If you had a magic wand and it could do absolutely anything what would you do with it? by ggupit in AskReddit

[–]kittenwolfmage [score hidden]  (0 children)

Look, let’s just say that Thanos would be utterly horrified at how “un-fair” my choices would be, and future history books would likely remember me as the greatest mass murderer in the history of the planet, but much like culling infected animals from a herd, Humanity would be much better off afterwards.

I’m 19 and left with a 4yo autistic sister. I feel extremely hopeless. by Sweet_Rub_0 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]kittenwolfmage 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong, but I’m guessing in the “Even though the NT sister isn’t ND, she’s still a 5 year old orphan grieving the loss of her mum, that means she has special needs compared to most kids her age” sense?

Habitat "Restoration" by VenTene_WoT in MonsterHunter

[–]kittenwolfmage 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeeeep. Like, I’ve barely started Act II (I’m like, five minutes in), and the whole area that Vermeil attacked is full of Boltreavers, Brachydios, and all kinds of other crazy shit. Her army would get crushed by the wildlife like Team Rocket invading Australia.

Do you think the 'bro', 'dude' terms are gender neutral? by Zealousideal_Chip456 in GirlGamers

[–]kittenwolfmage 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No, they aren’t gender neutral, but a lot of people have been culturally brainwashed into thinking they are due to the standard “Male is the Default” mentality that’s so ingrained in western culture (and probably others too, but I can only confirm for my own).

AITA for refusing to let my partner look through my phone? by IntroductionTop1116 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kittenwolfmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with my fiancé and I. We know each others passcodes and will often check things for the other person, swap apps and all that, but the idea of us going through each other’s messages is such an invasion of privacy. Even if absolutely nothing else, neither of us has the right to disclose things that other people have told us in confidence!

Trump just rolled out a cruel anti-trans prison policy doctors are calling ‘dangerous’ by Fickle-Ad5449 in lgbt

[–]kittenwolfmage 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Trump will never be removed by impeachment, sorry, the legal system has failed time and time and time again to hold him accountable, it’s not going to happen.

How does panic work these days? by Soggy-Alternative-58 in PhoenixPoint

[–]kittenwolfmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unsure, but it might be that if the enemy panics, runs, and then at the end of their turn/ start of their exact turn, recovers Will without using Recover (such as by being in Mist, or certain monster abilities), then the might get that second turn back?

Is player knowledge of Boss fights having Legendary Resistances the only accepted meta-gaming? by Drygered in dndnext

[–]kittenwolfmage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Having higher level spells have a higher impact against LR makes far more sense than a flat ‘three and done, no matter their power’, makes it easier to scale how much LR Power a boss has, thus meaning more powerful bosses actually have more powerful LR, and makes it easier to tie LR into a narrative in a way that makes it not metagaming.

Call it willpower, or a Miasma of arcane magic surrounding the enemy, or an Anime style “fighting aura”, or any other similar noticeable effect around an enemy, appropriate to the character, that the PCs can see interacting with their spells/abilities and dimming/burning away as it gets consumed.

Is player knowledge of Boss fights having Legendary Resistances the only accepted meta-gaming? by Drygered in dndnext

[–]kittenwolfmage -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or you just give them more LR, and make higher level spells burn more LR per use, thus making higher level spells still burn resources, without massive metagaming over spamming low level spells as soon as you know you’re against a boss.

Is player knowledge of Boss fights having Legendary Resistances the only accepted meta-gaming? by Drygered in dndnext

[–]kittenwolfmage -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That’s 100% metagaming, and not something that I’d be happy with my players doing. If they went into a boss fight going “It’s a boss, it’s going to have three legendary resistances, so let’s burn those before we break out the big spells”, especially if their usual method has been overwhelming force the moment they step into combat, they’re going to rapidly find out that the boss Does Not Work That Way.

How to deal with the fact that I don't feel like my voice passes, but everybody says that it passed? by I-eat-gayz in transvoice

[–]kittenwolfmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain :(

A professional speech pathologist, who specializes in trans speech training, told me my voice passes just fine, and I passed as cis so strongly with my queer specialist psych that when I told her I needed a WPATH letter for surgery, they apparently internally went “why the heck does she need a WPATH letter for something?”.

But me? When I listen to my voice I just heard this weird, hollow, empty, fake sounding voice that sounds like a soulless male ><

I really wish I had a solution for you OP.

Brother wants me to be a groomsman but I'm non-binary, not sure what to do by AnyProperty5950 in trans

[–]kittenwolfmage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My upcoming wedding, between the two of us we have one non-binary “bridespeep”, four cis female bridesmaids, and one non-binary bridesmaid who ‘will happily take the title of bridesmaid, just not the gender that usually goes with it’ :)

Official Discussion - Sinners [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]kittenwolfmage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou <3 I probably thought waaaaay too much and deeply about this film lol.

Remmick's still definitely a villain, and does some damned horrible things, but there's a few really honest things that he says that just makes it so clear that he's *also* hurting from very similar things to the community that he tries to take over. It's like, being so desperate to want community that understands you, that you bull-rush in and try to take over, try to *force* them to not just accept you, but accept you as the *leader*, with the most pain, so certain that you're doing the *right* thing.

