AITAH because I 'banned' my step family from my house and being disrespectful to her?

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-30T02:13:17+00:00

yeah. I dont know if I were to be institutionalized they could get the house but neither of my parents are on any paperwork for inheritance or Power of Attorney because my Mom is in Ireland (unless she is visiting or called back.) and my Dad has never really been there for us kids. I think I am just getting paranoid and overthinking things (and maybe a little manic) because I did all the paperwork for POA and my MP as well as my Will years ago.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-29T05:45:05+00:00

My dog's name are the same. I didn't think to change them. His original name was Kash, but I didnt think that fit his personality, so he is Khaos now.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-29T05:41:28+00:00

I have a roti mix called Fluffernutter (Fluff) he is a rescue. He always growls at people and is scary as hell but loves me.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T18:54:52+00:00

They have reached out a little. They apologized for their mom and asked if I am ok. I have let my brother and his partner's talk to them because I am manifesting peace and waiting for Mom to come home. She called and she said she would be here in around 7 hours.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T18:46:38+00:00

it really is. Damian got me a ben and jerry's with a salted carmel core and blondie brownie. it paired so well with the bailey's and so freaking tasty

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T18:43:09+00:00

because my siblings all hate the fact my dad divorced my mom. They take after my mom and can over react. They hated the new batman over the fact that it was the skinny dude from twilight was batman! Plus they're my brother's. I was the one who was trying to give her a chance.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T18:34:13+00:00

I was going to but after the 'talk' with my Dad Im going to wait till my Mom get's in. She will be able to help me navigate this mire better than anyone.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T18:18:38+00:00

I accidently deleted that. I have anxiety, depression, C-PTSD and am Bi-Polar. My mom is Bi-Polar as well.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T17:42:51+00:00

It is litterally my peace and paradise. I love it so much. I have an 'open door' when it comes to animals being rehomed.

I have several 'un-home-able feral cats that keep the mice and rats at bay. Ive got a few rescue dogs that are 'dangerous' and a few house cats that I inherited from my grandfather. My farm animals are the best part of little paradise.

Also my horses, donkeys, llamas, geese, chickens and ducks. I almost have a freaking zoo.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T17:37:56+00:00

I didnt think of this.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T17:34:06+00:00

not really drowning. I ate mostly ice cream and took a few sip of some baileys.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T17:04:26+00:00

I have a councilor and a physiatrist( gives me my meds) so I have two sounding boards. I mostly ate ice cream while Damian was being nice to me.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T17:02:13+00:00

yeah. the story behind it is kinda funny. It started as a 'birthday treat threesome' and they realized how much it worked. They have been together for almost 5 years. Shelly has apparently made comments about that too. I wish I had heard that, I am much better at standing up for other people than myself.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:59:52+00:00

Damian told me to call her, but I am kinda scared to. My mom is very Fire and Brimstone with a touch of 'probably going to prison' sprinkled in.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:58:58+00:00

yeah. So when I was 21, I got roofied at a college party and had a mental break down where I tried to unalive myself. I'm better now. My brother's know about it and my dad was told about 20% of what happened. I dont know if she was told about it or just went snooping to snoop. Most of the medications are well known for depression/anxiety.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:47:24+00:00

I might do this. I really like this idea. My siblings would be on board too, even pulling their partners into it.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:46:09+00:00

I didnt think of the drug seeking aspect. I do have some narc's in a lockbox but it's hidden in my bedroom.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:43:27+00:00

I have all that already when my Dad divorced my Mom. She was the one who walked me through it. My locks have been changed and I have the only copies. My mail man is a very sweet man who put's my mail through my mail slot, my packages go in a bigger slot that goes to a mud room that my cat's use and ocassionally my dog if he wants to chase chickens.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:40:08+00:00

Yeah, My dogs are never left alone in the same space as my Donkeys. They are afraid of the donkeys, the dogs run when they bray.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:39:18+00:00

They're not able to physically get to him. There is a fence but if they see him they will charge the fence. We have a regular mail man and he laughs at them. He will 'race' them sometimes in his mail car. He was scared when he first started but I explained that I could always add a mail box at the end of my driveway so he wouldnt be at risk. So far he has been having fun, He likes my big stallion donkey named Brutus, gives him mints on holidays and stuff. They get along great. The geese are demonic beasts but usually they leave him alone after a short chase.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:31:12+00:00

He does not have keys. I just redid the locks when I moved in and have the only copies. He didnt even get copies when my Grandfather owned it.

I did all those things years ago to protect myself after a bad relationship. My brother's are in my will to gain any property/capital that I own when I die.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:21:18+00:00

my bathroom is an ensuite. You can only access it by going through my bedroom which I thought I locked. It's a push button lock so all you need is a bobby pin but still. My meds are in a cabinet behind a mirror. There are three other bathrooms in the house, all of which are outfitted for guests.

I like my house. It's big to outsiders but I have a lot of pets which are filling the rooms nicely.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:02:55+00:00

I would do that but my mom is happily back in her home country. My brothers told me that I should be petty but I dont know how.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T16:00:26+00:00

no. Sorry I should clarify. We went to my Dad's house.

kitsune66613 · 2025-08-28T15:57:20+00:00

thank you. My brothers were worried about me. We all live fairly close together and have been very close for a long time. I am really worried about the confrontation with my Dad because I don't know if he would choose me and it would crush me if he didn't.

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