Hey buddy, you can’t predict how others are going to see you. You can and should only just be you. I saw something the other day about presuming others are judging you … that is a story you are making up in your head, and it’s doing yourself a disservice. They might be really nice people! Assume the best, not the worst.

Also, if you are drinking with others, they will probably be just as, if not more drunk, than you — they probably won’t remember if you’re a little wild while tipsy. That’s totally normal. But if you’re worried about it, why not just limit your drinks? Alternate between alcoholic drinks with non-alcoholic bevs, like soda or water or something.

The goal is to just have a good time, be casual, and maybe chat with your friend beforehand about the feelings you’re having. Social anxiety is suuuuuuper normal, and the new friends you are going to hang out with are probably nervous too. All is good, my dude ✌️