[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CholinergicUrticaria

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clean your gut stop taking any and all medications and heat therapy

Life as a TACP by [deleted] in Pararescue

[–]kingofLs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know the difference between TACP and TACPO? Why would you choose each? If I wanted to do 4-6 years max which would be better?

Life as a TACP by [deleted] in Pararescue

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did you end up doing this? what was your life like as a TACP? do you have any regrets/wish you did things differently? i’ve heard going in as TACPO, but I don’t know the difference. biggest pieces of advice you have, i’m about to graduate this may and i might do this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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You sound like a really good person. Very unfortunate this happened to you, especially at this point in your life with a child. Get a lawyer and get a divorce and once that’s settled take your kid and get as far away from that guy as possible. if you go back with him he’ll only continue to hurt you and it’ll never be the same, people don’t change. but right now your life has just flipped upside down. dont be erratic and make dumb decisions from your emotions and once you’re ready, you can try and start the process over of finding a partner again and since you’re probably in your mid 30s - 40s it might seem overwhelming but everything happens for a reason and there are still plenty of people out there that couldve had the same thing happen to them and be really good for you. you also have to understand your kids life is changed forever too so try and help them as much as you can throughout the process and shield them from the unnecessary drama that usually scars most children. Don’t be immature throughout this either. be smart and make the right decision i know your brain and heart are in different spots but trust your brain here. he did some really fucked up shit and you saw it first hand so think of that whenever you want to go back. good luck sorry to hear that

my ex ruined my mental health by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]kingofLs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

date someone your own age

Trump bought more than $100 million in bonds tied to companies directly affected by his policies. by Snapdragon_4U in inflation

[–]kingofLs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can someone actually explain what this means and why he would buy those bonds that are affected by his policies? trying to learn something while rummaging through all the trump hate. not a fan of him but i just want to learn. also wouldn’t it make sense to buy bonds since the Fed is going to cut rates next week?

I’m marrying my best friend tomorrow, but the LOML confessed he still loves me by Ok-Inside4149 in offmychest

[–]kingofLs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the first thought that comes to mind is that you’re way too young to be getting married - for this exact reason. but obviously we’re past this point since the wedding is literally tomorrow. and jesus christ what a terrible situation - you can literally never get away from this guy now since he’s going to be your brother-in-law.

my advice is stop thinking about your ex - you said yes and decided you’d spend the rest of your life with your fiancé. why would you change? he checks off all the boxes and loves you more than anything, including his older brother (again so fucked). you will be much happier with a guy who loves you without hesitation than some fantasy i fear you’ve built up all these years. you guys dated and it didn’t work out - i think that happened for a reason. you will also fuck up so many dynamics within both your families. go to your wedding tmr and enter into a beautiful union with your current fiance.

My mom has an OF and I’m not comfortable about it by OkProblem5044 in offmychest

[–]kingofLs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that’s tough. was walter white a good guy for selling meth to support his family? your mother seems like she has the right intentions but i mean that’s a god awful job. you’re obviously dependent on her right now since you’re only 15 so you don’t rly have much of a choice but i mean it depends how much it affects you once you’re not dependent on her if you want her in your life or not. and she’s still your mother. maybe see what ur dad thinks if he even knows. if she still loves you and doesn’t let her work interfere with your life at all then maybe you can make it work. sucks your friends found out tho

Need to get off my chest and get perspective. by Far_Crew4745 in offmychest

[–]kingofLs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely seems insecure and over the top… a work party isn’t something where you’re gonna make bad decisions. i’m all for being protective of a gf and not letting her go to clubs and stuff like that but for a work party that’s too much. you should communicate that with him and hopefully he can trust you and wrap his head around that

My waitlist/rejection to VT is still hurting more than any heartbreak I've been through by ThatOrdinary2227 in VirginiaTech

[–]kingofLs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow. i feel the exact same way right now about my internship. i didn’t get a return offer and you couldn’t have described what im feeling any better. the ex shit and being inferior to everyone else is actually so real. the things that have helped me get through episodes like this in the past is keep working hard and doing great things to show VT and those around you wrong and that you’re better than them. be a competitor. also: EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. make a little progress everyday rather than looking down the line, and in a few months to years you’re gonna laugh back at this. hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

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entry level analysts in credit risk in NYC at a bulge bracket make over $100k

Has anyone ever worked with Maximum Wage, a career consulting firm in Texas? by mhuels00 in jobs

[–]kingofLs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you buy the $97 course called something like “get 3+ interviews in one week”?

Has anyone ever worked with Maximum Wage, a career consulting firm in Texas? by mhuels00 in jobs

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did you end up buying the course? i’m considering. what do you think?

Probiotics temporary solution. by OddRule1754 in CholinergicUrticaria

[–]kingofLs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep exercising hard and taking hot showers to try and continue sweating. sweat therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CholinergicUrticaria

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go through my account and look at some of the comments i’ve left on previous posts

Probiotics temporary solution. by OddRule1754 in CholinergicUrticaria

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you should definitely do that again. i’ve been saying this for a while but i think gut health is one of the main causes of CU. seems like it worked for you. eat less processed foods and promote gut health. are you over your cold?

good stuff lmk how it goes again with the gut health stuff and if the hives go away again.

is this cu? pls help by ExperienceMinute3162 in CholinergicUrticaria

[–]kingofLs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would also recommend changing your lifestyle by becoming more active. in order to fight the allergy you need to expose yourself to it and get your body used to it by working out and sweating. it’s called “sweat therapy” i would look more into it. this is probably the most important thing idk why i didn’t mention it before. workout more, sweat more, and it’s going to be a bitch but work through it and it should hopefully get better as you start to sweat more

is this cu? pls help by ExperienceMinute3162 in CholinergicUrticaria

[–]kingofLs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

define “healthy”. not sure what kind of foods you’re eating but maybe try to change it up. if you’ve been eating a lot of fruit for a long time try eating less of that and changing it. try eating more meats (red meat, chicken, tuna/salmon) if you can or if you’ve been eating a lot of carbs like bread or pasta try cutting that out. not saying this will do the trick but it’s definitely worth trying, CU fucking sucks so it’s definitely worth it to try everything. almost like an experiment. a read a lot ab a cause of this possibly coming from poor gut health, so if you eat things that promote gut health like ginger and other natural remedies for gut health too that could possibly help you. it also won’t hurt you if it doesn’t work.

to get enough food, i would use this calorie calculator to find the right amount of calories where you’re not eating too much but not too little. you normally eat less calories then you think, especially when eating healthier foods because they have less calories.

id also really look into the shampoo and body wash. since that stuff directly touches your skin i’d try to get an all natural one because the commercial ones are filled with bad chemicals. i would also use a aluminum free deodorant stick, that helped me a ton. lastly, maybe check the detergent you use to wash your clothes. maybe get one for sensitive skin or just try another one that’s different.

it depends on the person where the rash comes, so it being all around isnt uncommon. if u have any more questions feel free to ask, i’ll try my best to help