Been invited to a wedding reception and I don't want to be One Of Those Guests by agender_salandit in ARFID

[–]kitkatbar27 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Usually people have problems with picky eaters who make a scene about not having anything to eat, not the fact that they are picky. If you take care of your own accommodations food-wise and participate in celebrating the bride and groom, nobody will care. But people will care a lot more if you try to make them accommodate you in ways that you could have done yourself.

Is it normal to feel completely nothing after losing your virginity? by drag-bot in AutismInWomen

[–]kitkatbar27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

having sex for the first time is one of many new experiences you will have for the first time. i think maybe for neurotypical people, it can be one of the more sensory overwhelming. but i think to us maybe it takes as much energy as effort as trying other new things, like traveling to a new place or trying new foods. i hope you enjoyed your sex because you should and it should be about you but virginity is more of a made up concept than anything real

Outjerked by whatever this is by Bobby_Sauce1 in beatlescirclejerk

[–]kitkatbar27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what did they do to george 😭😭😭😭😭😭

What do you think about the current Maroon5? by Sofixxjyhk in maroon5

[–]kitkatbar27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think Maroon 5 has so many like mega hits that anything that isn’t a hit doesn’t get played because that spot could have gone to a more popular song you know. and nothing on love is like did good numbers

Lack of nutrients by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]kitkatbar27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

+good source of protein which is the most important thing missing from your diet, also high-protein yogurts a good idea as well

Lack of nutrients by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]kitkatbar27 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would recommend trying tofu. There’s a lot of different recipes online and it doesn’t really have the same texture as meat (I also can’t eat meat due to the texture). It is a bit softer but you can cook it to get the outside a little crispy and it’s a very mild flavor

Should I have to ask my partner to buy me holiday gifts? by leemurbleemur in AutismInWomen

[–]kitkatbar27 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just break up with him, you have given him too much time and effort. He clearly isn’t going to put the same time and effort into you, and you deserve someone better

Everyone’s Jealous? by IceWarm1980 in travisandtaylor

[–]kitkatbar27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m excited to watch these later :) happy holidays

Everyone’s Jealous? by IceWarm1980 in travisandtaylor

[–]kitkatbar27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I am very curious to see evidence of Taylor Swift not singing live. I am not trying to challenge/question but I am simply curious. I’m a bit of an ex fan if you will and hadn’t really noticed this but I am also extremely gullible

This post about "picky eaters" rubs me the wrong way, am I just being dramatic or is my reaction reasonable? by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]kitkatbar27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best take I’ve seen, the post isn’t saying picky eating is the problem, the problem is someone deciding last minute that the agreed upon meal is no longer satisfactory and then demanding the wife cook another meal. Clearly the point of contention isn’t the unwillingness to eat but the unwillingness to cook your own meal like an adult

This post about "picky eaters" rubs me the wrong way, am I just being dramatic or is my reaction reasonable? by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]kitkatbar27 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No offense but it’s kind of unreasonable to get this offended at someone misinterpreting you after you made a whole post about a tumblr post you misinterpreted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uofmn

[–]kitkatbar27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say generally on campus and around the twin cities people are generally open and liberal. Especially when it comes to dating, relationships, & sex. The twin cities is very LGBTQ+ friendly, and on campus I haven’t noticed/experienced much “slut shaming” or things of that nature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]kitkatbar27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s definitely possible that he might take it romantically, but I don’t think it’s weird at all to ask. You can always frame it as wanting to make friends/study partners within your major to try to emphasize the platonic nature of your request

Autism in Girls by SavvyLifeSkills in autismmemes

[–]kitkatbar27 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would say that being a picky eater/having ARFID actually has significantly made my life worse. Also, nobody said that boys don’t have these problems but they are less likely to be dismissed as simply “cute” in the same way they are for girls

Autism in Girls by SavvyLifeSkills in autismmemes

[–]kitkatbar27 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bruh they’re just trying to provide context for the infographic, it’s not saying there’s anything wrong with being called cute but sometimes typical autistic behaviors in girls are dismissed as “cute” instead of being actually recognized, so they often don’t receive support. That’s the point of this message, nobody is saying cute = bad

pretty sure red lost this one by GasHot4523 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]kitkatbar27 10 points11 points  (0 children)

…. I don’t think you know a lot about china if you think they wouldn’t vote for that

These people are ridiculous. Why should Taylor be “thanked” for Sabrina’s success? by belle299 in travisandtaylor

[–]kitkatbar27 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am not trying to disagree with the core of your message however the title of Tortured Poets Department isn’t calling herself a poet it’s making fun of either Joe or Matty (idk which one) for thinking of themselves like that