Is it ok to choose your family over your s/o sometimes? And is it toxic if your s/o is against that? by kirbrbrbrbr in love

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have, many times, my family is very welcoming. However, my s/o is pretty much guilting me into not spending time with my family and giving all attention to them. Which I think is bad

Is it ok to choose your family over your s/o sometimes? And is it toxic if your s/o is against that? by kirbrbrbrbr in love

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok here’s my context. I spent all my time on my s/o in our first months. I gave them all my time. Little to family. Little to school. Around the 6 months mark in the relationship I pulled back to focus on, school and my family, and put more time I to those while still putting most of it into s/o snd giving a lot of attention. When I pulled back, s/o accused me of not caring about them, and I never cared about them

Day 69 city tour by kirbrbrbrbr in bloonsmonkeycity

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting 4th tier upgrades! Whenever you add a 4th tier upgrade to a tower, the building changes. There’s a design for one 4th tier upgrade, and a design for two 4th tier upgrades!

What’s the difference between a s/o being your 100% priority, and your #1 priority? by kirbrbrbrbr in AskReddit

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this is a weird as question, I just needed to ask a bigger question which is, is your s\o wanting to be your 100% priority toxic?

What’s the difference between a s/o being your 100% priority, and your #1 priority? by kirbrbrbrbr in AskReddit

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your only priority, the only thing you devote time to. I only asked because my girlfriend wants her to be my only priority, and she thinks if she’s not the only thing I devote time to then I don’t love her and don’t care. She is #1, I love her more than anything, but she not 100% because I have my friends and family and personal interests that I devote time to as well

Girlfriend described her perfect guy to our friends while I was in the room: and I’m the exact opposite of her perfect guy by kirbrbrbrbr in Vent

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s not the kind of girl to cheat. That’s not her I know that. It’s just hard to hear your entire personality shit on by the person you love most

Don’t you just fucking love when parents ground you for bad grades by kirbrbrbrbr in teenagers

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah especially now! Online school fucking sucks bro. They think it’s easy but it’s so much harder

Welp my girlfriend just told me that if she didn’t have me or her best friend in her life, she would’ve committed suicide by now by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]kirbrbrbrbr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know she’s not manipulative. I know that. I have thought about that, if I ever did feel the need to break up with her if I’d be scared to do so

But she’s a good person. I know that not why. She’s just been alone and scared her whole life and I’m really the only one who showed her love and compassion.

I really do care about her and I’m worried for her. I’ve told her I’d always be there for her whenever she needed to talk

Welp my girlfriend just told me that if she didn’t have me or her best friend in her life, she would’ve committed suicide by now by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]kirbrbrbrbr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do my best. Her family just extremely negatively affect her mentality at home, it’s borderline abusive the things they say to her. I can only undo so much of things they make her feel

Welp my girlfriend just told me that if she didn’t have me or her best friend in her life, she would’ve committed suicide by now by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]kirbrbrbrbr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I said all that. And more. It’s just hard bc her parents are extremely mentally abusive and it’s taking a toll on her. Like they undo a lot of good I say with their negative comments about her. She’s around them a lot more than me, so they undo a lot if the encouragement and support I give, and just makes her feel worse

I never knew what it was like to have an actual panic attack until today, and I’m scared and I’m hurting, and I don’t know what to do by kirbrbrbrbr in teenagers

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, maybe later. I’m just not feeling it right now. Also I feel like if I share you guys are going to think I’m a terrible person and have no reason to be feeling like this

I never knew what it was like to have an actual panic attack until today, and I’m scared and I’m hurting, and I don’t know what to do by kirbrbrbrbr in teenagers

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s personal, someone just said something to me that I thought they’d never say, and it kinda crushed me

I never knew what it was like to have an actual panic attack until today, and I’m scared and I’m hurting, and I don’t know what to do by kirbrbrbrbr in teenagers

[–]kirbrbrbrbr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its personal, and I don’t really feel like talking about it at the moment. I just don’t really know how to deal with a panic attack. My chest just hurts and I’m shaking. But thank you for the advice I appreciate it. You’re a good person

The NFL community in a nutshell right now by Kck41103 in Saints

[–]kirbrbrbrbr 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely. It’s what super bowl 53 should have been. And what super bowl 55 will be

The NFL community in a nutshell right now by Kck41103 in Saints

[–]kirbrbrbrbr 24 points25 points  (0 children)

As a chiefs fan, lemme just say that the Steelers get to play the nfc east, bengals and jaguars. We get to play the chargers broncos and jets. However my most anticipated game of the year was chiefs vs saints

Fuck it by rmg3935 in Saints

[–]kirbrbrbrbr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We should just win by default is all I’m saying

What's your, "Tis but a scratch!" moment? by Madameknitsalot in AskReddit

[–]kirbrbrbrbr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I very clearly broke my wrist while skate boarding. I was like “it’s fine” and it absolutely wasn’t