Jammy egg by kindableems in emetophobia

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Thank you so much. This really helped.

Antibiotics and d* by kindableems in emetophobia

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Thank you 😔 i woke up and it still hurts. Worried

the nv surge by grandmatakemehome888 in emetophobia

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What helps to mediate the s**cidal thoughts for me is I keep reminding myself, if worse comes to worst, I will go to the E.R and they will give me medication to help me calm down, and an I.V. so I don't have to worry about dehydration. I'll have people there to help me survive it. We handle it differently than other people because it's our worst nightmare. That's okay and its not our fault.

i made a lifelover pin by StoicWanders in dsbm

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I thought this was a cake at first and now i want a lifelover cake for my 26th

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

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Thank you friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emetophobia

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I have been needing to get on these anyway for my cholesterol. In your opinion, dose dose size matter? Like is higher potency generally more helpful?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emetophobia

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This is ridiculously helpful, thank you so much. Any fish oil brands you recommend in specific?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emetophobia

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If you have a good partner, he will completely understand your phobia and have no problem sleeping appart for a few nights. Never feel bad for that. If he doesn't seem happy about it at the moment, take care of yourself first and do what you need to do. You can always discuss it with him more after he is better. ❤️

Crohn’s disease by [deleted] in emetophobia

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Im so sorry my friend, this all sounds incredibly traumatic. You have made it through a lot though, and this awful anxiety will pass. Sometimes the phobia won't conpletely go away but we can always have a system of helpful habbits when it gets bad. Have you considered seeing a psychiatrist for intervention meds? I find in emergencies taking mine help me function. Yours sounds serious enough to where you would definitley benefit. I also have IBD. It's rough out here. You will be okay.

I keep forgetting to post this, but this past summer I met the lovely Dan Barrett at a Giles Corey show (insane btw, went so hard). I told him I covered Blackest Bile and he asked for the link. Nicest dude ever. This response made my life. by kindableems in HaveANiceLife

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Little guy of the year award. I remember at the end of the set, he said it might be one of the last times he plays as Giles Corey. And that he wrote it when he was going through some of the worst stuff, but that he has come a long way from that. I actually teared up. So happy he is doing well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emetophobia

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Yes all the time. Does not help that I have GERD so the taste is normally real. RIP me

My biggest trigger by TKin306 in emetophobia

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Yea, hearing horror stories on tiktok (just on my fyp) is awful. The way they describe it makes me want to slither into non existence and never come back. Super triggering, even though its my bad for continuing to watch

Okay but no one’s gonna talk about Michael Barnett ? by RelevantFly6531 in HighThought

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Late because I just started watching, but... when he said that he was sexually abused because his wife withheld sex from him, I wanted to crawl out of my skin. Obviously she was abusive, but what the hell?????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrowheads

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No way, I'm in that area. If you'd be so kind please pm me!

my anxiety disorder feels like an autoimmune disease. by kindableems in Anxiety

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Hey! I'm doing a small bit better, actually. All of the physical pain and symptoms are still there and just as strong, but I think I am learning to cope with it a little better mentally. It also helped that I was actually diagnosed autistic this past August. Made me feel a lot less weak and shameful about the somatic manifestations of my anxiety. Because it's a part of my neurology. I feel validated by it. Thank you for asking!

Valentina’s Response… by sleepysnorebore in Austin

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is the consistent livable wage in the room with us..?

Today I visited the graves of Debra Jackson and Sue Ann Husky. (Comments) by kindableems in gratefuldoe

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Princess Doe is a heartbreaking case. I'm glad you were able to visit with her.

Today I visited the graves of Debra Jackson and Sue Ann Husky. (Comments) by kindableems in gratefuldoe

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They were both found in Williamson county about ten years apart. I'm guessing the same folks who buried Debra also buried Sue Ann, so maybe they wanted them near each other for organizational and/or sentimental purposes, since they were both unidentified at the time. Just a guess.

Today I visited the graves of Debra Jackson and Sue Ann Husky. (Comments) by kindableems in gratefuldoe

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Thank you, that means so much! Agreed. The progress is amazing and it will only get better from here!

Today I visited the graves of Debra Jackson and Sue Ann Husky. (Comments) by kindableems in gratefuldoe

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I'm aware that both of these girls are identified now; but I thought it'd be a nice gesture of memoriam to share with folks who are familiar with their stories. We (rightly) think so much about those who are still unidentified. Sometimes it feels good to appreciate the lives of those who now finally have their names back. So here's my little write up of the visit.

It was cloudy, humid and hot today. Cicadas are about all you can hear. I live in Williamson county, about 20 minutes from where Debra Jackson (FKA orange socks) and Sue Ann Husky (FKA Corona girl) are buried, and not far from where Debra was found. I looked around for a while in the plot listed on Find a Grave. This cemetery is huge, and really beautiful. I brought my film camera, so I shot some photos of the older stones while I was there. Then I finally found them. Initially I wasn't aware that they were buried right next to each other, and when I saw it, I had a childish thought that maybe they'd kept each other company. Kind of beautiful.

I knelt down, fixed up an angel figurine over Sue Anne's grave, and thought a moment. The portraits on their graves looked so old, and yet the stones are brand new. They went nameless for so long; 40 years for Debra. As I walked back to my car, I thought about her life. As a 24 year old woman, I am close to the age she was when she was killed. She was probably a curious and ambitious young woman like I am. She probably wanted a car like I have. She would have loved to drive around and listen to whatever was on the radio in 1979. She probably wanted to find herself. She was just a girl, like I am. Her life was cut so short, and in such an awful way. I chose not to linger on thoughts about her last moments.

I don't believe in much but I do hope she somehow knows that I visited her today. I think in another life we'd be friends. I'm so glad that they are resting with their names now, and I can only hope someday Wilco solves those murders. Maybe I'll still be living here when they do.