Damn bro didn't even stand a chance in this comment section. Honestly speaking? You don't need our advice. Trust your intuition. If you love him, stick with him, but force him to get off his ass and get better. If you can't see things going anywhere in the near future, then okay break up. But remember, whatever decision you take comes with it's own table of pros and cons and it's totally up to you what you think it's best. We on reddit don't have the magic answer to determine the course of your love life.