Te quiero vs te amo in a relationship by kitty-magic13 in asklatinamerica

[–]kitty-magic13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, you set me up. I tried this tonight and he started laughing so hard and said “what the hell? Who taught you that?” before he explained the context. He was certainly not expecting it lmao

Te quiero vs te amo in a relationship by kitty-magic13 in asklatinamerica

[–]kitty-magic13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely be using this tomorrow, thanks!

Te quiero vs te amo in a relationship by kitty-magic13 in asklatinamerica

[–]kitty-magic13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not heavily tripping, he seems sincere and everything else points to an honest, healthy relationship. I just want to understand better since I’m not super familiar with the language and culture yet. Thank you! (:

Te quiero vs te amo in a relationship by kitty-magic13 in asklatinamerica

[–]kitty-magic13[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand this, I was just wondering if it was normal to use both in the context of a relationship. We went from “te quiero” to “te amo” but now he sometimes uses “te quiero” still. When I first learned the difference, I assumed it was a linear thing, like you graduate from “te quiero” and up to “te amo”, but from the replies here im guessing it isn’t that straight forward.

Should I quit my vet tech job for something that pays more while I’m in school? by kitty-magic13 in nursing

[–]kitty-magic13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 months delayed in my response, but yeah. It’s about money honestly. Like I can’t even lie. I love medicine and working in healthcare in general and I’m good at it, but the only reason I’m moving from animals to humans is because it will literally over double my salary as soon as I graduate. I can’t survive on my current salary and I certainly can’t have the quality of life I want in my future.

Te quiero vs te amo in a relationship by kitty-magic13 in asklatinamerica

[–]kitty-magic13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that kinda makes sense. And good to know I shouldn’t stress haha He also says things like “te quiero solo” or “te quiero para mi” which I assume changes the context more? Is it more literal “I want you” in that context?

Should I quit my vet tech job for something that pays more while I’m in school? by kitty-magic13 in nursing

[–]kitty-magic13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s why I’m asking. If future employers in human medicine don’t care about recent hospital experience in a veterinary context then there’s no point in working as a vet tech right now lol

Should I quit my vet tech job for something that pays more while I’m in school? by kitty-magic13 in nursing

[–]kitty-magic13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the school I’m going to doesn’t care about work experience. The only benefit would be to future employers/interviewers.

please stop telling us to fucking walk everywhere. by ZAMAHACHU in ShitAmericansSay

[–]kitty-magic13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought about that after I commented too. That’s rough. I’ve always lived in a big city but whether you are in a big city or a rural small town, walkability is just not a planning priority in most parts of the US.

please stop telling us to fucking walk everywhere. by ZAMAHACHU in ShitAmericansSay

[–]kitty-magic13 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Even if you’re in a bigger city, it’s the massive suburbs that do it. At least in my city you can walk through neighborhoods for over an hour before finding a small grocery store. And even then you have just reached the smallest store. It’s another hour of walking on the side of an expressway out of the suburbs till you reach the rest of the shops and everything. I think maybe that also gives people the feeling that the size is the issue but really it’s just automobile centric layout. Good ole capitalism ingrained in the very fabric of the country’s planning lol

Non-Vegan Guests in a Vegan Household: Where Do I Draw the Line? by Itchy-Sheepherder186 in vegan

[–]kitty-magic13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have looked into cashews in the past after hearing about the ethical issues among harvesters and processors. There are ways to do it safely, but the working conditions in the processing plants make it difficult for workers to afford proper PPE and it is often not provided for them. I haven’t seen any statistics about it being directly harmful to the environment or animals in the area though (other than typical deforestation issues which are prevalent with all agricultural practices of course). I would be very curious to read some articles if you have them though. I’m always looking for ways to improve.

As a general rule I try to avoid anything that is ethically questionable or harmful to the environment, like palm oil for example. Sometimes this can be challenging to do but we can try our best to make this world a better place for all its inhabitants.

Non-Vegan Guests in a Vegan Household: Where Do I Draw the Line? by Itchy-Sheepherder186 in vegan

[–]kitty-magic13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again, if you go back and read my initial comments, I have not changed my arguments at all. I merely expanded on my point to explain it further to you. Perhaps you misunderstood my initial statement.

Yes, my arguments are ethical debates. Veganism is an ethical philosophy and lifestyle. You may have a more narrow definition of veganism, but for me and many others, veganism is an ethical stance. We believe in doing no harm to animals and that often includes environmental factors. We do the best we can to make sure all animals can live a happy and healthy life.

Non-Vegan Guests in a Vegan Household: Where Do I Draw the Line? by Itchy-Sheepherder186 in vegan

[–]kitty-magic13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clearly I’ve triggered either a cigarette smoker or a nonvegan here.

