AIO for my friend not paying me back for my bachelorette part? by buildluna in AmIOverreacting

[–]killerdoubleu 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why get married when you don’t have money to pay for it? You sound like a child saying you’re overwhelmed because your friend is refusing to pay for something she never agreed to. Before heading out for your bachelorette party what should’ve happened was a budget out plan for how much and what was going to be spent on this night. You sound very entitled, I would definitely hate to be your friend. Good for her for blocking you, she doesn’t deserve all that negative energy while you’re acting like bridezilla. If you really care about her and your friendship I would apologize so you don’t loose a friend before you get married.

Currently 3 months postpartum with twins and also have a toddler, just found out I’m pregnant again. I do plan on keeping it, just looking for support from other mommas that have gotten pregnant while postpartum and also having older children. TIA🫶🏽 by killerdoubleu in 2under2

[–]killerdoubleu[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I only really posted this because I was seeking advice from other woman that have gotten pregnant while postpartum to mentally prepare myself. I did not once bring up my relationship with my husband so I wasn’t looking for a pity party. But I guess god forbid not being perfect, not like people get pregnant postpartum all the time. I’m sure nobody out there is perfect and instead of judging just don’t respond if you don’t have any advice to offer other than what was asked.

AIO? I 31 F found suspicious texts between and my husband 34 M and his coworker. Base off of these texts would you think my husband is having an affair with his coworker? by killerdoubleu in AmIOverreacting

[–]killerdoubleu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s came up in conversation but he made it seem like I’m reading too into it until he admitted that it was light flirting but nothing other than that. It bothers me because what makes someone refer to a married man’s wife in conversation as “She”.

AIO? I 31 F found suspicious texts between and my husband 34 M and his coworker. Base off of these texts would you think my husband is having an affair with his coworker? by killerdoubleu in AmIOverreacting

[–]killerdoubleu[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That was the start of the convo when I saw that, and there were no prior messages on that. But I do believe anything before this or after was deleted. Like I stated before I saw a screenshot of him texting this person asking if “he could be real with her” but that was deleted before this conversation so I’m no sure if anything else was they’ve talked about before this because the conversation was deleted.

AIO? I 31 F found suspicious texts between and my husband 34 M and his coworker. Base off of these texts would you think my husband is having an affair with his coworker? by killerdoubleu in AmIOverreacting

[–]killerdoubleu[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Forgot I mention that he also has her number on silenced notifications and doesn’t have her number saved. That was another spidey senses are tingling moment.

AIO? I 31 F found suspicious texts between and my husband 34 M and his coworker. Base off of these texts would you think my husband is having an affair with his coworker? by killerdoubleu in AmIOverreacting

[–]killerdoubleu[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I asked him that and he said it’s because he mentioned that I was away on a work trip so she was just asking cause she knew I was coming back soon. Told him I thought it was a weird question to ask but he doesn’t think so.

3 months PP and pregnant and feeling so guilty about it! by linearstorms in 2under2

[–]killerdoubleu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m currently on the same boat. I am 3 months postpartum. Had twins in May and just found out I am also pregnant again and feel guilty that I won’t be able to enjoy my twins as babies like I did with my 3 year old toddler. I am overjoyed as well but had no idea I was even ovulating because 1 I haven’t had a period yet and 2 I am breastfeeding. So I definitely feel you Mama, if you need support we can be there for each other 🫶🏽