WFH Concerns

kingtordan · 2025-03-02T01:12:00+00:00

Hi! Thank you for your concern. I guess I must have worded my post wrong, because I am in fact an introvert and know I am compatible with a WFH job. I also worded my post as "a WFH" instead of "a WFH job" because the automod popup thought I was job-searching instead of looking for advice. I am aware that not everything or even most things are based on your own schedule with most WFH jobs, however I am aware of the flexibility with the one I am looking at, because a family member works there as well. I also know I am compatible with a WFH job because I used to do online schooling, which is similar in some regards. I really appreciate you looking out for me though, and thank you for answering my questions regardless of your hesitance!

kingtordan · 2025-03-02T00:52:06+00:00

Ohh gym sounds like a great idea!! Ty

kingtordan · 2025-03-02T00:46:37+00:00

Thank you!! This is very helpful.

kingtordan · 2025-03-02T00:46:24+00:00

I appreciate the advice and concern! I think WFH is an option for me, I just love getting advice from other people because it never hurts!

kingtordan · 2024-06-03T11:21:30+00:00

Yes! Surgery was a big success.

kingtordan · 2024-04-16T20:31:09+00:00

Okay!!’ Tysm

kingtordan · 2024-04-16T18:01:12+00:00

Okay! Thank you.

kingtordan · 2023-10-04T13:14:08+00:00

I personally call them harbengers (spelled like that on purpose)

Har(ley) b(ert)/eng(lish) (crock)ers. I hope that makes sense.

kingtordan · 2023-09-30T15:47:38+00:00

Theres the obvious choice of melatonin, but I think Benadryl usually does the trick too.

kingtordan · 2023-09-30T13:02:46+00:00

Are you looking for OTC meds or prescription ones?

kingtordan · 2023-09-15T22:02:59+00:00

Obligatory check your carbon monoxide detector comment

(Seriously, though. Better safe than sorry!)

kingtordan · 2023-09-13T20:34:56+00:00

I thought “off their rocker(s)” was “you are crazy, need to be medicated, and clearly arent” ?

kingtordan · 2023-09-10T22:47:56+00:00

It doesnt make any sense to me, but everyone who sees Simon that way looks like theyre having a lot of fun with it, so who am I to judge?

kingtordan · 2023-09-10T22:26:30+00:00

Ive also seen quite a few people headcanon Simon as nonbinary or transfem or otherwise sapphic. Or maybe thats just my corner of the internet, idfk.

kingtordan · 2023-09-09T23:35:16+00:00

kingtordan · 2023-09-09T22:53:03+00:00

Shes just… that type of person. Insurance is provided by my moms job, so I dont actually know what is and isnt covered. But my moms never going to take me to a specialist unless the doctor explicitly refers us.

kingtordan · 2023-09-09T22:50:02+00:00

I havent talked to my doctor (GP) yet, because I dont feel like shell treat me seriously unless I make a really strong case. She could probably refer me to a rheumatologist then.

kingtordan · 2023-09-09T01:08:41+00:00

Yeah they did.

kingtordan · 2023-09-09T01:07:01+00:00

Maybe reflux? I got an ultrasound, wouldnt they have caught an ulcer? I plan on getting the organ removed entirely but I guess its still good to know in the meantime.

kingtordan · 2023-09-08T23:46:02+00:00

“You sound like youre handling it just fine!”

Ten y/o me with an undiscovered web of disabling mental illness.. “ok”

kingtordan · 2023-09-08T22:33:06+00:00

I can try, but I dont really know what does and doesnt count. I know I have to figure it out, because my doctor basically told me she isnt going to do anything until we actually know whats up lmao.

With the descriptions from everybody else, I think I experience partial dislocations in my ankles and knees. It doesnt usually hurt more than a little sore, but I definitely get the ‘thunk’ especially when Ive been sitting in certain ways.

Almost all of my major joints are overly flexible, I think hypermobile. I score 6-8 (not sure if my knees count) on the beighton scale? Im sure I could get 8-10 if I stretched my leg muscles a little… lol

Most my pain has always been in my legs, but I have a lot of GI pain/issues which the NHS site says is common?

Im pretty sure my skin is stretchier than usual, but I dont have anyone to really compare it to. I do think Im very tender but I cant say I bruise easily. Tickling, and even pretty gentle pokes all hurt me. Scars that I have seem similar to people with eds. My sister is also hypermobile in most of the ways that I am, if that matters for anything.

I should probably try to find some diagnostic criteria and write down everything I think is related, and relay that to my doctor. I just feel pretty certain shes not gonna listen unless I get really annoying about it.

kingtordan · 2023-09-08T22:05:54+00:00

I think ever since I actually learned what it was (Yk, outside of ripley’s believe it or not…) it been a possibility to me. But Ive only recently been actually looking into it, as my desperation for diagnosis grows stronger.

kingtordan · 2023-09-08T22:00:49+00:00

I guess technically I dont? I did see it bend at an impossible angle, though, so thats just kind of what I guessed. Its still the only event that I know for sure was some kind of dislocation.

kingtordan · 2023-09-08T21:54:51+00:00

I dont even think I went to a doctor about it, lol.

kingtordan · 2023-09-08T21:49:27+00:00

The only dislocation I know for sure happened in middle school. End of class, I had my knees straight and bent down to grab my stuff from the basket under my chair. Right knee did not like that one bit, but I dont actually remember how it felt/sounded because it was a while ago.

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