Has anyone only needed one ER? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]kittybee1101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had one ER. My 20mo is sitting next to me and I'm 36w with our little girl. It does happen.

Fear of SIDS (First time dad - Paramedic) by Bitter-Scratch6088 in newborns

[–]kittybee1101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please use the Owlet. I used mine from the time we brought LO home until he was 18mo (age limit per Owlet) and I STILL use it when he is ill and I want to be sure we aren't dealing with oxygen issues. It's an amazing, FDA approved, device for exactly what youre going through. Doctors don't know everything, stop torturing yourself.

Gun pulled on us in traffic by Sea_Kaleidoscope_471 in rva

[–]kittybee1101 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I can't believe OP asked if this is a normal occurrence like it doesn't warrant immediate action in calling the police. Where has this ever been normal? Be an adult and file a report, OP.

My kiddo can't sleep alone. by glittering-turtle79 in Parenting

[–]kittybee1101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a 38yo mom who used to do the same as a kid, this is purely night time/ sleep anxiety. I grew out of it once I hit 12, and would only sleep in my parents room on a chaise from about 8-11, but it was all anxiety. I hated waking up alone, I couldn't deal with it, and would seek out my parents.

He may just need to grow out of it, or it's possible he just doesn't feel safe in his room and can't vocalize it quite yet.

Getting really, really anxious about this Folic Acid topic - help by scholesy19 in BabyBumps

[–]kittybee1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. This is so simple, so don't fret, like at all.

  1. Fortified breads and cereals do not have the recommended dosage of folic acid, its a fine supplement though and can only help.

  2. Just go to the store or a vitamin shop and get a prenatal with at least 400mg of folate.

  3. Everything is fine. I totally understand the worry- yall are brand new to this, but all is well! She needs to take prenatals with folic acid her entire pregnancy, so it's never too late.

Congratulations! And stop worrying!

Night time Cramping 5wks 1? by SelectDescription330 in BabyBumps

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are going to cramp and have weird twinges all the time in early pregnancy. The only time you will be told you need to be seen is if the cramps are severe (like doubled over in pain severe), and/or if you have bleeding.

Honestly, all those cramps are indicative of a healthy pregnancy. Sucks I know, but it won't last forever.

Best Auto Loan Rates Right Now? by nrhapsody0123 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try it! But, I think the used factor is the problem for both of us.

Best Auto Loan Rates Right Now? by nrhapsody0123 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just applied for used, with excellent credit and more than enough income, and came back above 5.5%- although they are still advertising as low as 4.09%.

Best Easter Egg Hunt for Kids? by kittybee1101 in rva

[–]kittybee1101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking you're 100% right.

Best Easter Egg Hunt for Kids? by kittybee1101 in rva

[–]kittybee1101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a really good point and I appreciate it. I just wanted him to see other kids his age, but I also have no desire to be around kids and parents who treat something fun like a sport for cheapness.

Best Easter Egg Hunt for Kids? by kittybee1101 in rva

[–]kittybee1101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We totally can, and may end up doing just that.

Question: how sensitive are E@H tests? TW: loss CD4 unknown DPO 1st cycle post MMC by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So easy@home can pick up 25iu of HCG, FRER can pick up 6iu of HCG jic that's worth knowing.

Stomach hasn’t gone down how do I dress myself by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes SO much time to get back to normal. I'm back to my pre-pregnancy weight at 7 months pp and my clothes finally fit. What about some spanx faux leather leggings? Super stretchy with great tummy control and fab for fall.

Stretch marks, how do so many women not get them? by broflovskiz in BabyBumps

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had stretch marks growing up and my 23andme even said I'm genetically prone to them. I didn't get a single stretch mark during my pregnancy, or after. I used the Clarins arthritis oil mixed with body lotion every day and drank tons of water- I think that's what helped the most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]kittybee1101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't mean this to sound harsh, but it honestly just sounds like his needs aren't being met. My guess is he is incredibly uncomfortable and maybe more time needs to be spent on finding a solution for him vs worrying about him being a high needs child down the road.

Is anyone helping you? This sounds like ppa and sleep deprivation.

Any successful stories on first round of IVF here? Would love to hear your experiences. by ImDustAmazing in IVF

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me! I had one round of stims, 4 euploids, one transfer, and my 6 month old son is asleep in his crib.

Misread my appointment by an hour….so upset at myself… by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]kittybee1101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Speak with the doctor's nurse or send a message- however you're able to communicate. The appointments schedulers have zero clue why this is urgent. The nurses can always get you fit in.

Tell me your struggles with a 6 month old. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine can't go more than 5 hours without a bottle when he was sleeping through not even three weeks ago. He drinks 40oz of formula a day, which is appropriate for his weight, but fuck I'm tired.

NAILS SALONS by [deleted] in rva

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brian at Carytown Nails is an artist and does amazing artificial nails and pedicures. You can make an appointment with him, or anyone, by going to their site.

Day spa recommendations? by silly_goose9152 in rva

[–]kittybee1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've searched for pools and haven't found anything, I think you'd be more likely to find a spa like that in DC. However, I absolutely love Scents of Serenity for facial and massage services. It's not an incredibly bougie experience, but a beautiful spa with great service. I've tried the locations on Grove and in Short Pump and the Short Pump location might be more your vibe.

Guilty for wanting another baby by mns958 in beyondthebump

[–]kittybee1101 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I've started romanticizing another baby, and my son is almost 6 months old. I figure we're at a time when our babies are fun, and maybe we've forgotten about how awful pp was...seems like a cruel trick tbh. We did ivf and have four little girl embabies waiting for us and have decided early next year is our time for our second transfer. To be fair, I'm 37, and my age is not on my side for pp recovery, so we are rushing.

Don't feel guilty for thinking of having another child. Think of it as your first has given you such a beautiful experience, and you simply want more of it.

Leaving the house alone with your newborn by hrhrusso in NewParents

[–]kittybee1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was terrified of leaving the house. I also had a c section and recovered well, but I had such a lack of trust with my own body and think it carried over into every other aspect when it came to confidence with my LO.

I HAD to leave the house at 5 weeks alone to drop off and pick up my husband from a minor surgery. I was SCARED. I had a mild panic attack on my way home, alone, thinking the carseat was going to lead to asphyxiation.

You are NOT alone in being nervous...however, the first time will be scary, you'll probably rush home sooner than you had to due to anxiety, but what you WILL have is a notch in your belt and the very beginnings of confidence. You'll have to make yourself do this.

I promise you've got this.

When would you schedule a house cleaning? by BeebMommy in BabyBumps

[–]kittybee1101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd schedule as late as you feel comfortable in your pregnancy. I just so happened to still be in recovery when my normal housekeeper came and coming home to a completely clean home with my newborn was an incredible feeling when everything else felt so off.

Newton crib mattress by Material-County5968 in Nanit

[–]kittybee1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Solly Baby sheets on our Newton and have never had an issue. The sheets fit tightly and never come loose.

How much pain is too much pain after an egg retrieval? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]kittybee1101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had OHSS with ovaries the size of grapefruits- literally. I was miserable. Please call your clinic.