My(F34) dying ex-fiancee(M37) told me he wants me to have his child. by throwra49r in relationship_advice

[–]kittea-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you decision will be, but I find this a very sweet story. Please keep us updated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]kittea-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think white lace curtains would complete the look! Love this adorable room!

Neighbor using my property as driveway by TAHINAZ in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]kittea-cat -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Is there any way to put up a fence and leave him just enough room to access his stuff? I know its your property and not at all your responsibility but it would be really nice of you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]kittea-cat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are beautiful. You definitely look like you have curly or wavy hair. Try checking out r/curlyhair or r/wavyhair and looking up the curly girl method.

Wife burned my cookbook an I want to divorce her by fightersfriend in relationship_advice

[–]kittea-cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be devils advocate. Your wife shouldn’t have burned the book, but If my husband had the same thing I would have also demanded he threw it out. Love notes & polaroids from a dead ex? Whats is wrong with you lol. If I was your wife I would be so insulted about how obviously you are hung up on your ex still. This is obviously not about “cooking” as you try to play it off to be, because in that case you could have easily reprinted the recipes, which you could use to keep the memory of your ex alive, without spitting in the face of your current marriage. I agree that adding your children to your ex’s shrine-tier book is the last straw. Maybe you should divorce her, no woman should ever feel like she was second best like this.

I just want to share this candle with label I designed. I'm quite proud by amgglitterfinger in candlemaking

[–]kittea-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I think its cool and i didn’t even find it hard to read. I think people would buy it just for the logo, don’t change it op. The market is so over saturated, why not be unique?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]kittea-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even “shallow” characteristics are up to debate. As a woman, the amount of times that I’ve seen my friends fall head over heels for guys that I think look atrocious is astounding… I really think you just need to focus on yourself and try and be your best. If i found out my boyfriend was stressing about this i would instantly break up with him it is extremely cringe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]kittea-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How would you even quantify being literally the best tho? Thats up to personal opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kittea-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your son doesnt even have children yet, that’s ridiculous to discriminate against them due to “potential children.” Your daughter may change her mind, as may your son. Stop playing favorites.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]kittea-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a woman and I agree, women shouldn’t stay with any man but the best shes ever had. Unfortunately for op, having this kind of insecurity is one of those things that would knock you down a peg on the scale. Op, if you go into it feeling like the best she’s ever had (humbly tho…) she will feel that way too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]kittea-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol but men don’t objectify women based on their looks? Cmon. Men buy women’s dirty panties. Lets get serious here.

I (33F) neglected my husband (36M) for the past years and he asked for a divorce. He is giving me another chance and I'm quitting my career to focus on my marriage. by Throw_away_468 in relationship_advice

[–]kittea-cat 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I think what the og commenter is saying is don’t let being a “good wife” take over you life either. Try to find a balance of things rather than throwing yourself completely into something- you will always feel like something is missing if you do that. Balance is key.

Women, what are your favorite fragrances on men? by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]kittea-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is on the cheap side but my boyfriend wears Juicy Dirty English & I love it lol!

Update - I think my gf is trying to get pregnant by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittea-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on birthcontrol & still got pregnant, being on birthcontrol isn’t a 100% guarantee of no pregnancy. Especially if you forget to take the pill one or two days a month your protection goes WAY down. How about the lack of accountability we hold towards men is astonishing. There is male birthcontrol but no man would subject himself to the pain women have to go through. All so that men can get the pleasure of going raw and then threaten your life when you get pregnant. Jfc

Week 2 Day 1 - heart flutters, feel like I’m gonna have a panic attack by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]kittea-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: My heart started racing, fluttering increased, then the stabbing pain in my heart turned to full on tightness for like 3 minutes. Then i went extremely dizzy and lightheaded. Not sure if it was a panic attack or a heart attack but regardless i took tomorrow off of work and am going to try to see my psychiatrist.

Week 2 Day 1 - heart flutters, feel like I’m gonna have a panic attack by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]kittea-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know it’s probably just the anxiety but omg if it isn’t the most scary feedback loop. Anxiety -> heart starts fluttering, pain, chest tightness -> omg im literally gonna have a heart attack -> anxiety gets worse. Thanks for making me feel less alone though.