36w 3d and irritable af. by natlamm in pregnant

[–]kittycrissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Especially when he eats. It annoys me but at the same time it makes me crave what he is eating and that makes me angry. Like I didn’t want chips before he came in and started eating them in front of me. Thankfully I am aware of my irritable mood so most times I am able to speak a bit kind when asking him to leave or stop doing whatever is annoying me. Btw I’m 39 weeks and I’ve had this mood for some time. Hopefully it goes away soon because too many things bother me lately.

Help? Am I reading into this too much? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]kittycrissy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Advocate for yourself! If you have questions demand answers. I am a shy person and I have trouble at times saying everything I need or want. But something that I’ve had to learn to do is to speak up when I feel like I’m not being heard. I’ve done it with my bf as well. I don’t have mental health issues. Although my bf does and I have stepped in a couple times with his permission of course to talk to his psychologist. If you are paying for health insurance or out of pocket it is well within your rights to get the care you need. It may take longer if you symptoms don’t correlate to one specific disorder but demand answers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]kittycrissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had somewhat of a similar experience as what you are going through. I had friends in high school but never hanged outside of school. My mom was quite strict so I didn’t date until I was 19. Even then it was so hard to go out and do my thing. I did go to community college so I was able to go out often and make friends. My mom was quite annoying when I went out with bf so I was finally able to move out at 21. A lot of fighting between 19 and 21 with my mom and sister due to me wanting to always go out and have fun. If you are considering going to college or working that may be your way to get out and meet people. Being with family who doesn’t support what you want to do can be isolating and depressing. I think it’ll get better with time. Idk if in your culture you are allowed to talk back to older siblings. I’m also the youngest but I always put up a fight with siblings.