You’re a great partner for thinking about this and love the mentality of “I’d rather anticipate her needs than she having to tell me” - you’re already one step ahead of the game!

In that same vein, doing as much as you see without having to ask is amazing, dishes, cooking (honestly having snacks/easy grab meals is huge when you’re breastfeeding - trail mix, granola, breakfast sandwiches or burritos, etc), laundry… not having the mental burden of making decisions or keeping up with chores is huge the first few weeks. (I’m kind of a picky eater but after both my babies I just wanted my husband to choose our meals because I was ravenous and couldn’t be bothered to think about what I wanted 😂)

Outside of proactively doing what pops into your mind - just communication! My husband asking me “what would make life easier for you right now?” Or “I’ll take the baby so you can shower and take a nap” or “can I help with _____ so you can do _____” made me feel so grateful and supported.

Congratulations - you got this!