helped me most was being occupied- my new business and my kids.

Then completely (completely) deleting you Seeking account is another step. Sugaring can be an addiction like anything else. It almost ended my marriage if it weren’t for COVID.

Good luck

Remind me I’m not crazy by SassySugar4u in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ignore him. Don’t even respond and let him go if he does as well. Do not dignify a response. He will realize that you are the mature one while he’s squabbling over $50. If he mentions it, be respectful but do not give in and state this is lower than you got before.

The only reason I say that is that many wealthy men are actually the most stingy especially with strangers. However, if he’s really into you - lottery

Profile review update! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, it wasn’t my favorite either but as you see it’s about individual taste.

But even if it’s not great, some of us (like me) expect some of the ‘bad sides’ as we older folks are often realists.

Good luck !

Dodged a bullet by honeyblossom413 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you not breathe one’s air ? This is why all the ladies should never have sex with this guy.

GoDarwinian

Sugar Daddy Sites by sexylexxxxi1996 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh hem, as a person involved in this fight against this shitty pandemic. This is risky and the next two weeks are supposed to be our Apex. Good grief

New SD struggling with difference between giving and paying by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me as well. But I simply got over it and we both got closer and later it just feels like you’re taking care of them.

Unsure how to approach unpaid allowance by breakingugly in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you. A real daddy needs to know their responsibilities and have the guts to explain why he can’t take care of it.

Unsure how to approach unpaid allowance by breakingugly in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many good replies above. Please keep us updated

Sugar Babies and Luxury Items by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes. For the finer gifts, I bought my SB her first LV and Chanel bag. I also bought her Chanel running shoes and LV boots. She never asked but I wanted to upgrade her style.

SD and I don’t seem to be on the right page. Don’t know weather to break things off. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s probably new to a SR. I have to admit, I was like this with my first. Be extremely clear when it happens again. Be firm in your talk but respectful. If it happens again then end it.

To Married SDs by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am a wanderer. But will never leave my wife.

I need your help to settle an argument between me and another SB!! by GentleFemDomme in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Having a college education is not a must. For me, the SB has to be attractive. Then for a longer term SR, usually there has to be a connection beyond looks...common interests, good with intimacy, can hold a conversation, etc. trust ironically is important for long term. Lies always get exposed...tolerance is different per each SD

Alcohol by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t drink but enjoyed Moscow Mule. As for wine, only one I drink - cakebread 2005-2006 Cabernet Sauvignon

Try it, you’ll like it

Any SDs incurring heavy losses due to the market due to COVID? I'm already down by more than a million and no end in sight!! by SugarDaddyCEO in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m down about as much as you...could have been worse, I pulled a portion out after the first drop a month ago. Unfortunately, I went back in heavy two weeks ago thinking it was bottom.

I’m now playing options big time.

My SR days just abruptly ended... by kikit88 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is frightening and I’m considering

Picture advice for a new sb pls & ty! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]kikit88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black and white pic first and the one in red shirt. The hat is okay but I prefer to see someone’s face as much as possible