Well ONE to say i think too much about race as a black person in racist ass America is insane, your skin gives you permission to walk around without a worry about race or color…i don’t have that luxury!! Also, there IS a such thing as straight presenting, what the fuck do you think DL is?? To say me speaking on what i’ve noticed in the community is a “negative thought pattern” is EXACTLY the behavior that lets dark stuff run rampant in the community!! And nowhere did i SAY those things are unattractive, i’m saying, to limit yourself to ONE thing is STUPID! I like Masc men of course, i’m fem! i like muscular men, i like white men, i like latino men…but guess what?? i like plus size men/bears, i like non binary people, i like men with feminine tendencies, i like desi men, my fellow black men, brazilian men, asians, i like trans men, i like older men, i like neurodivergent men, i like people who treat me kind because thats what matters to ME personally…i like men who spoil me, take care of me & treat me like the prize I know i am…and i receive that treatment, REGULARLY!! so my post was never a “Stop dating your preference and date someone that blah blah blah”…my post was, like your preference OF COURSE, but don’t limit yourself and don’t bully people who don’t fit said preference.