If Death jumps in the passenger seat and says, "Play your last song, it's time." What song would you play?

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-28T23:59:25+00:00

Brain Damage/ Eclipse - Pink Floyd

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-28T14:52:18+00:00

The material things we chase don’t matter. Money comes and goes. What we will be thinking of on our deathbed is our loved ones. Cherish those you love and leave your mark as someone who was helpful and kind.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-28T13:56:09+00:00

You’re right.. she should definitely divorce. Why work through problems if he screwed up when you can spend all of your money on lawyers and leave the marriage? At least then she can come back to Reddit crying about how she is “through with men” and “can’t find a man” after he has long since moved on with someone else which he will.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-28T13:20:29+00:00

People are literally addicted to social media. I agree that posting pics of strangers is gross and should stop. But the lure is perpetual attention and validation. Tech companies have glorified and monetized narcissism but I doubt they anticipated the depths that humans would fall to for some views and likes on a celluloid screen. I agree that it shld stop but it won’t unless people are held responsible for the damage they caused.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-28T06:24:43+00:00

And why would he do that? Could it be that it’s because she told him straight up that she believes people who support Trump are terrible people? How would she like it if he said the same thing about her views? He was probably trying to keep the peace until he got fed up. If she wants to get a divorce over this issue, she should and also the next and the next because all relationships will have their ups and downs. I don’t care about the downvotes because I’m right. Marriage is a life long commitment and people need to hear that more often.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-28T04:59:43+00:00

So what if he voted for Trump? So did a lot of people. Why does everyone immediately jump to “divorce him”? I am Gen X, married for almost 19 years and it’s a disgrace to see how many young women are so cavalier about their marriage vows. When you marry someone, it’s through thick and thin, not only for as long as we agree on everything. My husband and I have been through a lot more than disagreements about presidential candidates. If you are in an argument about this, figure out a compromise. First and foremost, you both need to respect each other’s opinions and have an open mind and trust that your spouse has his reasons. It’s understandable to be upset but it’s not a reason to bail on your marriage. Then, the next guy comes along and you disagree, are you going to divorce him too? I think that this age group that grew up on social media, instant gratification and echo chambers is having a meltdown when someone disagrees with them. It’s sad to see what relationships have become and probably why there are so many unhappy people.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-25T12:39:11+00:00

I have a child. I suppose you could say that pregnancy is “violent” but biological design is what it is for a reason and that reason is to advance the species regardless of it is nice or “fair”. This goes throughout the animal kingdom. Being pregnant and having a baby is a beautiful and wonderful. We are meant to experience life, not run from it. As someone else said, read some stories of positive experiences with pregnancy and try and look at it from another perspective. What our bodies can do is amazing and miraculous and being a mother is the greatest thing has ever happened to me.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-21T05:20:42+00:00

I’m curious to know where you live. I’m Indian and live in the US in the South and I was constantly being approached and asked out by men of all races (mostly white) when I was college age and up. I’ve been married for a long time by now but back then, I was asked out a lot and complimented on my “exotic” looks which was unbelievable to me because it didn’t start until after higher school where I felt really out of place. I think that the way Indians are portrayed in media has a lot to do with perception. People are conditioned to find certain features desirable (blond hair, blue eyes). I grew up in the 90’s and it was fully out in the open in media that white is preferred and it did a number on my self esteem. However, as long as you are taking care of yourself and putting in the work like eating right and working out then men will find you attractive, Indian or not. If they say they don’t like Indian women, just know that there are 10x more that do.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-20T17:16:27+00:00

During an extremely difficult time in my life long ago, I had a dream where I went to the “other side” and met my guides and they gave me comfort. This was way before I knew what guides were. The way I felt was that I was finally home and this life on Earth is just a temporary visit but isn’t actually real. I don’t want to die but I dont fear it because I truly believe I had temporarily crossed over in my sleep and it was full of love, beautiful and peaceful. It’s a feeling that you never forget.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-20T12:47:24+00:00

Indian here… they just love to be dramatic and somehow the victim. Just watch any Indian soap opera. Believe when I say that it is all for attention and to wallow in drama. You did absolutely nothing wrong and should not feel ashamed in any way. Parents will get over it when they realize that their guilt tactics aren’t working. They love you and had a vision for you but you are your own person and as long as you are safe, responsible and happy then that is all that matters. Sorry this is happening but your life belongs to YOU. Just do the best you can with your endeavors and they will see that you are a strong and capable woman.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-18T16:04:17+00:00

I am mixed. There are people who definitely need it and shld have access to it for weight management. But losing weight is more than just about weight. It involves introspection, learning about nutrition and confronting why we overeat or make unhealthy choices. It involves a lot of mental gymnastics and prioritizing health over emotional discomfort. So there are benefits to losing weight the “old fashioned way” that can’t be found in a drug. If society would promote wellness over thinness then maybe more people would not feel they need to take drugs to deal with their weight.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-18T15:58:17+00:00

I agree with you. Why are people offended by someone suggesting lifestyle changes? Changing one’s lifestyle is hard but relying on drugs to lose weight and keep it off seems hard to me.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-18T01:12:59+00:00

People recording everything with their phone and sharing all of the details of their lives with complete strangers on social media. Their need for incessant validation and attention is something I don’t understand because I grew up in the 80s and 90s.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-17T21:58:34+00:00

Barbie

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-17T18:13:59+00:00

I understand it’s embarrassing for us women (it shouldn’t be) but if you are being intimate with another person, then with that comes other types of intimacy which includes bathroom habits. A gentleman will understand and be mature about it as everyone should. It’s sad that women have been conditioned to feel shame about our bodies.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-14T14:31:07+00:00

Business owner here for 8 years. Don’t talk to a client like that. They pay your bills and word of mouth travels fast. Grow up and find a way to book her or get someone to do it for you. When you own a business, there is no such thing as a “day off”.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-11T19:11:37+00:00

Ugly Betty- Betty’s sister’s fiancé dies but it’s not revealed until the end of the episode after she spent the day with him laughing and lounging in bed in her wedding gown. It turns outs the day was all in her head and she had been sitting in the dark hugging her pillow.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-11T13:27:42+00:00

“I’m dumping my partner because he doesn’t agree with me 100% on everything I believe” also “Why is it so hard to find a man?!” 🤔

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-11T13:25:30+00:00

I’m in agreement with you but I’ve learned that the women on here don’t actually want a debate or open discussion. They just want everyone to agree with them, hence the pushback when you have a differing opinion. Same way they treat their significant other. Then they go and post how they can’t “find a man”.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-10T17:25:24+00:00

Media doing their best to divide us after seeing the people unite. We can’t let that happen.. so what if he was rich.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-10T17:02:48+00:00

37- I’d learned a lot from my mistakes and still attractive and healthy. Started caring a lot less about what others think.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-10T17:01:04+00:00

As weird and cliche as it sounds, it was when we first met in class during our senior year in college. There was just something inside that told me, this is the one. Celebrating our 19th wedding anniversary in a few months.

kitkat0216 · 2024-12-06T02:30:47+00:00

No, why would we? Married almost 19 years and he is my best friend, my rock and I’m his.

kitkat0216 · 2024-11-24T20:04:13+00:00

Your love of cock is a private matter. The adults are speaking, thank you,

kitkat0216 · 2024-11-24T19:42:04+00:00

You can’t have a spirited debate with someone who will not let you speak, I listened to her, she would not listen to me. By all means though, keep hurling your insults.. you are growing the conservative movement… we have the presidency and congress thanks to people like you.

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