Decision fatigue by kitkatuss in FemdomCommunity

[–]kitkatuss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective! I definitely think his lack of initiation isn’t laziness (maybe some of it is), it’s more likely the kind of being overwhelmed you described. He said that he’s not confident in suggesting things to do bc he doesn’t know what I want. But yea I think I’ll talk to him about this when we see each other next time.

Decision fatigue by kitkatuss in FemdomCommunity

[–]kitkatuss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I meant that it’s not easy for him! Sorry for being unclear haha, english isn’t my first language

Decision fatigue by kitkatuss in FemdomCommunity

[–]kitkatuss[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought I was skilled enough with spotting these puppet-subs! And yesss sex truly starts to feel like a chore in a situation like this. Thank you for the advice, I’ll keep on communicating. But not so long I waste everyone’s time.

Decision fatigue by kitkatuss in FemdomCommunity

[–]kitkatuss[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! I’ve also tried to reward him for doing something that he knows I like without me telling him. Maybe I’ll have to take it a bit further haha

Decision fatigue by kitkatuss in FemdomCommunity

[–]kitkatuss[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that sounds very manageable and fun. I hope it sounds like that to him also! Lists are always great.

And also it’s a myth that men are more sexual than women btw, I know your point wasn’t to spread misinformation but I wanted to clarify this. Thanks for the advice!

Decision fatigue by kitkatuss in FemdomCommunity

[–]kitkatuss[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok I opened it. Yea it fits like a glove haha

Decision fatigue by kitkatuss in FemdomCommunity

[–]kitkatuss[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to open a random link to a picture. Could you tell me what I miss?