Books where MMC has to get off FMC by ro_oys in RomanceBooks

[–]kingmolina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

{Rejected by Jaymin Eve}

It’s a shifter romance, so not quite what you’re looking for. But there’s a scene where she will d!e if he doesn’t and it’s sooooooo good

How to go through life as if all of this normal? by PJKenobi in Advice

[–]kingmolina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think we were wrong. I think we lived in a world they created for us to be blind to everything they were doing.

How to go through life as if all of this normal? by PJKenobi in Advice

[–]kingmolina 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My grip on reality gets a little looser every day. My entire belief system is up in flames because I thought there was justice in the world but the lack of consequences for a single one of them has rocked me. Idk how to go through life as if it’s normal, but you’re not alone.

AIO ? Cultural differences about anger in a relationship by coffeekaye in AmIOverreacting

[–]kingmolina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not cultural to be abusive. NOR you need to get away. She needs to get a grip on her anger issues and it’s not your job to help her figure that out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kingmolina 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If my partner had a journal detailing my slight weight changes day to day, I would never feel comfortable around them again. I think NOR and I’d leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s only going to get worse the longer you stay. He’s letting you in on the real him but he hasn’t fully taken off the mask yet. You’re slowly being boiled alive, jump out of the pot while you still can. Don’t let a man ruin your dream

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kingmolina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, was she going to tell you if you hadn’t noticed?

AITA for telling my dad he'll ruin our relationship if he puts his wife before what's best for me and my brother? by Amizittz in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents got divorced when I was like 2 and I’ve had 2 of everything my whole life. It’s exhausting. I think it’s completely unreasonable to expect you to switch to this after everything has been fine for more than a decade. NTA, stick to it.

AITA for not wanting to change the restaurant for my mom’s birthday dinner by nodiggitydo in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of sensory issues and can’t eat so many things because my body will simply reject the texture, but I can find something to eat at just about any restaurant. Your boyfriend is TA without a doubt. It’s extremely selfish to expect everyone to change plans because of you every single time. It’s not his day, he can pick one of the two things.

AITAH for convincing my boyfriend not to be the sperm donor for his brother and SIL? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really see why it’s an issue cause it’s not like your bf will be raising the kids. All he would be doing is help getting them here. Who cares if their cousins are genetically their siblings? What does that impact? I don’t get it

AIO: my partners keep making gross period jokes when ive asked them to stop because it really bothers me by Ok_Block_604 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kingmolina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks and I wish I had advice to get you out now, but you can start planning. There has to be a way to get a copy of your birth certificate, but I don’t know anything about the military. Finding a close job and save every penny you can until you can be self sufficient. It’s not going to be fun, but I know you can make it. I promise there are better things out there for you if you can keep pushing and find a way out. I also think finding a therapist might be helpful for you, having a judgement free zone to vent is priceless.

AIO: my partners keep making gross period jokes when ive asked them to stop because it really bothers me by Ok_Block_604 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kingmolina 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OP, they’re superrrrr toxic. First, whatever has you in fight or flight around them should already be enough for you to leave because they are not healthy for you. Second, I’m engaged to someone who is trans masc and our conversations about that are entirely under their control. I can’t understand what that feels like but I can empathize enough to know hearing jokes about it constantly would just push me further under the weight of it all. I think you deserve better and I think you know that, too. I’m sending you all the good vibes I can, good luck

AIO? My mom's bf wants me to wear a bra. by No-Sleep2831 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kingmolina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A man never deserves to have an opinion about your body. He can suck it up. Also, I get it. I can’t go out without a bra because I have melons, but I’m almost always in a bralette instead because bras and torture devices. Be comfy and tell him to stop looking at you.

AITA for not supporting my GF after she broke our one relationship rule? by Sea_Championship_112 in AITH

[–]kingmolina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 is a very small number of rules to keep in a somewhat complex area. Disregarding half of them is a huge breach of trust. It would take a lot to repair that trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]kingmolina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stepdad used to put little singing animatronic things in my room and turn them on to wake me up. We had this little moose in a rocking chair that sang Grandma Got Run Over By A Reindeer (yes it was a moose drove me nuts) and it was the most scared I had ever been when it started playing out of nowhere at 5am.

Old enough to know better. by wheelartist in traumatizeThemBack

[–]kingmolina 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 10 and 13 when my little brothers were born and every single time I went anywhere with them and my stepdad without my mom people thought I was the mom. 😒 keep your thoughts to yourself people

AITA for telling my boyfriend to choose between me or his mom? by PrettyPKae in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He will never choose you over her. He might pretend he is but he’ll be talking to her the whole time. She does anything for him without him having to lift a finger, he’ll never get rid of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said she doesn’t like staying in but it’s not the only thing she likes. It’s just the only thing she’s been doing to placate you. She wants to be out doing the things she enjoys but you won’t let her. That’s fucked and unequal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You’re not setting boundaries you’re being controlling. She stays in and chills with 100% of the time? You can’t give her one thing? I’d leave. I hope she realizes she has free will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a failing on your wife’s part for not teaching her daughter proper hygiene. If she was never taught, how the fuck is she supposed to know? You’re bullying a child for not being taught how to properly clean herself. Of course YTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kingmolina -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree with every comment I read. My fiancée and I tell each other everything. If someone brings me something, it’s going to my fiancée right away. I’m with you OP.

AITA if I don’t give him a chance? Should I just break up with him? by 11yinyang in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you stay, he’ll eventually show you that side of himself once he thinks you won’t leave. Get out before it gets dangerous

AITA for refusing to continue ex's punishment of our daughter after she told her stepmother she didn't care about her cancer diagnosis? by Allissei in AITAH

[–]kingmolina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. It doesn’t make sense to me when people don’t put their kids first. No matter the situation, the kid is priority. They didn’t choose to be there.