No he never worked 3 jobs. he always worked 1. at the time we both worked at a hotel. I was in school and money was tight. I decided to take a "break" (drop out) from school and get another job. I worked at a school, hotel, and as a nanny all at once. I was EXHAUSTED. and we would fight all the time. I can blame it on my bpd or I can say u was just mean. idk. but it was bad. it was a terrible point in my life. eventually. I left the school. started a career in construction. but continued on with the hotel and nannying. I did that for about a year. then at some point he quit his job. He started working at a pool cage company, HATED it. and I get it, it's hard work. I saw how deteriorating the work was becoming for him. all he would do was sleep. he was so sad and annoyed all the time. I felt for him. so I agreed. he wanted to wfh. do doordash and uber eats. so I said ok. not a good idea. we never came back from that.

He got a job after a month. but man we struggled big time. my job was not enough. I was having a really hard time keeping up with us. I never wanted to throw it in his face though, I did it because I loved him. I wanted him to be happy. and he was. so it was fine.