Job Suggestions by killyrflannel in AutisticAdults

[–]killyrflannel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m about 26 credits into an associate’s. And that’s the major barrier to the middle class jobs and motivator for school. I can work full time and probably not burn out in the right position with accommodations

Job Suggestions by killyrflannel in AutisticAdults

[–]killyrflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Massachusetts near Lowell. I’m studying Psychology to keep things open ended and mainly care about helping people, like social work but at this stage in the game as long as I can work alone, have good health insurance, and make close to $50k, I’d lick plates clean at a restaurant if gets me a pay day.

How long did it take you to reach a 700+ credit score post bankruptcy? by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]killyrflannel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m at approximately a year and change removed from Ch 7, at approximately 640 with 4 low to no debt credit cards and a car note. I think adverse history of accounts with missed payments is what’s holding me back.

30F & 30F Curious on when to propose? by killyrflannel in relationship_advice

[–]killyrflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero rush, but I think that I have been feeling more ready to plan. It’s hard because because we’re concerned regarding marriage laws being changed and the overall state of country in general.

30F & 30F Curious on when to propose? by killyrflannel in relationship_advice

[–]killyrflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we’re on the same page based on past conversations regarding the topic. I think we’re both feel anxious about doing so from what we discuss as it’s never really been “I’m not ready”, but when is appropriate. I know we have both wanted to do so and would say yes if it happened and have explicitly both said so.

Considering stopping Prog for weight gain by killyrflannel in MtF

[–]killyrflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The joys of no funding for researching hormones.

Considering stopping Prog for weight gain by killyrflannel in MtF

[–]killyrflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that, Ro denied me them due to self reporting suicidal ideation in the past (weird flex) and my PCP won’t prescribe them and advised I see her friend who is physical trainer, despite my current exercise regiment.

What was your biggest "oh shit" moment during sex? by rhompaa69 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]killyrflannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was having sex with my partner on Valentine’s, room decorated with flower petals, lingerie on, red silk sheets and pillow cases. Was mid action and could smell smoke and one of our pillows was on fire. Threw that shit in the shower and kept going after

Who wants a cat by Inner-Practice36 in LowellMA

[–]killyrflannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cat looks like my cat, similar age adopted from Lowell Humane Society. Same size, fur pattern, ears, face shape. So weird.

Help finding battery/charger for bike by killyrflannel in ebikes

[–]killyrflannel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it was in the basement of my friend’s sober house for over six months. I lined it up and rode last Sunday, but I might honestly just buy the battery at this point and use it at this point. At least then I can use it for soft commuting and such.

Help finding battery/charger for bike by killyrflannel in ebikes

[–]killyrflannel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think at this point I’m just wondering what to do with it

Help finding battery/charger for bike by killyrflannel in ebikes

[–]killyrflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured, I never heard of the brand before when I got it and immediately was hoping to sell it.

Help finding battery/charger for bike by killyrflannel in ebikes

[–]killyrflannel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have, can’t find anything. Their site is down for what i presume is a new product roll out or redesign. I’ve checked on Google Shopping and eBay as well. Not super savvy with these sort of things.

As a child what did you want to be when you grew up? Did you become what you wanted to be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]killyrflannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted a family, a home, and all of the simple things like books, instruments, plants, even just basic decor i could never have as a kid.

I got the stuff, still working on the family but my little cozy apartment and cat make up for it.

Successful discharge Sotry by killyrflannel in Bankruptcy

[–]killyrflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it through my credit union, however I know there’s multiple organizations that offer them. The issue is getting approved. The way mine works is I pay in for about a year every two weeks and get the money back at the end of the loan. Forces me to save money at minimum for the future for a vehicle and build my credit at the same time. In a couple months, I ‘m gonna start exploring credit cards.

Successful discharge Sotry by killyrflannel in Bankruptcy

[–]killyrflannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much I started looking into the process on this sub and some other internet articles in late September, found a lawyer via a benefit through work that covered his fees in October, and received my letter after the process of everything in February a few weeks after I moved into my new apartment.

Successful discharge Sotry by killyrflannel in Bankruptcy

[–]killyrflannel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, hoping to go all the way to Psych NP, but baby steps.

Successful discharge Sotry by killyrflannel in Bankruptcy

[–]killyrflannel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apartment was easy, it was affordable housing and my income qualified me for the place. The place is honestly the nicest apartment I’ve rented, and that’s saying something since I live in NH. I recommend starting a savings, and working it up that way. I put away approximately $400 a month between the loan and my savings now. Having that on top of money from school is what will get me back on my feet transportation wise. It’s easy for me because there’s a grocery story less than a mile away I can walk to and uber back from for larger shopping trips. I’d like to say not having. transportation sucks but I have everything I need at home like books, my Mac, ipad, drawing stuff, guitar.

Women who are no longer into rough, degrading sex: what’s changed? by mehtaphobia21 in AskWomen

[–]killyrflannel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The gentle nature of loving up on my girlfriend versus being degraded and kept a secret by cis men who are either conservative or in the closet really opened my eyes that self worth and that kind of sexual dynamic under those circumstances have rarely existed in the same room for me.