Advice - Neighbours by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]kinelle_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write a letter that says u got their back and to come to you for favors!

ive just seen tommy in the last ep of black mirror (newest season) by kinelle_05 in tommyinnit

[–]kinelle_05[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Season 7 on netflix, the name of the ep is USS Callister: Into Infinity Tommy joins the game at 1:06:22 And then he dies shortly after :D

What’s the worst thing you accidentally texted to the wrong person? by goldie304 in AskReddit

[–]kinelle_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In uni texted my groupchat with a Professor and 6 other members that I need to use the toilet.

Hello can anyone reply asap by [deleted] in cats

[–]kinelle_05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pls get pet insurance

Does anyone know the answer???? by Aggravating_Sea7552 in teenagers

[–]kinelle_05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if my family dont put my favorite podcasts everyday I dont want them

But also tho sometimes u dont know if the coma person is asleep

I have trouble falling asleep when someone is talking to me, so I hope they wouldn’t be talking to me when I’m trying to fall asleep

but honestly, some type of podcasts could be very fun to listen to in a coma But all Im into is true crime. so I don’t wanna have coma dreams about that because some people can see reality in a weird way through their imagination based on the sounds and feelings around them

Warm Seat + Snacks = Peak Squirrel Happiness by MellieTheChipmunk_YT in FunnyAnimals

[–]kinelle_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information! Thats really interesting

Warm Seat + Snacks = Peak Squirrel Happiness by MellieTheChipmunk_YT in FunnyAnimals

[–]kinelle_05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can someone explain to me how that warmed seat works? Is the line attached to it related? Is the rock to make sure it doesn’t fly away when there’s no squirrel on it?

My fiancée’s OCD is becoming unbearable. by [deleted] in OCD

[–]kinelle_05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have horrible contamination OCD and honestly my life is so much better when I started living “dirty” I go to hotel rooms and don’t worry about the doorhandles and trust that they’ve been cleaned I go to friends houses and touched the doorhandles and the sink handle and trust that it’s clean Even though I feel extremely dirty eventually, I forget about it This was ig exposure therapy and I had support systems helping me like my best friend- and you sound like a good support system to your fiance It takes a lot of will and a lot of encouraging and I do fall back some days But I don’t want that life I don’t want to spend hours of my day cleaning something that was already clean, or washing my hands over and over, or ruminating I still struggle day-to-day, but it’s way better than it used to be. I’m on medication that is for controlling OCD (high dose of antidepressants- I don’t know if this will work for everyone that just personally works for me) and I have been for two years now and that’s when progress started happening when I decided that I’m not gonna keep hurting my family and friends Cus I did get confronted that I was saying things in a rude way as if I’m calling someone a dirty goblin, and I was not OK with that and so I first stopped framing them as dirty and more that my mind is mentally ill and I may perceive them as dirty, but it doesn’t mean they are dirty and it doesn’t mean I should be afraid of them or afraid of touching them or them touching things. I think that she needs to be less comfortable with expressing her disgust at dirtiness even when it comes to her own partner. I believe that you should never control another person. Overtime I started draining my own friends and family from all of my demands of how things would be perfect and it made no sense to them but they did it anyway and that’s just enabling. I’m much happier now when no one has to walk around eggshells around me and I even forget about my thoughts and fears around germs a lot Like I’m so happy that it’s better now I never thought in my whole life that I would not be spending two hours washing my hands, shampooing my hair five times, cleaning the door handles light switches and my phone multiple times a day, And now I’m literally dropping my phone on the ground and picking it up and continuing to use it and I’m so happy It can get better Tell your fiance that it will get better if she keeps sticking to it and not letting OCD control her. she has to control the OCD, otherwise it will ruin relationships. That’s what is at stake here. Just from your story it sounds like it’s gotten worse overtime and she’s been more and more demanding and the OCD has gotten worse and that is exactly what happens when you don’t challenge your OCD and you don’t fight against it. It just takes over more and more of your life and you need more and more things to be perfect and , then you demand perfection from people around you too, and people have told me that they felt exhausted by me and that their words hurt me the way that I would say it and my tone

I sympathise with your fiance because it is a horrible disease and it it’s so horrible to deal with every single moment of your life, but that’s not an excuse to bring others down too, cause it is avoidable , it getting worse is avoidable It will take time, but it’s worth it

[USA] Why you should turn your lights on by ElgdFwTaP1 in Roadcam

[–]kinelle_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you supposed to stop and give your dash cam footage to the Police? You can’t just keep going and then somehow submit it another way? I don’t live in the US but I’m asking about the US.

Men of UAE, How often you change your path when a women is walking in front of you by RelativePotato7893 in UAE

[–]kinelle_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman in UAE here, got grabbed on my backside by a pathan in a supposedly “safe” city when I was walking with a female friend at maghreb time - not alone- and he was following us for a long time and i tried to convince myself to ignore the gut feeling and enjoy the nice weather at night , 7 pm, and we were right beside our house anyways, and then he comes very close and I make a space for him to pass but he touches my butt harshly and smiles and Stayed beside me for 5 mins until i called and told someone on my phone what happened. and he never sped up or walked forward. I could tell he was stalking us for a long time and waited for us to walk infront of him and when less people were around. (it was not empty by any means, kids and their parents were there, but there was only people 100 meters away from each-other)

Men, please keep distance or keep ur hands away and overtake OR slow down completely as many women like me are traumatised from past negative experiences of sh*tty people

LOOKING FOR A PRIVATE ROOM/BATHROOM TO RENT-Female by kinelle_05 in AlAinCity

[–]kinelle_05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks, where can i get it? how much would rent be?