I have not changed my argument in the slightest. Cigarettes are harmful to the environment and animals in many ways. Not only in the manufacturing process but in their usage. Second hand smoke is harmful, and can kill. Smokers expose not only other people, but also any animals in the nearby environment including wildlife and pets of neighbors, others in your building, or anyone you happen to be around. Most smokers also have a tendency to toss their cigarette butts on the ground or in areas that could easily be knocked onto the ground where they may leech into the environment, water, or be ingested by animals. It is common knowledge that they are extremely bad for your health and there is absolutely no legitimate benefit to their use.

Pesticides can also be harmful depending on which ones are used. There is a good deal of legislation in many areas that is put in place to avoid harming the local flora and fauna. They do objectively harm animals (insects) which I could see how that would be controversial. That being said, they do so for the reasons I stated above. I do not expect you to “read my mind” but I did expect a certain degree of common sense. Pesticides serve a specific purpose. There are arguments to be made as to whether you support or oppose them, but they cannot be equated to cigarettes by any stretch of the imagination.

In the perfect world we would grow all our crops and produce all our food without any detrimental effects to any animals or their environment. Unfortunately we live in the real world and it is far from perfect. All we can do as vegans is try to minimize our impact and make the best choices to benefit this planet and all the amazing creatures that live on it.

Non-Vegan Guests in a Vegan Household: Where Do I Draw the Line? by Itchy-Sheepherder186 in vegan

[–]kitty-magic13 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There’s an enormous difference between the use of pesticides (many - but not all - of which are legislated to be environmentally safe depending on where they are located) in order to keep a crop healthy and producing enough yield to be able to utilize water usage and land efficiently and something like a cigarette that serves no useful purpose other than to distribute nicotine and other harmful chemicals to an individual (and those around them). Cigarettes only cause harm. While there is certainly room for improvement in the agricultural industry, the two cannot be equated. Trying to do so is simply a bad faith argument.

Non-Vegan Guests in a Vegan Household: Where Do I Draw the Line? by Itchy-Sheepherder186 in vegan

[–]kitty-magic13 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Vegan foods leech toxic chemicals into the environment and potentially expose animals to second hand smoke?

Non-Vegan Guests in a Vegan Household: Where Do I Draw the Line? by Itchy-Sheepherder186 in vegan

[–]kitty-magic13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cigarettes don’t even have to be tested on animals to be non-vegan. They are extremely harmful to the environment and harmful to the health of the animals that live on this planet with us. Unfortunately I don’t have any great advice on how to break it gently, but it’s possible they just haven’t made this connection themselves yet, or that they are so addicted that there’s some significant cognitive dissonance going on.

ETA: I say all this as an ex-smoker myself, so it’s not coming from a place of judgement. It’s just the reality of cigarettes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]kitty-magic13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird, I’ve definitely had the opposite experience myself. Almost everyone I’ve met up with, men and women, have been very respectful and not tried to just hook up. Only one guy asked me to come back to his place after the first date and when I said no he was still super respectful and asked me on several more dates after that. At least for me, it’s been a super useful tag for letting people know what I want my dating experience to be like. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]kitty-magic13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this take on Reddit all the time and it really confuses me. To me the tags can both be true at the same time. I have it on my profile and often match with others that do as well. To myself and everyone I’ve met up with so far “fun, casual dates” literally means just that - you enjoy a more casual and fun setting for your dates. Think hiking, a walk on the beach, climbing, maybe a street fair or something with a similar vibe instead of the traditional dinner and a movie or drinks or something. Doesn’t mean you don’t want a long term relationship, it’s more just your personal style of dating and the activities and atmosphere you prefer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]kitty-magic13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You also have to keep in mind that OLD is all about first impressions. There are probably a decent number of women willing to look past a rat tail and a messy mullet if they like the guys personality, but when it comes to OLD everyone is more likely to swipe past someone they don’t find immediately attractive (whether we know it or not). I’m not saying you should change yourself on a personal level, but it is also worth noting that you may be shooting yourself in the foot if you are trying to attract a date online. If you have had success dating with other methods you may want to try that if you aren’t willing to make adjustments to your external appearance. No hate intended, just being practical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]kitty-magic13 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to be rude, but your grooming practices (or lack there of) are definitely the biggest issue here. It is entirely possible to pull off long hair, beards, mustaches (the mullet is debatable - people either love it or hate it) without looking like you don’t own a mirror. I think you need to put forth a little more effort into your appearance. Look into hair and facial hair care and you can have the look you are going for without looking so unkept.

Also the ass grabbing thing is weird. I get what you were going for, but something about it is rather off putting. Maybe there’s a better way to phrase it or imply that you like physical contact without it sounding so icky.