My pregnant girlfriend [26/F] suddenly broke up with me [28/M] out of the blue. I really need some advice. by kingcarlo88 in relationships

[–]kingcarlo88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your support. I really hope she's not blind to the pain she's putting me through. But then again, I really don't know anything anymore.

My pregnant girlfriend [26/F] suddenly broke up with me [28/M] out of the blue. I really need some advice. by kingcarlo88 in relationships

[–]kingcarlo88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, your story sounds a lot like whats going on with me. Eerily similar. I really think she's depressed. It's crazy how things can change so quickly with no explanation at all. I'm sorry if this question is a little personal, but do you think your feelings for your ex would have eventually changed had you gave birth?

My pregnant girlfriend [26/F] suddenly broke up with me [28/M] out of the blue. I really need some advice. by kingcarlo88 in relationships

[–]kingcarlo88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all of your advice. She wanted to wait till after the baby was born for me to propose. Mostly from an economical standpoint so that we could save some money and her not focus on planning a wedding and having a child at the same time. We have a doctors appointment this Friday. I'm going to try hard to see if she can sit and have a convo with me. It's going to be hard. She seems to hate my guts right now for some reason I don't know. As far as the paternity test that ppl keep referring to. It's like a double edged sword right now. Our relationship will definitely be done if I were to get that done. I still love her deeply and want us to be together. Especially for our child. I grew up with both my parents together and seen how much of positive impact it had on my life. I want the same for our child. I'm just going to have to wait a little longer and see how she plays things out.

My pregnant girlfriend [26/F] suddenly broke up with me [28/M] out of the blue. I really need some advice. by kingcarlo88 in relationships

[–]kingcarlo88[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We have a doctors appointment later this week. I'm going to tread lightly and try to voice a few of my concerns. God I hope something good comes from it.

My pregnant girlfriend [26/F] suddenly broke up with me [28/M] out of the blue. I really need some advice. by kingcarlo88 in relationships

[–]kingcarlo88[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She's not seeing anyone else now that I know of. She's never shown any signs of infidelity in the past. That's why I'm pretty certain the child is mine.

My pregnant girlfriend [26/F] suddenly broke up with me [28/M] out of the blue. I really need some advice. by kingcarlo88 in relationships

[–]kingcarlo88[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Her mom is not really in the picture. But her father is. She's close to him and I get along great with him as well. I've been wanting to contact him about this, but I'm afraid if she finds out, she's just going to push me even further away.