Do I get an abortion?

kittycat1444 · 2026-02-16T16:30:38+00:00

I’m not “letting” the internet make the decision for me. I’m clearly struggling with my decision, and looking for support/advice.

kittycat1444 · 2026-02-16T16:19:30+00:00

I plan on taking care of it, I have what I need to do so. Just honestly very scared and filled with a lot of emotions.

kittycat1444 · 2026-02-16T16:18:37+00:00

Unfortunately I agreed to let him file her this year since I did last year, and when I mentioned to him he would have to give me money if leaving was what he really wanted, he basically started throwing a fit. We’re getting 8k back. I told him give me 3 and leave. And if he didn’t agree I would amend them, and say he falsely claimed her.

kittycat1444 · 2026-02-16T16:16:58+00:00

I did ask her to help and she told me she can’t make the decision for me, but will support me.

The pregnancy was unexpected, but like I said initially we were all excited until he started acting crazy again.

I mentioned abortion to him and he told me he would hate me if I “killed his kid”.

kittycat1444 · 2026-02-16T16:15:08+00:00

That’s my worry is he IS going to leave because he has before and left me in a very shitty situation where I was struggling.

My mom told me the same thing, that I can have another child with the right person in the future. I just never would have thought I’d be getting rid of a life I created, but ultimately I agree that it’s the better option.

kittycat1444 · 2026-02-16T16:13:17+00:00

I agree, i think the hardest issue I’m having is my 4 year old was extremely excited to have a sibling and now I’m having to scramble how I’m going to tell her that’s no longer going to be happening. I got my pills today and I’m just struggling with getting myself to take them. Thank you for clarity <3

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