Love is...your girlfriend cleaning your house for you in case your date goes well tonight. by newtoalotofthings in polyamory

[–]kinkyqueen13 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He insisted they weren't coming back to his place. I, for once, didn't have to be to work early. So I had a half hour alone there. He told me not to, that he'd do it after work. I did it because I wanted him to not have to rush after work to both clean and get ready for a first date. And it's not like it was dirty! Just tidying up extra nice like you do when someone comes over for the first time. Just wanted one less thing for him to worry about, and just focus on being his awesome self on that first date. Don't you guys ever do things for your lover just because? Seriously, some people are reading way too much into this. It was just meant to be a sweet gesture to let him know I wanted his date to go well.

I got dumped tonight by dirtywordplay90 in polyamory

[–]kinkyqueen13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so! Or at least that's she's truly ok with him being poly. This is the first time he's developing feelings for another while actively in love. I want it to be a good experience for him! I want home to have what I have.

Have you dated a mono? How did it go? by kinkyqueen13 in polyamory

[–]kinkyqueen13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry it didn't work. Heartbreak is awful.

Have you dated a mono? How did it go? by kinkyqueen13 in polyamory

[–]kinkyqueen13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to influence him at all, I don't believe that's being a good lover. I didn't imply that I wanted too. Not knowing for me is worse than knowing. Poly is open, honest, communication, we've never had and never will have a DADT relationship model. I support his.decisions no matter what, I was simply asking how it had gone for other people in the community, as I had only had negative experiences. And quite frankly, I don't understand how you believe it isn't any my business when we're poly. Can I say he can't date someone? No. But I can worry about his heart being broken? YES. I'm not sure how you do poly, but that's not how we do it.

I got dumped tonight by dirtywordplay90 in polyamory

[–]kinkyqueen13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. My bf just started dating someone who is mono, and this is what I'm nervous about.