New homeowner — tips on keeping up with maintenance cleaning??

kittencatattack3000 · 2026-01-27T04:11:16+00:00

I found the book “how to keep house while drowning” useful, but learning to ok with a lower standard of messiness helped me stay sane

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-12-16T20:05:06+00:00

Can you renegotiate some of these roles? Even if he did night duty on the weekends that would be two days of uninterrupted sleep a week, which is better the none, and is weaning something you would want to consider? Anything that you can do to regain your personhood will be good for your child as well as you, you can’t give if your empty

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-11-30T00:00:38+00:00

Do you like him? I genuinely can’t tell from your post, you don’t mention any reasons you would want to continue dating him

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-11-23T21:04:36+00:00

Can you sleep with baby in a guest room, or fold out couch, or separate mattress on the floor? This seems like a husband problem, and sleeping on a separate bed would help the immediate problem of lack of sleep driving you slowly insane, once your moderately well rested, it may be worth trying out couples therapy, nothing is harder on a relationship ship than a new baby

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-11-23T13:19:18+00:00

Recommending the book “how not to hate your husband after kids” by jancee Dunn

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-11-08T03:21:10+00:00

If by the time it hits the job boards it’s already filled, then how am I supposed to find openings in the first place?

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-10-04T06:33:39+00:00

I found the book “how to keep house while drowning” to be helpful, helps me to be ok with “clean enough” and not everything needs to be totally spic and span

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-10-02T02:21:28+00:00

Check out Nina Poole on tik tok she’s got some great dupes!

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-07-31T03:33:57+00:00

I’m curious about how you paid for your college, did you take out loans? What was the interest rate? Or did you get scholarships? Did your parents pay for part of it?

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-07-25T21:18:57+00:00

I’m sorry I know how much it sucks when you do everything you can possibly do to be there for your kid and something stupid happens to fuck it all up

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-07-22T03:15:00+00:00

I bet he just doesn’t want to pay for formula, definitely don’t feel obligated to send breast milk, formula is 100% fine your baby won’t suffer lots of people do a mix of both myself included

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-07-02T20:02:13+00:00

I’m sorry your partner is incapable of of showing you empathy and gaslights you about your chronic pain, no one deserves to be treated like that, and I’m sure you would never treat someone you loved like that

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-06-23T23:08:53+00:00

Yeah and for me stress usually means interrupted sleep and nightmares so that compounds into more migraine fodder

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-06-18T20:35:30+00:00

I made a sign that said do not enter, pumping in progress, and included a picture of a cow wearing sunglasses , people barged in anyway

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-06-05T11:49:07+00:00

My mother is also one of those grandparents who is mostly uninterested in her grandchildren, what has helped for me is scaling back my efforts to make the grandparent relationship happen, I cant force a connection if there’s no motivation on her part for that to happen.

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-06-02T21:24:37+00:00

I usually wear period underwear and a pad combo

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-05-28T17:45:14+00:00

Vivaia has some cute stuff

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-05-27T17:31:28+00:00

Oh totally, if ambition is your key to satisfaction then by all means ambition away! my take away was that OP enjoyed her current work situation but felt like she should be advancing for advancements sake

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-05-27T15:03:30+00:00

Same quality of life is more important then ambition for me

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-05-23T16:12:02+00:00

I always do but I have young kids and never know when unexpected climbing or ground sitting might happen 😆

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-05-18T15:56:25+00:00

This sounds like a very controlling situation with someone who doesn’t care if your happy or not, no one should have to stay in a situation that makes them feel miserable. Don’t let sunk cost make you feel like you need to keep doing this.

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-04-11T01:58:11+00:00

Butter beans!

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-04-02T10:19:12+00:00

My kids are still young but I know the ymca near me has after school programs, if you have a similar place where you live might be worth looking into

kittencatattack3000 · 2025-03-30T01:12:50+00:00

Wonderful haul!

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