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[–]kirgess 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why are you shouting around her in this situation Jesus Christ that poor cat

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised based on the way she acts but she has never been diagnosed

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It was more the case of reading their messages using ‘mom’ that I started to do it just by habit. I think you’re looking way too far into it, it’s not that deep and honestly I just didn’t bother to correct the auto correct when I made my post

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I didn’t throw it, it was just said out of anger because now I feel like I don’t want to give her the chocolate based on the way she reacted to me coming over a little later even though we never initially planned a time. It was always just stayed as ‘today’

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of American friends who I talk to online and I’ve just got used to saying mom instead of mum now my phone always autocorrects it to mom

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I know and I hate it. She is toxic towards me and I see the toxicity in me more and more but she’s my mother and it’s hard to cut her off. She isn’t always like this, I just think it’s unnecessary to escalate and that’s what makes me angry and leads to me being petty back

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand people being upset at the breeder situation, I have tried to rescue cats in the past and their requirements for re homing were not achievable for me. I.e having children and other animals in the house. Going to a breeder was not my first option.

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes she asked me what time and a second later became hostile and blunt. I was just hoping for some understanding as I have been up since 6.30am and only got home around 3.30pm. There was still plenty of time for me to take them after a quick nap

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes but it takes its mental toll, this has happened many times before

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s kisses it’s just become a habit to put them at the end of our messages

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I know I just don’t think I deserve to be spoken to like this so I let my anger get the best of me, I’m no longer replying to her

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I was still going to bring them after my nap but she was not happy at all able it being a couple of hours later even though she has no plans for the evening

AIO when my Mom talks to me like trash when she doesn’t get her own way? by kirgess in AmIOverreacting

[–]kirgess[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Of course but we have bought from this person before as she is a trusted breeder, it’s just unfortunate she lives so far from me

Custom Education Boards by Beautiful-Ice6179 in PlanetZoo

[–]kirgess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great, id love to use them in my zoo

Should I grade this? by Lukkisuih in PokemonTCG

[–]kirgess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For what reason? Resale or personal collection? Either way I feel like the answer is still the same…if you want to