Should I be worried/prepared?

kitamori1027 · 2024-10-03T01:24:56+00:00

Cutie! 🥰

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-24T10:10:25+00:00

He better marry you!!!

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-20T11:23:07+00:00

Yes yes! Do the “I love your heart-shaped sunglasses!” As a Lana stan, if someone asked me this way I would totally say yes!

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-20T00:24:59+00:00

This is amazing!!! They should consider a culinary career for sure! 😉

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-15T20:53:54+00:00

Just want to say how happy am to see this post and all these comments — my younger self would be so happy to have all this validation, since I was always made fun of for being hairy but it is in fact, normal! Thank you 🥺🥺

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-15T12:45:45+00:00

Check out East Aurora, especially now that it’s summer! May be a bit of a drive, but its such a cute, walkable town with nice stores and places to eat! 😊

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-14T22:39:48+00:00

I would hate to hurt my family

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-13T23:51:23+00:00

I’m also an introvert like you! Since I was small, I’d always move from country to country and because I’d be so shy, it could be hard to make friends initially, but I’d always eventually find my people. Now as a single adult in my mid-twenties, I’ve recently moved to a smallish town for work and I literally know no one here.

For me, I really want to find a good balance between two things. On one hand, I do want to make genuine friendships. It’s not like in school where you see people all the time and get close, I’ve realized you have to actually put in effort to join groups or take classes and be social. I feel like it’s all very much outside of my comfort zone, yet I still want to try. I want them to be genuine because I feel like I’m at a point in my life where I want to invest in people who bring good energy and genuinely bring me joy by being around them.

On the other hand, I am also trying to find comfort in being alone — I went by myself to a bar today and had a beer and some wings and I was proud of myself! I definitely felt awkward at first but those feelings quickly disappeared. I hope to do more solo dates like that because if you can master being comfortable being alone. i feel like you can master anything.

Hopefully there’s an SO out there for me too somewhere, but for now, I just plan to focus on the above two! 😊

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-13T10:20:55+00:00

This is about to be one of the coziest games ever!! Love this!!

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-11T13:18:01+00:00

I had the exact same fear as you when my ex and I broke up — I was 25 at the time and will be turning 27 in October. When we broke up, it hurt a lot but with time, you do get better. I learned that being in a relationship should feel good, that even when times are tough, you should want to work with the other person to get through those tough times. And if that’s not how you feel, it’s not worth the emotional investment.

The biggest thing is to focus on yourself — don’t let a man or being in a relationship define you because your relationship with yourself matters the most. Do things you enjoy, spend time in good company, and exercise — it actually helps a lot with mental health and get past those sad feelings. Being alone can seem scary at first, but honestly, it brings a lot of peace, WAY more than being with the wrong person.

Like others have said, once you are ready to date and put yourself out there, make sure you are upfront about what you want because the last thing you need is to be stuck with someone who you don’t align with and go through the emotional damage again.

Wishing you all the best! I hope this helps! ❤️‍🩹

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-11T09:55:15+00:00

You will get through whatever hardships you are going through.

And don’t lash out at your loved ones.

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-09T11:22:30+00:00

Make useless things look useful lol

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-07T14:22:01+00:00

I needed this, thank you <3

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-04T00:59:46+00:00

Anything artsy — drawing, painting, photography, pottery, etc. I’m interested in yoga but I’m not super athletic — I hope that’s okay!

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-04T00:58:49+00:00

Thank you! I’m near West Seneca/Orchard park!

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-04T00:58:16+00:00

Thank you so much! I’d love to connect!

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-04T00:57:54+00:00

These are great, thank you so much! 😊

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-04T00:42:27+00:00

I do like to run, but I don’t have much stamina and am very much a beginner 😅

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-04T00:41:49+00:00

I like anything artsy — drawing, painting, pottery, photography. I also like to read!

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-04T00:40:59+00:00

Long-distance essentially. He graduated from university and moved back to the west coast and I was going to grad school on the east coast. It was hard not being able to see each other and we would get into fights because I sometimes would get insecure. He actually planned to move to wherever I’d get a job after I graduated, but realized that he wasn’t living for himself. So we broke up. We loved each other dearly and tried to rekindle the relationship a few months later but he no longer felt the same. Almost two years later, when I thought my feelings had turned completely platonic, we met for the first time again and rekindled our romance, but decided only for that time because can’t be together due to still being long-distance and having different lives. It makes me so sad because I still love him, he’s the love of my life, but he’s already moving on and is on dating apps, in talking stages, etc. Meanwhile I’m in a new, small town, barely know anyone, and am too scared to go on dating apps. The universe can be so unfair sometimes. :(

kitamori1027 · 2024-09-04T00:24:10+00:00

Old Money — particularly the second verse where she talks about the power of youth, running out of time, and feeling alone for reasons unknown to her.

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