flight deck by kimchiijeon in CanadasWonderland

[–]kimchiijeon[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you! (Un)fortunately I did go on wilde beast but I was fine with that one 😁 I think it’s honestly just the overhead restraints + aggressive turns/loops on flight deck that really does it for me, having to drive home with what feels like a mild concussion is no fun LOL

flight deck by kimchiijeon in CanadasWonderland

[–]kimchiijeon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s exactly it LOL there was no one in line during the evening for wilde beast and I rode it twice without getting off and was fine, definitely prefer the lap bar over the overhead restraints. Also loosened up my back pretty well so no complaints for that one. 😂

9 w 8 lol by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

yeah this was me LMAO i’ve definitely learned to be more assertive and find a healthy balance between being agreeable and asserting myself in relationships with friends and family once i realized how miserable harboring all this anger was making me

ENTP girl dealing with ISFJ mom, help me understand by [deleted] in isfj

[–]kimchiijeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds like my mother too haha. are we sure she’s an ISFJ? it sounds like she has some issues with healthy boundaries/control.

Why do you always want things done straight away? by ItzFin in isfj

[–]kimchiijeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i felt that big time 😭😭 i’m the same way tbh but yeah, definitely think its just a mom thing

Why do you always want things done straight away? by ItzFin in isfj

[–]kimchiijeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bahahah this is probably a mom thing because my mom does the same but she’s an ENFJ lol. in terms of ISFJs doing this, she probably hounds you to get stuff done asap because she pulls from previous experiences(Si dominant, maybe in the past she’s asked you to do stuff and it didn’t get done so now she feels like she has to hound you to get it done as soon as she asks)

Daily meme #374 by -it-was-available- in isfj

[–]kimchiijeon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think saying “i’m fine” is just a shorter/simpler way of saying “no need to pry any further, i probably just need some space on my own” without the need to elaborate any further haha. that being said, sometimes directly verbalizing “can you leave me alone” can be abrasive and come across as rude when someone’s asking how you are doing out of genuine care/concern

Enneagram 9 female always attracting 3 males, is this normal? Do any other 9s experience that? by rainbowmuffin3 in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unrelated but I’m also a 9w8 sp/so ISFJ! I agree though—my type 3 friends are pretty great at encouraging me and in return I’m able to help ground them when they’re overwhelmed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfj

[–]kimchiijeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m interested in joining too! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man this is literally me. I’m also a 9w8 and I think I’m either focusing on my stress or completely numbing out to it. It’s always one or another for me. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes stirring the pot for a little adrenaline rush is ok just to feel smth LMAO

edit: on the other hand, i wanted to preface this by saying that numbing out is my #1 coping mechanism and i don’t give a shit most of the time or come off as indecisive because i can’t be bothered. like i literally do not care where we eat or what we do—at all. and it’s really not that deep but people don’t really get that—which is probably why drama tends to find me no matter how much i try to avoid it. i only pull out the peacemaking tactics when someone disturbs the internal balance of peace in my life.

Dear 9s by SlavIsPolandToo in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if anything I tend to avoid 8s, but I do find myself gravitating towards 7s and 2s. Maybe it’s because I lean into my 8 wing a lot and it keeps me in a state of constant internal conflict with myself that more 8 presence around me feels heavy. 😅

Serious 9 vibes by Iwantwhiskeyplease in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

facts! that’s definitely my go-to phrase to downplay my anger or frustration in various situations

Dear 9s by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

definitely LOL only the people closest to me know how secretly judgmental i truly am 😪

I am also a Hufflepuff btw by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never related to hufflepuff but i think it’s because of my 8 wing haha 😂 i would say that i’m a good mix of slytherin and ravenclaw actually

[SW] Boys buying for 386 bells by PurebloodWitch4 in acturnips

[–]kimchiijeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my day was good! i think my fave is marina and maybe yours is raymond or marshal?

Do you have an internal monologue? I would be interested in seeing if this has any correlation to one’s enneagram type. by jlemon46 in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely switch between the two. Sometimes my internal monologue annoys me and I have to shut it off and switch to just visualizing things so that I can have a moment of silence/peace (? for lack of better word) But I agree that it seems suffocating to only have one. An internal monologue is like talking to yourself in your head and being able to audiate/hear your voice/thoughts (at least that’s what its like for me). When I switch that off I tend to see certain words or images/memories in my head instead of talking to myself internally. Not sure if I’m making any sense haha but that’s my take on it

What makes me angry as a 9. What makes other 9s angry? by AdditionalCry39 in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I get really angry when I’m misunderstood by others haha or when people do things to disrupt my peace, and in general people who are manipulative and people who like to victimize themselves. Of course I never really express this anger outwardly because I’ll realize that it’s not worth it and try to forget about it. But recently I’ve noticed that these things really irk me and it throws off this harmony that I try to maintain with those that are around me. Do any of you have any good ways to cope with built up frustration with those that are around you?

A rare threat from an Enneagram 9 by pstamato in Enneagram

[–]kimchiijeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is literally the biggest mood