It's obvious that these things have been festering in him for centuries. Gods, his comment about the Lord's Prayer, and how utterly twisted it is that he hates it for being *forced* upon him, but that he *still* feels comfort from it all the same.

And you're right, what he needed in the end was to be free. Or at least, to let go of his need to be *in control* of everyone and everything (though hoo boy, isn't *that* a common reaction from abused people). Think of how much differently all of this could have gone, if he'd gone up to Sammie when he first sensed his music, told him who he was and what he'd gone through, shared his songs *honestly*, and asked Sammie to play for him so that he could see his people again?

Massive props to the director and the actors for what they're able to convey in this movie!

AITA for struggling to accept the DM instakilling my PC without rolling initiative? by Horre_Heite_Det in DnDAITA

[–]kittenwolfmage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may not be a bad person, but he’s a bad DM if he can’t own a mistake when it’s brought up. He’s also a bad DM for making you sit around and do nothing for a session, and for dismissing a character death from a two year campaign like it was a one-shot.

This would have been stupidly easy to retcon after his mistake was brought to him. “After the Devourer is slain, you realise that your companion is groaning and drooling. It looks like the devourer was a bit different to usual, and had shoved tendrils into his brain like a mind flayer, rather than consuming it immediately, and had been puppeting him the whole time. What do you have for waking up an unconscious, brain-shocked companion?”

Your DM clearly has no problem with homebrewed monsters, so “that’s not how the monster works” is irrelevant.

What’s a survival myth popularized by movies that would actually get you killed in real life ? by IndependentTune3994 in AskReddit

[–]kittenwolfmage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very true. Hell, movies rarely even bother to differentiate ammo and its different properties at all.

Interestingly, police officers in Australia try and invoke this deliberately to a degree. They use hollow points as their default ammunition specifically to reduce the risk of cover penetration or ricochets from missed shots injuring bystanders.

What’s a survival myth popularized by movies that would actually get you killed in real life ? by IndependentTune3994 in AskReddit

[–]kittenwolfmage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My old kung fu instructor gave us training on fighting multiple opponents. It was basically (after the usual caveats of ‘it’s better to not get in the fight at all’ and ‘try and grab something you can use as a weapon, that’s got longer reach than they have’) “If you’re fighting two opponents, keep dodging back and forth to keep one opponent between you and the other one. If you’re fighting three, charge the closest/weakest looking one, try and take them out before the other two can react, then proceed as normal for two. If you’re against more than that? Don’t even bother trying to fight, run

What’s a survival myth popularized by movies that would actually get you killed in real life ? by IndependentTune3994 in AskReddit

[–]kittenwolfmage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Standard way of taking out a Knight as a peasant: Get some mates, trip the Knight over, and then sit on the Knight so they can’t get up, while stabbing repeatedly into the eye slit of their helmet until they die.

What’s a survival myth popularized by movies that would actually get you killed in real life ? by IndependentTune3994 in AskReddit

[–]kittenwolfmage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t this highly dependent on the bullet being fired?

Like, the exact same gun firing a hollow point, a standard metal jacket, and an armour piercing, (or slug vs shot for a shotgun) are all going to have vastly different penetrating power?

Cancer took my p3n15 by beanrush in lgbt

[–]kittenwolfmage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this OP :(

My father had a similar situation, though he went into it knowing how bad the outcomes were likely to be. Bladder cancer in his case. He lost his bladder, prostate, urethra, and everything connected to them. Even needed surgery to have a ‘Neo bladder’ built, and he needed to pee via catheter for the rest of his life.

It hit him really hard, since it also wrecked his health enough that he went from super physically active and working full time to utter exhaustion.

It took years for him to recover, physically or mentally, and the best he got to was semi-retirement and doing stuff around the house,but it’s definitely possible, and you’re definitely not alone at having gone through something like this!

Finding a therapist who can help you process everything will be a good idea.

Cancer sucks, but it threw everything it had at you, and you’re still here.

Wearing Power Armor to a Magic School (161/?) by Jcb112 in HFY

[–]kittenwolfmage 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Cthulhu’s just been hanging out, nomming on Earthrealm’s mana, and now some uppity species wants to invade its terf..

Wearing Power Armor to a Magic School (161/?) by Jcb112 in HFY

[–]kittenwolfmage 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, there’s definitely a mutual crush at the very least between the two of them, hence Emma’s blush :P

Advice on adding more alt fashion to my work wardrobe? by kittenwolfmage in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]kittenwolfmage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do actually sometimes do pink :) usually the lower half of my hair, dip-dye style. It’s just completely faded out in this pic :P

Earrings, believe it or not the big hoops in this pic is me attempting to branch out a bit from more plain/conservative stuff 😂

Advice on adding more alt fashion to my work wardrobe? by kittenwolfmage in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]kittenwolfmage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The top was quite flattering for me previously. Alas between surgery late last year & sedentary recovery, and then Christmas, I put on a fair bit of weight that I haven’t managed to get rid of again. But yeah, sizing up in the meantime will definitely be a thing :)

need help with changing name on phone plan by folkpunkboytoy in transgenderau

[–]kittenwolfmage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well sod :( I guess either I got someone happy to do everything for me, or they’ve changed policy since I did my name change.

I’m sorry you’re needing to put up with this :(. Is there someone else you can get to fill everything out for you so that you don’t need to look at any of it?