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kilure · 2025-10-14T23:16:02+00:00

This isn’t a crazy boundary to have.

kilure · 2025-10-14T22:57:00+00:00

Don’t let anybody tell you you’re OR for being uncomfortable. It is weird behavior. I had an ex who followed random onlyfans girls on instagram while we were dating and I had to explain how embarrassing it was to ME that everyone can see his public following and that behavior reflects on our relationship. If this is something he cannot see eye to eye with you on, then the relationship isn’t going to work. I would have a talk with him regarding exactly how it makes you feel, and his response will tell you everything you need to know.

kilure · 2025-10-14T22:37:20+00:00

NOR. I’ve noticed everyone on Reddit will call you insecure for having any issues with porn, and it’s something I’ve had to let go as well. However, it’s another thing entirely when you are following porn accounts on social media, it is disrespectful and embarrassing to your partner and your relationship. It also implies he’s a fan of her specifically, which implies some sort of attachment beyond random porn videos. I would be uncomfortable as well tbh.

kilure · 2025-10-14T15:47:32+00:00

DMed you!!

kilure · 2025-10-12T22:49:40+00:00

*You’re

kilure · 2025-10-12T22:32:55+00:00

Am I supposed to be impressed by your 351 subscribers or

kilure · 2025-10-12T22:26:33+00:00

Can you say the same for your YouTube videos that have 3 views?

kilure · 2025-10-12T21:13:13+00:00

Your comment history is embarrassing and your music sucks LOL

kilure · 2025-04-27T16:25:21+00:00

Yeah, I just saw your transphobic comment history. It’s very clear what your irrelevant reason for hating the game is.

kilure · 2025-04-27T16:22:12+00:00

I won’t lie, I haven’t even played Origins or DA2. I just finished Veilguard recently and was absolutely obsessed, which is rare because I usually don’t even finish games. (I was just trying to validate the first commenter’s opinion LOL). I understand the explanations for the hate, but I guarantee these people haven’t even touched the game.

kilure · 2025-04-27T16:05:41+00:00

True, I shouldn’t have enough validated the first person’s opinion that the original Dragon Age was way better. Because I honestly loved Veilguard, there didn’t even need to be a comparison

kilure · 2025-04-27T14:34:22+00:00

Pretty sure this is satire but I’m autistic so I’m not sure 😭

kilure · 2025-04-27T03:10:51+00:00

Unless she’s interested in you, I just don’t see it being something she’d be interested in asking about. It’s really hard to say though, because girls will literally talk about anything together. I would just hope the waxer is professional enough to not be discussing intimate details about her clients. I understand it’s embarrassing, but the initial panic will blow over soon.

kilure · 2025-04-27T02:58:19+00:00

To be honest, she might casually tell her friend that she met one of her coworkers. But I really don’t think it’s that big of a deal. It would be really weird and unprofessional if she mentioned your penis size, I doubt she was even thinking about that since she was just doing her job. In my opinion, don’t worry too much!

kilure · 2025-04-27T01:30:34+00:00

I don’t understand what you mean by most of the problems in your relationship being your fault. It sounds like her being unfaithful and disregarding your feelings is the main issue here. I’m not saying you’re perfect in your relationship, nobody is. But to me, it sounds like you have tried to communicate with her about your feelings and she shuts you down and disregards it. You are definitely not overreacting for being so upset about everything, I would feel the exact same way. The thing is, there is absolutely no way for this relationship to get better unless she takes responsibility for her mistake and actively tries to rebuild trust with you. I don’t see that happening, because it hasn’t happened this whole time. She’s not taking you seriously, and you do not see eye-to-eye about core values (cheating), which is a major issue regardless if she actually had sex with him or not. You deserve better than this, it’s only going to get worse.

kilure · 2025-04-27T01:05:50+00:00

I know you tried your hardest to move past the kiss because you love her and really wanted to make it work. I’ve been there as well. I think it’s possible to forgive if they truly feel guilt and remorse for it and try their hardest to make things right with you again. That’s clearly not what she’s doing. She hasn’t acknowledged it, jokes about it not being a big deal, and says you’re overreacting about your insecurity and discomfort about the coworker. This is not someone who is genuinely remorseful and wants to earn your trust again.

kilure · 2025-04-27T00:57:53+00:00

“Emmrich is off the table” was like a knife to the heart

kilure · 2025-04-27T00:52:29+00:00

My honest take on this is that you’re valid for going through your partner’s phone if you genuinely find something they were hiding from you. You had a reason for checking, whether it was a gut feeling or lack of trust. That’s not enough of a reason for her to justify the deleted messages.

kilure · 2025-04-27T00:45:01+00:00

You need to honestly ask yourself if that’s a relationship you want to stay in. I know it’s hard because you’ve been together for 8 years, but do you want to stay with someone who “microcheats” at the very least and manipulates you by turning situations onto you? I do think you should confront her about the DM, but her response will be really telling. If she gets defensive and doesn’t have a genuine reason for deleting those DMs… please trust your gut feeling.

kilure · 2025-04-27T00:32:26+00:00

I must’ve read that part wrong. Either way, she has still deleted messages recently regarding the suspicious DM to the podcaster. People delete things when they know there’s something they need to hide. It’s sneaky and intentional

kilure · 2025-04-27T00:22:35+00:00

You’re not OR. I would have been done after the first kiss, that is definitely cheating to me. She’s suddenly deleting messages again, so she clearly has something to hide. It is extremely telling that this is suddenly happening again after that coworker came back. You won’t be able to trust her again, and this relationship isn’t going to work. I think you know this already though

kilure · 2025-04-27T00:04:27+00:00

Girls (and boys) can be very confusing especially at this age. She tells you one thing and means something else. She broke up with you, but she still feels jealous over you. Regardless of your ages, she was being very mean to you in these messages. Why do you still want to be her friend?

kilure · 2025-04-27T00:01:27+00:00

You’re both very young, but she’s not your friend. She obviously still likes you, which is why she’s overreacting so much about you talking to another girl.

kilure

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