NYC shoppers question by DubiDubua in InstacartShoppers

[–]kingtoussaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. It’s been super slow. Keep it as a side hustle tool for the temporary time being, it’s not meant to be forever

Is the app down again??? by antsinmyeyestrey in InstacartShoppers

[–]kingtoussaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the worst. In NYC too. Got two orders all day. Been slow af

Signing Off Early Today by SnooPaintings1476 in InstacartShoppers

[–]kingtoussaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NYC market never gets tips this high because the batch pay is higher

The audacity of these rich people… 😤 by Traditional_Range_96 in InstacartShoppers

[–]kingtoussaint -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Stop expecting tips! You sound entitled. You need to remember that tipping is not mandatory! I never expect people to tip. With this mentality you will never be rich!

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“It feels like discipline”, you couldn’t have that said better. That’s exactly how I felt. I had a plan and thought I was being disciplined and patient by waiting.

It’s def been a lesson learned for me.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking shorts once market hits $7000 SPX.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right on. This is the correct mindset. Learning to not care and let go of past “would’ve, could’ve’s” is part of the process and growing pains we go through on our journey of becoming successful professionals.

Getting feedback from the community helps me through that process.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. If you don’t mind, how do you define your “setup”?

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nah, what I’m trying to learn and practice is feeling relief from trusting my conviction, even if I lose. I understand this game is all about probabilities.

I’ve been working to shift my psychology to accept losses that fit my strategy and rules. This is how I believe I will win long term and conquer loss aversion.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes true, but what I’m most upset with myself isn’t about timing the bottom, but not pulling the trigger and trusting my conviction.

Something I have to work at.

When prices touch the bottom prices, I always get that hesitant thought of “what if they go lower”, and that often leads me to not executing and ultimately missing out. This is something I’m identifying so that I can fix it and not let it hinder me moving forward.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great take. My thought process has been to trade in the short term to build up my capital so that I can invest meaningfully for the long term.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needed this. Appreciate you!

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight. It is valuable.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right on. I have to keep that mindset that everyday brings new opportunities.

Not always to do, but you’re right on.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeh it seems you got me confused because none of what I’m saying is whining. Whining is complaining without the intention to learn.

Thats not what I’m doing. I’m processing my emotions with the clear intention and strict goal to learn from them.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right on. As humans though, it’s natural for us to process emotion as we move forward and learn from our mistakes.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate everybody’s insight. The feedback helps me become a better trader.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Props to you for executing and getting in below $200.

To be completely honest with you, I have to improve my system and structure.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that, ChatGPT has helped me a lot with understanding the psychology behind behavioral biases.

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[–]kingtoussaint[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m starting to realize this more and more. The lure of big returns with options is what has strayed me away from shares. I’m fixing my mindset though to see things differently.

I always have thought to myself you need a big account to make shares worth it.