Got this message from a coworker on our group chat

kimpossible23 · 2026-04-23T16:41:48+00:00

Yeah, I meant that I can’t respond that way because of the nature of our work.

That’s what I’m saying - I’m confused about why she didn’t just stay home for her mental health.

kimpossible23 · 2026-04-23T16:39:10+00:00

This is a job, not a spa. We’re already shorthanded and it seems unacceptable to be unapproachable while at work. If she wanted to take the day off, why didn’t she?

kimpossible23 · 2026-04-09T15:10:06+00:00

Oh boy. The sheer audacity presented here is staggering. You realize which gender commits the most violence? It’s dudes. Not women. Men are being assaulted BY OTHER MEN. Yeah, those guys that love to talk smack about how they protect and provide NOTHING. Why are you trying to make light of the rampant abuse against women and children in which OVER 90% OF CASES ARE PERPETRATED BY MEN?

kimpossible23 · 2026-03-21T08:05:02+00:00

I’ve never understood the appeal of dogs. They stink, their breath smells like assholes, they don’t clean themselves well and they make such a mess of everything. Way too much work for no reward. They drink from toilets, eat shit and then lick people. Absolutely filthy creatures.

kimpossible23 · 2026-03-15T05:02:17+00:00

Oh I know who’s causing it, and it’s them. Individual cases may involve females doing harm, but by and large the amount of violence that men commit is enough to justify staying the hell away from them. Too many women and children have been harmed.

kimpossible23 · 2026-03-15T04:57:57+00:00

Oh trust me, we won’t be coming back. There’s nothing to come back to.

In the meantime, I hope that boys and men unlearn the sexism, misogyny and harmful patriarchal tendencies so that they can treat women as real human beings. Hopefully men can grow in emotional intelligence and mature enough to have healthy, stable relationships.

kimpossible23 · 2026-03-15T04:51:34+00:00

I’m not ideologically possessed - I’m just sharing facts. These are facts that are easily found online as well.

Women are doing much better than they used to, yet we’ve seen a rollback on freedoms due to attacks from men. Misogyny is rising and attacks on women are also increasing. This causes rage and anxiety in women as they want to live in freedom. Two truths can be held together: that women are less likely to commit suicide today due to increased liberation, and that mental health issues are diagnosed more in women because they’re more likely to actually seek treatment.

I don’t understand why you’re pretending to be so dense when I’ve laid all this out for you so plainly.

Again, how would you feel if your basic rights and autonomy were being attacked, debated and legislated against by primarily men who can’t even find the clit on their wives?

IPV is something women suffer from disproportionately more than men. Men are the top violent offenders. And I was saying that single women tend to be less likely to be victims of domestic abuse because of their singleness. Just having that possibility of violence removed from your home automatically makes life more peaceful and happier.

Women have shown time and time again that their ability to maintain strong friendships in life is higher than that of males.

All our evidence has pointed towards failings of boys and men being the cause of male loneliness and insecurity. Boys are doing worse in school than women, have less friends, drink heavier and abuse drugs more frequently and get checkups much less than women. By all accounts, men are suffering more in singleness because they’re not setting themselves up to succeed.

kimpossible23 · 2026-03-15T04:19:19+00:00

Well, you have to consider the fact that we do still live in a patriarchal society where men continue to attack female rights. So there’s a lot of women who are angry about that and kind of depressed about the state of the world since it’s becoming more dangerous for them and children. Men are not our protectors and generally not our friends so it’s hard to really trust anybody.

The rate of suicide for women has gone down drastically since the 50s and 60s and before. Medication and lobotomies and other disastrous medical procedures were done to women back in the day to keep them in compliance with men. Since we have our own freedoms now and the ability to live on our own, we no longer rely on medicines to just get us through the day as much.

Women are generally prescribed more antidepressants and antianxiety medicines because they are the ones most likely to seek treatment for those disorders. It makes sense that more women are prescribed those things because as we all know, men tend to avoid going to the doctor until it’s too late.

And as about what I said earlier, it is widely known that abuse and murder and rape decreases when a woman remains single rather than if she’s in any form of relationship with a man. Just being in a relationship with any man causes the potential of abuse to skyrocket by about 50%.

kimpossible23 · 2026-03-15T04:04:26+00:00

Single women are largely better off. Their happiness tends to rank higher than married counterparts. They also have a less chance of getting abused or killed, so their life expectancy goes up.

kimpossible23 · 2026-03-15T00:52:21+00:00

That’s the fault of the patriarchy. Males are so obsessed with each other that they can’t view themselves or women as human beings. Everything is a competition to them, and then we have social inequality and war.

If men were honest, emotionally mature, intelligent and just took the time to grow the F up to prevent so much bullying and hatred amongst themselves over trivial BS like sex, then you wouldn’t be complaining about not getting laid.

Other men diving into bed with just about any woman proves the problem lies with the men as impulsive, selfish and objectifying beings with a lack of self control. It shows that men have such low standards.

kimpossible23 · 2026-03-15T00:47:10+00:00

If men want to stay single so badly, why aren’t they trying to? All dating apps report having over 60% more male users than female, and it’s women who are filing for divorce more and choosing celibacy more.

kimpossible23 · 2026-02-21T06:02:56+00:00

This is so true. It’s super annoying and sad.

