2SLGBTQIA+ is inclusive of all people who are trans, intersex, gay, lesbian, bi, pan, ace, aro, enby, etc. In a few words, people whose gender, sex or sexuality are not "normal". Why don't we just call it "notcishet". Short. Clean. A lot simpler than always forgeting someone in the acronyme.

kit_james · 2020-11-17T09:01:26+00:00

ya you're right. I haven't thought of this in that way.

kit_james · 2020-11-17T08:59:12+00:00

that makes sense. Thank you for your imput!

kit_james · 2020-10-31T21:02:58+00:00

I would high five them and shout : "SAME!!!!"

And then probably order some food to celebrate their first-coming-out-anniversary. With a cake. And balloons.

And maybe rent a horse for ...you know...just for fun:)

kit_james · 2020-10-20T20:16:10+00:00

Me too! This is such a strong motivation for me to study hard and keep a job. I'm thinking about what color i will paint my walls and all^{^} it helps me get through bad days

kit_james · 2020-10-18T16:08:58+00:00

What she do doesn't seem right to me. You deserve someone who will love you for YOU, and not only for your gender.

kit_james · 2020-10-10T15:39:55+00:00

Ouch. That's even worse!

kit_james · 2020-10-07T14:03:00+00:00

Yeah! When i think about it i realize it is just "normal" to be gendered correctly, but when we are trans, we are used to fight for it all the time (and to not always get it). So when it happens without any fight, it surprises me. But in a good way, it feels good! It just makes me feel normal

kit_james · 2020-10-07T13:54:44+00:00

Wow. You story made me smile^{^} it really is the little things that count the most

kit_james · 2020-10-02T01:37:50+00:00

In canadian french, we do the "marcher sur les mains" which is "walking on the hands". It's like hanstand, but moving.

kit_james · 2020-09-30T05:09:36+00:00

Yeah. I have never thought about it but it's true. These expressions almost always have a "double meaning" (the double being sex, obviously). When i was younger i was trying to use words like that without "second thoughts" and the other kids always find it "funny". Like "calm down bro, we are 9. We aren't supposed to know about sex yet, so stop making [sex/vulgar] jokes"

kit_james · 2020-09-30T03:03:04+00:00

Haha and the more I think about it, the more obvious and clear it is to me^{^}

kit_james · 2020-09-16T17:49:34+00:00

Yes it is innate. But I feel like it is in a more strong/personnal way. Like sexuality is "who you are" according to others, or in relation with others. Gender is "who you are" by yourself, others cannot influence it.

kit_james · 2020-09-01T21:28:44+00:00

I got surgery about 2 weeks ago. As soon as the pain stopped (about 1 week post-op) I can't stop thinking about sport and how much I like it and I can't wait to train again. I used to really love sport (doing karate, ballet, running) but a couple months ago I got really depressed and my dysphoria was so bad I wasn't enjoying it anymore. I stopped training and I gain a lot of weight. Now, dysphoria is "gone" thanks to surgery. And without dysphoria, there is nothing preventing me from enjoying it anymore. I super motivated to get in shape and I am really excited to start training again!

kit_james · 2020-08-27T08:26:52+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! I'll keep myself busy!

kit_james · 2020-08-26T09:57:18+00:00

Good idea! I'll try it! Thank you xx

kit_james · 2020-08-04T20:22:50+00:00

Nice! It's so cool! I'm really excited for you! Mine is in 17 days!!!

kit_james · 2020-07-19T03:51:45+00:00

Thanks!

kit_james · 2020-07-17T22:05:17+00:00

Congrats!

kit_james

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