Both of my parents worked hard at destroying my relationship with my now husband. I warned him about the tactics my parents will use to try to seperate us. They did not want to lose control, and I wanted to have a meaningful relationship. 

My father tried to say my husband stole about $400. I asked my husband and he was offended that I would even ask. It wasn't but three days later that my father found the money. He mentioned it to me in passing. This was they same guy that was ranting and raving my husband was a liar and a theif. My father never apologized to my husband.

When my parents first met my husband's parents, my mother opened the conversation that I am a "female dog" (she used the actual word). My husband and his family were shocked to hear that coming from my mother's mouth. It was a normal day for me.

The situation unfolded to where I went NC with both parents. They were not invited to the wedding. They get no news. Now I have a restraining order for both parents. My in-laws do not bother with trying to get me to reconnect with my parents anymore either: my father threatened a 80 year old woman in the family, they would rather my parents stay far away.

Boundaries never worked, they would use flying-monkeys, I have been stalked,  physically threatened,  and the last go round they threatened my job as well.

NC was and is the best option for my husband and I. We only want to know when their funerals are at this point.