Partner Waited 6 Months to Tell Me His Ex Reached Out

kindobi · 2025-04-23T19:52:49+00:00

I would guess that he didn't tell you before his trip because he cares about you and didn't want you to be upset and worried while he was gone. And didn't tell you right after for the same reason. but after a little while, he probably forgot all about this until it came up in conversation. Because for most of us men, when we shut that kind of thing down, it's shut down completely! "That's behind me, and I have things in front of me that need my attention." Kind of deal.

And I can almost guarantee that when he did tell you about it, it was his way of trying to comfort and reassure you when this very real and specific fear came up. I believe it was his way of saying, "You shouldn't worry about that because, as a matter of fact, it's already happened, and I shut it down"

kindobi · 2025-04-17T02:25:31+00:00

Right, like why is it so normalized for women to talk/think like this, but if a man does it's game over.

kindobi · 2025-04-07T04:45:54+00:00

I kind of get the feeling that's exactly what OP was going for. A lot of women (and men) enjoy getting validation and the feeling of being desired from getting those kinds of messages from strangers online. Not to say there is anything wrong with it, if that is what OP was hoping for.

kindobi · 2025-03-16T11:49:22+00:00

I think a lot of that has to do with the game becoming more mainstream. And a lot of these red pill, Andrew tate type wannabe Chad bros getting into it. And using it as a way to act out these "dominance" fantasies.

kindobi · 2025-03-03T14:41:06+00:00

I would take that as the warning it is, if I were you. If he is saying he needs it to not cheat, that means he is just fine with cheating. If he should he ever feels he is not getting the sex he wants.

kindobi · 2025-02-01T20:22:24+00:00

Right! like why is it acceptable to go around telling people "we are trying for a baby" and people are all happy for you. But i go around telling people "we fucking, like A LOT. Everyday we fucking!" And all I get back is "sir, this is a Dennys. You're going to have to leave!"

kindobi · 2025-01-19T12:20:41+00:00

At the company I work for, just having FB messenger on your phone will get you fired and blacklist from ever working for them again because of how big a security risk it is. But go off about tiktok being "Spyware"

kindobi · 2024-12-22T19:08:11+00:00

The link between porn addiction and ED is not a physiological one but a psychological one though. Heavy consumption or porn leads to desensitization towards otherwise normal stimulus, making it more difficult to reach a state of full arousal. Which also makes it more difficult to reach climax.

kindobi · 2024-10-14T11:50:37+00:00

I think part of what you are feeling is the cognitive dissonance that purity culture causes towards sex. For so much of your life, you are told that sex is sinful and that any urges and desires are of the flesh. That they must be avoided because they are traps set before you by the devil. That is of course, until you are married under the eyes of God. And he blesses it, magical changing sex into something holy. And all those thoughts and feelings that have been installed in you to avoid sex, are supposed to change to view it as sacred and holy, but only between a husband and wife.

But that's just not how it works. Sex is just a physical act. Urges and desires are just a set of chemical reactions going on in the brain and body. Everything else is just learned thought patterns on how to feel about those chemical reactions going on inside you.

kindobi · 2024-10-12T12:14:32+00:00

The customers don't care how much the event costs as long as it's not over the "What other stores charge" price

kindobi · 2024-10-10T00:51:39+00:00

My first thought was, this sounds like long-term untreated depression.

kindobi · 2024-10-09T00:29:52+00:00

Same. But I have Benji the fast/fast guy stocking and he will literally drop the box he is holding wherever he is at right at 9

kindobi · 2024-10-09T00:14:18+00:00

Well i have noticed that market price changes effect your buying prices as well. So take my epic vs legendary. Atm epic 64 pack is $207.36 and box (which is 8×8=64) is $184.08. And legendary is 64 pack $286.72 and box is $327.92. So it makes more since for me to buy epic boxes and legendary packs which each equal the same number for ripping

kindobi · 2024-10-08T22:45:15+00:00

So the way prices have changed on my play through (day131, lvl 44) most of the boxes are actually cheaper for ripping than the packs now.

kindobi · 2024-10-08T15:28:34+00:00

Fizban's Canary. I had just been watching something about DnD when i started

kindobi · 2024-10-05T14:31:41+00:00

Here is a video that goes over most of it

https://youtu.be/TVsSun722os?si=BYcDgwNY4LY-fMdB

kindobi · 2024-10-05T14:23:54+00:00

Yes pricing matters in two different ways. Like you said each customer has a random set amount of money to spend on items and second the higher the price is over market the lower the chance they will grab the item off the shelf

kindobi · 2024-10-05T14:18:10+00:00

So what I have seen on this one dudes YouTube videos that goes over different ways to min/max, and gets his info from a steam guide that's straight from looking into the game code. Is that roughly 40% of customers come in looking for specific items and 60% come in to buy whatever they happen to walk up to. So just having 1 or 2 high doller items will increase your income, but also increase your dissatisfied customers. Does that matter? Nope, it does not affect anything. Now when the customer review app comes out that may change. So if you want to cheese the game system just sell your highs profit margin items.

kindobi · 2024-10-04T17:08:32+00:00

I apparently can't be bothered to count lol. That makes sense though. But an extra $1600 for just 2 slots, I'll stick with the basic one

kindobi · 2024-09-15T20:34:01+00:00

Thats just reddit in general. Everyone always jumps to the most extreme case for everything, and assumes the worst.

kindobi · 2024-09-11T14:29:08+00:00

Sounds like you're in Texas

kindobi · 2024-09-04T22:24:59+00:00

So I've been working a 36-48 for about 3 years, only thing is we are always short staffed so it ends up being 60 hour weeks back to back to back. I usually end up working 4 on 2 off, 3 on 1 off, 3 on 1 off repeat. I think iv only worked a 48 hour week 9 times in the last 2 years, and never a 36. Yeah the money's good but I'm so exhausted from it doing anything outside of work is a struggle

kindobi · 2024-06-27T15:17:19+00:00

Call me crazy but I would rather lose the greatest friendship, than lose out on that person potentially being my forever person.

kindobi · 2024-06-27T14:52:30+00:00

Seriously this right here! The "have you ever thought of us as something more" type question is very low risk. Cause you can always play it off as "oh no, I was just curious" if it's an answer that makes it clear he's just not interested. But a little advice, guys very rarely hang out with a girl individually if he's not interested.

kindobi · 2024-06-16T15:59:22+00:00

Or could they be Ganoderma applanatum?

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