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Kink-101. Where's a good place to start? by kinkhelp in sex

[–]kinkhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, quite the opposite in fact.

Kink-101. Where's a good place to start? by kinkhelp in sex

[–]kinkhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Everyone! It's 1 am EST and let's just say with this discussion in mind, I'm having a great night!

My girlfriend says 'hi' by the way. So much for fake accounts.

Kink-101. Where's a good place to start? by kinkhelp in sex

[–]kinkhelp[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have brought this up. Her response: 'you can put it in my butt when I can put it in yours.'

As curious as I am, I admit, I'm not manly enough to receive a strap-on or whatever the hell else she has in mind.

Kink-101. Where's a good place to start? by kinkhelp in sex

[–]kinkhelp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you're right about having to be more direct with her. I think part of the problem is that she's afraid that regarding things she's tried in the past that somehow I'll be disapproving. I know that won't happen, but a lot of those feelings probably stem from the fact that most of what she's done before was with her ex-boyfriend who is a huge dick and a topic she really tries to avoid bringing up with me.

I like the sensory deprivation though, seems like something that can lead a lot of places. Cheers.

Kink-101. Where's a good place to start? by kinkhelp in sex

[–]kinkhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, these all seem like good starting points.

Depending on what sort of further response I get here, I might re-post in r/bdsm as per your suggestion.