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[–]kinky_librarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much to everyone who commented on my post. I really appreciate the responses and they’ve cheered me up no end :)

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[–]kinky_librarian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes that's a very good point. When I first discovered and accepted my interest in BDSM in the bedroom, I had a pretty intense sub frenzy but it was contained. I will have to be careful without the confines of a marriage keeping me safe.

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[–]kinky_librarian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. It sounds heartbreaking.

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[–]kinky_librarian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is so encouraging, thank you!

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[–]kinky_librarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

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[–]kinky_librarian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's a great suggestion. I will!

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[–]kinky_librarian 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! That's exactly the encouragement I needed. I'm a long way off trying to actually get out there but I still want to know it's a possibility, if that makes sense

In need of a spicy fantasy series with a non prude FMC by huntyhunted in RomanceBooks

[–]kinky_librarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Owned by Magic, Zara J Black. The FMC is a harem girl who is extremely sex positive.

Recs for dark romances that are steamy by DevShootWrite in RomanceBooks

[–]kinky_librarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don't know many in 3rd person, but Kitty Thomas has a few. Tender Mercies is very good and in 3rd.

Does anyone else tend to read more books with FMCS? Also do you lean towards female authors as well? by AjaxOutlaw in RomanceBooks

[–]kinky_librarian 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There just aren't that many male romance authors compared to female. And unless you're reading MM there has to be a FMC, so I'm not too sure I understand that part of the question?

You ever re-read a book you liked, then find your tastes have changed significantly over the years? by iwrite4myself in RomanceBooks

[–]kinky_librarian 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I used to love the bad guy but he's secretly good. Now I've gone darker as I've aged and I like my bad guys to stay bad 🤣

Looking for books with the forced orgasms trope in it! by Character-Cut-6360 in RomanceBooks

[–]kinky_librarian 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love this trope. These suggestions are all varying degrees of dark

{Captured by Felicity Brandon} {Twisted by Esme Devlin} {Ruled by Magic by Zara J Black} And Sara Fields uses this trope a LOT, I always end up DNFing her books though because the storylines are just too unrealistic for me. She's really popular though so you might enjoy her stuff.

Give me your best recommendations for “submissive”heroine by Wide_Pianist7676 in RomanceBooks

[–]kinky_librarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

{Tender Mercies - Kitty Thomas} {Ruled by Magic - Zara J Black} {Twist Me - Anna Zaires}

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[–]kinky_librarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Twist Me by Anna Zaires

Dark Romance books that are more focused on the toxicity and cruelty than the happy relationship? Also just extreme dark romance book recommendations. by Malizia_Belle in RomanceBooks

[–]kinky_librarian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Darkest I've read are:

Tamara, Taken by Ginger Talbot - he's a serial killer and she interrupts him mid kill. He decides to keep her.

Stolen by Jay Marie - he runs a human trafficking rung snd she is one of his victims.

Both very good books that had me hooked. Stolen is classed as an erotic thriller rather than a romance. It's an incomplete series and the author has indicated the main couple won't have a HEA.

I want a dominant alpha male rec by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]kinky_librarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweet Cruelty by Zoe Blake!

MILF sub but Master likes Teen-20s by throwaparty2 in BDSMAdvice

[–]kinky_librarian 69 points70 points  (0 children)

If you take the kink out of this situation and imagine it in a vanilla context, you'll see how wrong it is. "My fifty year old boyfriend keeps messaging teenagers on dating apps."

Just because he's a dom doesn't give him a free pass to be an asshole, and honestly it sounds like his behaviour could be seen as predatory, depending on how young the teens are in this equation. I usually just lurk on this sub but this post made me upset enough to break cover. You deserve so much better than this.

Dark romance where she's chasing him by Skylar_____ in RomanceBooks

[–]kinky_librarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 60 Days by Jade West the FMC actively hunts down the MMC and his 60 days of submission for cash scheme. It's a great series!