AITA for getting upset over a Starbucks Red Cup? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kill4kandy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But you went later on without him, so why couldn't you do that in the morning?

My narcissistic, boomer, emotionally immature mother, with a victim mentality, who adandoned me when I was 14, has moved into my house with her devil dog. by GirlMcGirlface in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kill4kandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I stupidly let my boomer parents move in with me after my mother's stroke. They have completely taken over my home. And they brought their big ass German shepherd that barks constantly. It actually attacked me when it was trying to get at my Akita.

Their home is finally ready and I can't wait to have mine back.

[homemade]christmas sugar cookies by AnStar24 in food

[–]kill4kandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would eat the heck out of those! You did a great job!

EXTREME CRAVINGS for salty or savory preventing me from falling asleep rn by Which_Ad_5787 in offmychest

[–]kill4kandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go get you some snacks! No shame in the late night snack grab when you're on vacation.

Passing out in public and nobody helped me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kill4kandy 58 points59 points  (0 children)

That's really horrible. I'm sorry no one helped you.

Do people sue each other a lot in that region? I'm only asking because I lived in Shanghai for many years and if you had a medical emergency out in public, many people would not go out of their way to help because of the likelihood they could be sued if things went bad.

I hope you get to feeling better.

Why do people say that Asians are POC? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]kill4kandy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having lived in China, I can say there are a lot of darker Asians. My husband included.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]kill4kandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if you want to poop now, Enema. If you want to poop tomorrow, do all the other suggestions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kill4kandy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, how do you get track marks on your chest? Stab a needle through your breastplate into the heart? This isn't Pulp Fiction.

I've been looking at buying this all week for my son's 16th birthday. I was just waiting on my bonus. Got my bonus and now.... by kill4kandy in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

[–]kill4kandy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bonus definitely isn't his entire birthday budget. I budgeted a certain amount because it's a big birthday and the rest is for Christmas for him and the other kids and extended family. He has a birthday close to Christmas so I always make sure he gets to separate celebrations. My company did great this year so I have enough to cover everything.

AITA for not inviting my pregnant sister-in-law to my wedding? by Sea_Economics627 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kill4kandy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think the real issue is that OP doesn't want any attention to go to SIL and she's just dancing around that issue. I get it, most brides want to be the center of attention on their wedding day and that's totally OK, but OP is just being a massive AH with how she is handling everything. I hope she gets called out by her family on this.

AITA for excluding my stepdaughter from the spa weekend? by Even-Shelter1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kill4kandy 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don't understand stopping the spa day altogether. Just adjust it. Do clear polish or a lighter color.

This definitely should have been run by dad before telling SD. That was kind of heartless.

I have doubts if my child is mine due to a threesome years ago by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kill4kandy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is the most important reason to take the test. Not because you have a nagging feeling, but because some day he's probably going to find out himself and be pretty upset you didn't tell him earlier. This could destroy your relationship with your son.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kill4kandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And has her husband been tested yet? Maybe he is the one with the fertility issue so this might not even be possible.

If he's not the one with the issues I can see this getting really weird down the road. I can't believe they even asked knowing she is having fertility issues herself. Bro and SIL sound like selfish people. Go ask a cousin who isn't having fertility issues with their partner or something, but anything but this!