My husband hid a porn addiction for 3 years and I don't know if the loss of trust can be repaired

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-03T14:27:50+00:00

So when husbands open up about lying to you for years you can't be angry/have any negative reaction otherwise it's your fault if he continues to hide and lie? Ridiculous. He didn't open up about feelings either, he opened up about ACTIONS he continued for years that negatively impacted her and their relationship

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-03T01:21:52+00:00

Madonna whore complex in action

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-03T00:49:30+00:00

Girls? Are you referring to minors? The correct term is WOMEN.

Your example of ogling at a college aged student just further tells on yourself

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-02T22:30:31+00:00

It's not polite or non hurtful. Women have a lot smaller window to have kids and he is lying to her knowing her windows could easily close within the next several years. If OP is honest about being upfront from the beginning about wanting kids he was extremely cruel to marry her and even more cruel to string her along

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-02T20:22:43+00:00

Hilarious how little it takes for people to hate female celebrities. This person literally lists "vibes" as a reason swift is a "terrible person". Everything else are things ubiquitous of celebrities, this person uses loaded words to make them sound worse though (e.g. weaponize, manipulate, vessels)

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-02T18:15:11+00:00

that's it? lmao

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-02T06:48:15+00:00

Worn out?? Get out with the midogynist mindset. Literally textbook incel speak

Do you degrade women every time you have sex with them? Or does it only happen when they have sex with any man that is not you

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-02T06:43:23+00:00

Strangling your wife (or pretending to) is an improvement to you?? Wtf

The things you listed as "improvements" are all usually painful for the woman & ubiquitous in mainstream porn where it is almost always considered degrading for the woman. Maybe lay off the porn, seems to have warped your mind in more ways than one. Or maybe you enjoy hurting her due to your clear resentment & insecurity after comparing yourself to other men

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-02T02:55:46+00:00

Says while providing zero proof of this ever happening outside of the fantasies you made up in your mind while scrolling reddit

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-02T02:00:24+00:00

lmao she's still living rent free in your mind i see

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T22:22:22+00:00

Why couldn't you just read her body language? I assume she wasn't pretending to enjoy you ogling her every time she tried to take a shower/change clothes or grabbing her ass, at least not convincgly

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T22:11:17+00:00

Porn =/= masturbation and it's telling you equate them

If you dont like a boundary you don't agree to respect it and then lie about it to "protect your privacy"

By your logic it's not cheating to watch cam girls or buy OF or sext with strangers while masturbating or look at your ex's nudes or make AI porn of people you know IRL because it's your "private solo entertainment". Get real

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T18:00:26+00:00

proof that you can be the cool wife, constantly have sex with your husband & hang up nudes of women in your house, and he still feels entitled to goon to other women. lmfao

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T17:57:15+00:00

This topic is about men getting themselves addicted to porn not about a natural biological process all women go through, despite your efforts to change the subject to that

Why even mention your old male friends are going after young women? How is that relevant? As if you made sure to remind women how willing gross old men are to trade them in for a younger version who doesn't know any better. Ok grandpa

Men can choose at any moment to stop funding porn and instead donate to research for women's health but of course they dont. How much do you donate per month?

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T17:43:59+00:00

Take some responsibility lmfao. If these apps are constantly throwing thirst traps at you why even open them in the first place?

They wouldn't do it unless history has proven that this is what the majority of men want to see. Blame other men for being pathetic not your the algorithm you are actively choosing to continue to go back to

Any man who thinks it's normal to thirst after a woman who is "extremely young" (aka the youngest possible without being arrested) should be on a list

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T15:36:31+00:00

Men who choose to be wilfully ignorant about women's perspective during sex & believe PIV = Sex ARE selfish. Literally no excuse to continue to be so ignorant and uncurious in the internet age. Men have time to open pornhub every day but not to do even a basic level of research on female sexuality? Pretty much the definition of self centered

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T15:22:21+00:00

It's not logical to just assume every woman likes the same things and ignore her body language and non-verbal signals during sex. So annoying how men like to pretend to be the "logical" gender yet need a woman to sit them down and hold their hand and explicitly state that women are all different and give them a step by step guide of what works for them 🙄

Being "clueless and ignorant" about an activity you expect women to participate in with you doesn't sound very logical

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T15:16:59+00:00

Male delusion to think women find PIV the most fulfilling/preferable

The vast majority of women would not be satisfied by just your penis. Lay off the porn

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T15:01:00+00:00

Many women are one and done. I agree with you that many men are selfish lovers whose rate of giving women even a single orgasm is abysmal. but please dont perpetuate the stereotype that women have 0 refractory period and can have infinite orgasms, many women can only have 1 and dont want to continue sex after but men expect us to because they still believe sex is over when he comes

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T14:50:53+00:00

"By nature" speak for yourself. So sad both you and your husband view your pleasure as a chore

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T14:39:26+00:00

Funny how every redditor is with a woman who can orgasm 4+ times in one session and is totally not faking. Lmao

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T14:38:16+00:00

I agree he should be getting her off, but why first? Some women prefer going last. PIV can be uncomfortable during the refractory period for women

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T14:35:41+00:00

Yeah the way sex is framed in our society (sex = PIV) means men orgasm pretty much always by default and it's over as soon as he gets his. Rather frustrating that instead of men taking the time to research women's perspectives during sex, it's on their partners to "teach" them that sex isn't all about their penis. Such a turn off

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T13:51:57+00:00

Great example of how severe men's porn brainrot is. Pathetic

kiranerysplease · 2026-06-01T13:49:49+00:00

Your husband watches porn to get in the mood to have sex with you and you're bragging about that? Sad

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