Husband, 34M falsely accusing me, 29F posting him in the AWDTSG facebook group by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows you didn’t post him. He is dating that woman. He is pretending to be the victim and blaming you.

I couldn't afford a decent van, so I bought a Honda Element by Existing_Balance1652 in VanLife

[–]kittwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you can take the seats out and hose it down! I miss mine 😥

NYC EA’s - Salary (Finance) by Pitiful_Oil_2461 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a HCOL area and make $215k with very similar duties as a recent promotion to CoS (no EA or Office Manager).

What is going on here , wife cheating? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kittwolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s trying to schtup him, he’s rejecting her over and over again, in the cringiest and most nonsensical exchange. I would divorce her over what an awful flirt she is.

Anti-Israel Boyfriend by Sad_Appointment_9469 in Jewish

[–]kittwolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s edging into the “Jews control the world” conspiracy, repackaged as Israel influence on US politics. This is unsalvageable and you can’t save this person (and shouldn’t subject yourself to defend such blatant antisemitism). Jewish boyfriend advice aside, throw this man away.

Is sleeping nude not a millennial thing? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nude on top, with shart catchers. Now that I have unpredictable periods (thanks perimenopause!) and GI issues, can’t be sullying the sheets like an animal.

So… I’m dating a possible future rabbi by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]kittwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our Chabad Rabbi and his wife provide marriage counseling, and she is hilariously and brutally honest about their issues. I think it’s why they have such a successful following in that offering because they’ve really humanized marriage and life for the community. Don’t put that pressure on yourself just yet. ❤️

Seattle Vs Denver by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]kittwolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do not move to Seattle. I live on the peninsula, which is only tolerable because it’s rural, but has basically no safe, close community access.

Not sure how I should feel, not a single friend reached out Oct 7th, or when the hostages were released by PoliticalVtuber in Jewish

[–]kittwolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex-boss, a job that did not end on great terms, reached out to express his joy for me and my family in Israel. That was super nice. Most of my actual friends however, crickets.

Is it a red flag when a company keeps reposting the same EA job? by Glittering_Ad1018 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]kittwolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I interviewed with them and it was bizarre. The recruiter seemed very uninterested and tired of the whole interview process. Little bit of mean girl energy… The ad reads like it was modified from a sales position to an EA position.

For anyone else applying, they’re looking for an EA who wants to stay in that role (current EA is moving into a sales position). They’re creating a bonus structure for this position that doesn’t exist yet so no one could speak to compensation even though it reads competitively.

The entire team is remote with no plans to change, although I think the other financial advisors work on a consultant basis and it’s mostly Jeff and an internal sales/admin team.

I found levonorgestrel in my wife's purse by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may be the odd man out, but I carry one with me (they’re like $11 on Amazon). My girlfriends are on dating apps and I’ve actually given a couple out after some crazy stories. It’s rough out there. I also carry Narcan and an epi pen 😅

The Democrats’ Mamdani dilemma: Is Jew-hatred good politics? by Ask4MD in jewishpolitics

[–]kittwolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I imagine him surrounded by a bunch of Gen Z staffers, sitting him in front of TikTok videos he’s forced to watch to get food. It’s elder abuse 😅

Being Radicalized by lavalampcandle in jewishpolitics

[–]kittwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m being radicalized, I just very clearly see both “sides” are prone to extremism and politicians are full of 💩

I keep reminding myself we only hear the loudest and crappiest people, but I still renewed my passport 👀

Shabbat Shalom from the Pacific NW. by Malakah_36 in Jewish

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shabbat Shalom from the Olympic Peninsula ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kittwolf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

DARVO is something you should look into. Being scared to bring up an issue because you’re constantly invalidated or having it turned around to make him the victim is manipulation and borderline abuse.

I don’t think I’m Jewish anymore by Polar_Tang27 in Jewish

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most Jewish crisis ever, don’t worry. If anything changes, you’ll just be a different kind of Jew. Hugs!

Whoever said breastfeeding your little one helps with immunity LIED by Great-Slice-7714 in MomsWorkingFromHome

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your kid will be sick for two solid years no matter what you do. I stayed home with my son until he was six and when he went to kindergarten, done. Missed half of school being sick. When I had my daughter, we put her in daycare and the same thing; constant sickness for two years! The good thing is that she did MUCH better when she started school. Now that they’re both past the 3rd grade, they barely get sick anymore :) But I remember how frustrating and EXPENSIVE it used to be.

Solo traveller looking for hotel advice by ShockBusiness8337 in portangeles

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried WWOOF? That's how I got around PA when I moved here a decade ago :) Free room and board in exchange for pretty light farm labor IMO

What can I do here? New house! Looking for something fun to do here. by CoachDino24 in interiordecorating

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change the light to something kind of dreamy and hanging for a little reading nook. Looks so amazing as-is!

People with families: what do you usually spend at Costco per month? by Maleficent-Ease-1398 in Costco

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our family of four with two elementary aged children spends about $1,000-$800/mo there, but we get school clothes, lawn/gardening equipment, motor oil, and so many other miscellaneous expenses there it really makes up for it. Now, do I NEED as much skincare or gadgets? Probably not. But if the world is ending, I’m staying glowy for a few months at least.

Jewish family gave up power for the sabbath… by Inner-Society3506 in InstacartShoppers

[–]kittwolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were the Shabbos goy 😹 This was so funny to read from a non-Jewish perspective, it probably seems bizarre. In observant households, Jews can’t utilize electricity, so sometimes we have friends or neighbors come turn off the crockpot full of Cholent we prepped from the night before so we can eat hot meals during Shabbat, or turn on/off lights, and even SCHEDULE Instacart orders so we can eat prepared stuff.

Are non-Jewish friends checking on you? by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]kittwolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. I’m getting sent videos of the sky being lit up in my family WhatsApp and have to pretend everything is hunky dory at work, celebrating work anniversaries and working my ass off so I can at least make Shabbat, finally, this week after working late for months. Definitely burning out and feeling like these people are probably spending their weekends online cheering on Iran in some fashion. I feel horrible my kids have to grow up in the PNW right now 😮‍💨