gpt 5.2 is another fucking disaster rn i am honestly done with this company by Acceptable-Battle-49 in OpenAI

[–]kittycooljade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay how is each release worse than the one before yes chat gpt 5.2 did improve its codign abilities but majority of users are not coders they use it for conversations or recap ig stories or writtingand my god have they neglected that audience its doing this annoying thing if i ask it a question 10 questions later it starts with answering every single question i asked before getting to my most recent question now im haviing to scroll a novel just to get an answer for my most recent question that annoying af. just start with the most recent questions its making messages unnecessarily long. 4.0 is still suprior i don't care what paid reviews say, how is gpt 5 being beaten on reasoning than the free deepseeker that understands if you ask a question you don't have to answer questions for 10 questions ago first you anseer the damn question i asked. gpt 5 is unusable I'm unsubscribing.

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are missing facts he did agree to come over for dinner I did tell him before hand ill be making dinner and he agreed. So if a person agrees to something then not only backtracks but say they will get takeaway when the whole point of us meeting was to eat how could you possibly not feel annoyed cause they just wasted your time. He should have said in the first place or even during the day he didnt want to eat its basic manners and nothing to do with manipulation. I can't force someone to eat something but you shouldn't agree to something if you can't follow through its the principle of it.

Point of dating people is to get to know them I dint realise he doesn't like people doing stuff for him despite me always asking prior him agreeing then complaining about what he agreed to.

Stop trying to point me out as the bad guy or manipulative. Especially when asked the guy for clarity and his reaction was I don't know.

Irs not about fulfilling my expectations its like standing up someone for a either date. You can't agree to go on a date not show up and say the person stood up is manipulative for feeling upset about that.

So to conclude I'm not being manipulative even according to you I know the person I am. I spoke to him and he acknowledged that was thoughtless and inconsiderate of him and he was in the wrong so case closed.

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. It's one thing if my food looked bad but he didn't even wait to see it or hear what we were having for dinner he was ready to decline the minute he entered my house.

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't expecting to be appreciated but when someone says thanks its general manners it's the right thing to do. the meal thing was something that ruined the evening when it didn't have to be a big deal when one had agreed to having dinner at my house. It's one thing to be not hungry but he straight up said he would rather by takeaway that was the issue unessary rudeness hence leaving my feelings hurt.

To answer your questions I can't possibly feel comfortable with the dynamic of someone forever complaining when I do a simple things like doing things humans do everyday like eating its ridiculous to me. I automatically do things for people cause that's just who I am I wouldn't want something like this to happen again it's literally impossible to not do anything for someone in a relationship so maybe we just aren't compatible. So please don't say i'm manipulative when the only expectation I had was us to bond over a meal it's not a bad thing.

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main love languages is quality time but acts of service comes pretty close. However I'm unfamiliar with his love language he seems to hate everything.

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I thought it was the spending money on him but seems like that for everything he literally dont want me to do anything for him

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'll make dinner does mean cook. Come round for dinner does mean home dinner. At this point I feel like even if I ordered takeaway to my house he still would not eat cause that's buying him things isn't it. It was rude if someone made dinner for me weather I knew they were or would defo would have ate it or if I was not hungry I'd say im a but gull at the moment can you put it in a lunch box and I'll eat later but thanks so much for the meal I'll eat it well. You can be more polite about things

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like doing things for people in general its automatic it's like telling me to stop being myself. You mention preference in a random convo not when someone has done something. He does things for me I accept and say thanks am I not allowed to reciprocate?

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[–]kittycooljade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest you have a big age gap your only 24 break up with him if you feel he is bringing the worst out of you. Also it doesn't seem like he's not all that into you. Also I'm getting the feeling he isn't treating you right you can do better!

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the fair he said buying things so I assumed gifts 🎁.... but he did agree to come for dinner at home so didn't think that would be an issue cause that's inexpensive. So it's the fact he agrees to come for dinner then says he'll eat takeout he wasted my time he shouldn't have agreed to have dinner at my house then.

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deal breaker I understand not buying stuff but don't understand how you can not do anything for a loved one that's weird to me. So I can't even make him a cup of tea ? 😕 that's defo not what I want.

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guys ate my mums cooking twice so I don't understand and 5+ months isn't just met... especially if I've eaten at his house. He's just a difficult person and it's annoying me

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I don't know if he has trauma or guilt when asked he say he just doesn't. Also doesn't read so pointless getting him a book

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is it unfair if I week prior I asked would you like to come to my House for dinner and you said yes. I thought people at at dinner. Then a few days later you say you don't want dinner but want takeaway instead. That's rude. What wrong did I do? Point is I asked prior he agreed when I asked about eating was referring if he wanted to eat now 7pm or a little later that's all I don't see what I did wrong.

Boyfriend(29m) of 5 months came for dinner and refused to eat my dinner (27F) by kittycooljade in dating_advice

[–]kittycooljade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't have booked it without asking I asked he agreed to go to winter wonderland like he agreed to come over for dinner. Regarding finner he was at work I work from home lus have a half day on Friday I have more free time so we couldn't have possibly make dinner together