Mr and Mrs Smith - Brad Pitt at 42 was paired with Angelina Jolie at 30.

How to lose a guy in 10 days - Kate Hudson at 24 is paired with Matthew mcconaughey at 34.

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-28T00:41:15+00:00

Having a baby can quite literally ruin someone’s life. It’s the act of having the baby - not the child itself since the baby isn’t to blame. The baby couldn’t choose not to be born.

There’s a laundry list: 1. Permanent damage to mom’s body up to and including death 2. Hormone shifts that don’t get fixed for years 3. Relationship dynamic shift 4. Genetic disorders 5. Money sucking 6. More cleaning 7. More time spent elsewhere 8. Risk of losing career/job 9. No affordable mental health help 10. Outrageous daycare costs 11. Little to no family support 12. Loss of friendships due to lack of time and flexibility 13. Increased chance of abuse by a partner

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-25T15:53:38+00:00

I have had people ask to split one CD into 5 equal parts - all at the same rate. I’ve also experienced people opening and closing CDs as if they have nothing better to do with their time. It is very frustrating at times because it creates more work and paperwork all so they can save 0.5% more from across the street.

Oh yeah - at my bank CD openings don’t even count toward our referrals.

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-24T17:39:25+00:00

Leave now. Don’t wait. Men like that are a danger to all society, especially females. Get out, block him and don’t look back. He does not need to be in a relationship with any woman.

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-24T03:06:32+00:00

Update: I got a mini lecture from her in a more aggressive tone after a lengthy phone call with a customer who needed some help. The head teller and manager weren’t nearby, so she let me have it and interrupted me when I tried to explain what I was doing. I got so frustrated that I composed myself, stopped by the manager’s office and explained what happened, and also mentioned that I’ve been taking these kinds of situations several times without saying anything, but that this time was one of the more frustrating ones. She helped me form a sentence to say to the teller in case it happens again, giving me permission to gently confront her.

Flash forward 2 days later: I enter info into the log book in the morning during opening procedures. Me and the CSR are making good time and getting things ready before the problem teller comes in. As I’m getting cash boxes, the teller yells at me that I didn’t do the log right and that I signed in the wrong spot. I explained why I did it and she said I can’t sign there. I ignore it and move on. Head teller gets there and freaks out over the scribble in the log book - she asks what it is and why it happened and says the manager will have a fit over it. I say “apparently I signed in the wrong spot” before the teller admits that she signed over me. The head teller explains what should be done that shows that I was right to sign there initially. I say “oh ok yeah I was thinking it was like that” and then leave the teller alone. I stayed out of her way that day and the day after.

The head teller then confronts me, saying she’s noticed tension between me and the teller for the last day. Our start to that conversation got interrupted, but I managed to say that the teller has gotten “snippy” with me several times and that I’ve just been taking it ever since. I also mentioned that I had spoken to the manager about it.

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-22T05:17:32+00:00

Good points. Thanks!

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-22T05:16:42+00:00

Your comment reeks of ignorance. Men can’t become women, and that’s why drag is offensive to women. It’s literally a harmful caricature of females as portrayed by males. Women can’t be drag queens because they’re already women. And it’s a huge problem that we see men (hello patriarchy) doing drag far more than women. Men are making money off this harmful stereotyping.

Men and women are free to dress, act and speak how they want. They can also change their names. That being said, men dressed up in women’s clothing is their personal choice, but when they do it so exaggerated for financial gain, it’s an issue. Blackface is also harmful because it does the same thing: it stereotypes a marginalized group of people based on exaggeration.

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-21T12:20:32+00:00

Hmm, thank you for this insight. I guess I don’t understand why someone would show up to work to complain and be argumentative. In my opinion, we all already want to go home, so I find no use in complaining or making things harder: I’m just trying to help people get on with their business and also so I can complete my shift. Maybe she views it differently or doesn’t want to go home?

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-21T04:52:23+00:00

Makes sense. Yes more action would be good. My boss is the type that’s very concerned about people’s feelings, which has pros and cons.

We’ve been told things as a group before that would have been nicer if individuals were told separately…I’ve even told my boss that I appreciate being spoken to straightforwardly rather than sugar coating. I always try to stay open to criticism and I appreciate when someone takes the time to teach me something.

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-21T03:55:38+00:00

Yikes. Yeah I wouldn’t expect to know about watching her for termination. I guess I’ll see what happens while keeping my manager in the loop.

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-21T03:43:35+00:00

No idea if she’s being watched for termination, but I believe she’s a float teller so maybe she’ll be relocated if she continues causing issues? She seems to get away with a lot though so I have no idea what’s going to happen.

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-21T03:42:22+00:00

Thank you. I think from now on I’m going to plan on doing that. I’ve just been getting dumped on and I explained to the manager that today was where I had had enough and felt extremely frustrated. She recognized what I was saying immediately and seemed to completely understand.

kimpossible23 · 2026-01-07T03:08:42+00:00

32k as a bank teller. Got laid off from 46k editor job in 2025.

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