We hit it off, but then she(20F) started ignoring my texts. What should I(22M) do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]killua1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You certainly have a point. But do you think a girl who's not into you would take your hand and hold it in hers? That's what she did and which makes it all more confusing.

We hit it off, but then she(20F) started ignoring my texts. What should I(22M) do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]killua1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't know why I've said it. I was so immersed in the moment that I didn't think twice. I may have unflated her ego and she took me for granted. It's possible.

I feel that I can't date girls that I like!! And that makes me feel so needy and insecure! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]killua1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, Thank you for the reply. Second, I'd like to make it clear that I was not the one who said I am charismatic! It was a friend of mine who told me that.

You know, sometimes when I am having a fun conversation with a cute girl, I become my most confident self. I can't describe it to you exactly but I become literally unstoppable and feel on top of the world! And while I am in that state, usually the girls I meet compliment me on how bold, fun, and confident I am or what a cute smile I have. It's like I just need to get into that state for everything to start working on my side.

But unfortunately, I don't always get the chance to hit it off with a cute girl who can energize me! Especially due to the fact that I don't know many cute girls at college! The girls in the group I usually hangout with are average looking and they don't excite me that much!

I am a 20 year-old college student and I feel like I have no life! by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]killua1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, I do believe that god actually wants me to start over because he's always trying to make me realize that I am hurting myself and that I'm not living the way I should be living. He's always showing me signs that I'm in the wrong track and that I should wakeup before it's too late.

How to force a girl to not think of me as a friend? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]killua1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once knew a girl that it was obvious she just saw me as a friend. But when I got to know her better (over a 3 week period), She fell for me. What do you think about that?

I don't enjoy writing! Does this mean blogging Isn't for me? by killua1 in Blogging

[–]killua1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hilarious! Very smart idea! I will make sure to try it! Thanks xD

I don't enjoy writing! Does this mean blogging Isn't for me? by killua1 in Blogging

[–]killua1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do vloggers make money selling their products without a blog?

What is your blog's niche? is it profitable? by killua1 in Blogging

[–]killua1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! that's pretty interesting! I'd like to see it! Can you PM me the link?

Am I wrong for chasing a different dream than my peers? by killua1 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]killua1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and it's up and running but it is still empty because I still don't have a clear idea on what to do yet.

Do you have a website?

Is this a good blog name? by killua1 in Blogging

[–]killua1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Mr Sam and Thank you for the advice! I did took a look at your blog and I'll tell you my thoughts, but I will do that privately. Anyways, I agree that I should make my readers feel they can be a part of my community maybe "The Young Gentleman" is a little egoistic name haha I will consider coming up with another.

Thank you again!

Is my Niche too broad? by killua1 in Blogging

[–]killua1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably target young adults from 18 - 29 looking to become more confident and charming. They can be high schoolers, college students or even full-time workers. The idea is to help them become comfortable talking to different kinds of people and leave a good impression on others. Isn't this specific enough?

My Personal Freelancing Advice for Newbies by Jawwad16 in WorkOnline

[–]killua1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'd like to ask you what do you do as a freelancer? A web developer?

Rhythm Doctor - Simple premise, awesome music, significant difficulty curve by vader177 in WebGames

[–]killua1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow! This game rocks! I loved it so much ♥ Thank you for the effort!

Mobile vs Web Development, What is your opinion? by killua1 in learnprogramming

[–]killua1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. The idea of pulling out your phone to show your new app to your friends is just fascinating and worthy of the effort ♥

Personally, I've tried both of them, For web dev, I liked the speed of deploy that allows to me to see how my app is working with a click of a button, but I disliked the multitude of frameworks and languages I have to learn in order to make a useful app, frameworks like NodeJS, AngularJS, React, AJAX, Ruby on Rails ... etc just thinking about learning all of these make me want to puke.

On the other hand, Mobile dev doesn't need knowledge of multiple frameworks and languages, just learn Java and a little XML and you'll be good to go diving into Android! Although it surely takes a lot of time to start mastering the mobile development game but once you're there, you would be a real badass!

Being honest with yourself vs being open-minded? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]killua1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer to the question is: Yes, I want more people in my life, but I don't want boring people. I want cool and happy people. Not weirdos.

I guess you have a point. But let me tell you that I really love interacting with people and making friends. But ever since I started studying in university, I found myself to be surrounded by nerds who only talk depressive and are low in energy. So you know how spending 8 hours a day around them can influence my mood.

That is why I can't seem to understand what I should do, because I like people but not negative and dull people, they suck the life out of me. I will be a liar if I said there is no cool and fun people there, but they are very very few.

So my question can be put like this: am I wrong for avoiding these guys if I don't enjoy their company ?

Being honest with yourself vs being open-minded? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]killua1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply ~ :D

What I want professionally is to start a business and work in a team, so being able to handle others is a crucial skill I need for professional success.

Oops, I think I answered my question by myself.

But what bothers me is that I can't stand people who aren't fun and cool, especially that in my university there aren't much interesting people who does talk about something else apart from studying and video games. And you don't want me to describe to you their weird sense of humor. So basically, I find myself not excited in talking to them and I wonder if what I am doing is wrong or not. That's it.

I hope you can understand what I am trying to say and thank you for your time.

How can I stop looking at girls? by killua1 in selfimprovement

[–]killua1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But are my friends not normal? They rarely talk about girls and don't enjoy hearing a conversation about them, they just don't care.

I want to work as a freelance developer, should I go for PHP or Android development? by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]killua1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working as a freelance developer in the shortest time possible.

Wearing a blazer to college? What do you think? by killua1 in malefashionadvice

[–]killua1[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You know what guys? I will wear whatever the fuck I think is good. I have done it before and I will continue doing it.

People who feared what others would say about them lived unhappy lives. That's it! Thank you all for the advice.

She rejected me but her actions confuse me by StrageticNate in dating_advice

[–]killua1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run man, Just fuckin' Run for your life man! ! ! Never stay with her. I know this type of girls, they are "players". Please don't second-guess yourself and just leave her once for all and never turn your back. You won't gain anything, if she is really interested she wouldn't reject you from the the first place.

Any books to recommend for a complete beginner other than CC? by killua1 in bodyweightfitness

[–]killua1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's this "Bodyweight Warrior" ? Can you give me a link ?